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A Dom or a sub have nothing to do with topping and bottoming although they can be one. It's like saying monkeys eat bananas but not everything that eats bananas is a monkey. Try these books for more details. The Topping Book : Or, Getting Good at Being Bad by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt This is book was a very fun and informative read. It talks about the rights and responsibilities of the Top and what it is like to be a top. It tells you that Tops and bottoms are equals. Dossie and Catherine are always very good about including all genders, preferences, and relationships. The Bottoming Book: How to Get Terrible Things Done to You by Wonderful People by Dossie Easton, Catherine A. Liszt Catherine & Dossie give us another great book. It is short and concise and very helpful. The sections on the psychological effects are particularly well explained. The authors repeatedly validate the experience of the person-as-bottom, whether that person identifies solely as a bottom or as a top who desires to experience bottoming, or as the in-betweener who likes it all.
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-=BDSM Book List=- Reading is Fundamental !!! I give good thread.
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