sub4hire -> RE: whats the mark of a true dom? (9/10/2004 9:32:05 AM)
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say its all down to the sub..if the sub gives his or herself up for total use then that makes the dom stronger and the sub weaker or am i wrong? (end Quote Certainly not in my opinion. Submissives are not weak, in my experiences generally they are much stronger than Dominants. alot of people claim to be dom but if put to the test they dont live up to being a true dom? Again, what exactly is a true Dom? Your opinion is going to vary much from my opinion. What test are we referring to? (quote) another way of defining a true dom is self confidence and the will to win and dominate, not all have those but those that do often overpower those who are weak, but the weak can draw streghth from the strong and one day rise up and dominate the dom!! anyway whats your opinion? (end quote) Having the confidence to win? What a load of crap. So, we are to assume no submissives have their shit together? What about the ones with MBA's? What about all of the submissives who run companies? Do you think a Dom would never work for them? So let's say I am 18 and my Dom works as a clerk at 7-11 he gets pushed around by his 24 year old boss all day long. Does that mean he is not a Dom and we are living a lie? Because he can effectively Dominate me? I have inner strength I don't have to prey on the witless to get more. To be able to rise up. Yeah right. When you talk bout rising up, to me that sounds like..ok I've been abused all of this time. I can't handle it anymore..so you know what? Today I'm going to gain that strength deep inside of me and pick up that baseball bat and connect with the side of your head. At least that is what I hear there. (quote) is power given from the weak to so called doms who then play a role to satisfy the weak, or is dominate defined by a strong personality and the ability to make people do what you say? This is my opinion take it or leave it I can care less. We are all on different levels. Different emotional levels. Different intellectual levels. Different monetary levels. Different family levels. All of these play part of our lives and make us who we are. If penis size is important to me...soooo important that size matters. I want a Dom with a huge one. Can he be as dumb as dirt? Oh yes. Could he Dominate you? Maybe, maybe not. But he sure can Dominate me because he has exactly what I want in life. We all want different things. To me what a Dom is, is definately not your definition of a Dom.
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