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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

LOL

I'll never forget the first time I came home with it this color. I walked in and you just went "Holy crap... it's... red!".

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I think it's the red hair. It makes me easier to see.

As does the green skin

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LOL

I'll never forget the first time I came home with it this color. I walked in and you just went "Holy crap... it's... red!".

I expressed the desire to go red recently, Sinergy knows some hair people in West Hollywood because I want the best dying my nearly ass length hair.... and even at that I am afraid to do it. Sinergy doesn't think I would look good as a red head even though some people think my hair is already that color....

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As does the green skin

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Yes I see that now AS... Perhaps it would have been more pleasing to some if I'd left out the part about him being married. But that wouldn't have been honest and would have seemed more like an attention grab than anything.

There is no vanilla in this mans life. His wife is far more tame than I but then she is also twice my age. And I can see where you all are coming from. No he doesn't want to get caught. I said that myself. But saying that he doesn't care what's best for me requires more background. His wife knows about me. It isn't a matter of getting caught anymore. It's a matter of not allowing physical evidence to surface. He did that on his own. He made a choice and took a big risk and chose me. He drove 900 miles to come get when my car broke down in an ice storm. He told her where he was going and why. His wife knows what I am to him and has for a while now.

The reason I said secrecy was about to be an issue is I'm moving into the same building as a coworker. That would provide her the witness and evidence she needs. That cannot happen for is youngest daughters sake. She needs her daddy to be there while she finishes college. Then it's divorce time.

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ORIGINAL: tnpainslut

Yes I see that now AS... Perhaps it would have been more pleasing to some if I'd left out the part about him being married. But that wouldn't have been honest and would have seemed more like an attention grab than anything.

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Yes I see that now AS... Perhaps it would have been more pleasing to some if I'd left out the part about him being married. But that wouldn't have been honest and would have seemed more like an attention grab than anything.

There is no vanilla in this mans life. His wife is far more tame than I but then she is also twice my age. And I can see where you all are coming from. No he doesn't want to get caught. I said that myself. But saying that he doesn't care what's best for me requires more background. His wife knows about me. It isn't a matter of getting caught anymore. It's a matter of not allowing physical evidence to surface. He did that on his own. He made a choice and took a big risk and chose me. He drove 900 miles to come get when my car broke down in an ice storm. He told her where he was going and why. His wife knows what I am to him and has for a while now.

The reason I said secrecy was about to be an issue is I'm moving into the same building as a coworker. That would provide her the witness and evidence she needs. That cannot happen for is youngest daughters sake. She needs her daddy to be there while she finishes college. Then it's divorce time.

What a little charmer you are.
Your post doesn't make sense though...
These days you don't need evidence or witnesses to get a divorce.
He already admitted to her that he is cheating right?
Oh, and staying together for the childrens' sake?
That's something MANY cheating men tell their f*** buddies, to keep them hoping for a future.

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ORIGINAL: silverosepetals

you must have felt something towards him, even if it wasnt a real bf/gf relationship...you dont just serve someone b/c you like to serve (at least i dont)...you must feel drawn to them or respect them, care about them, love them? something? i dont really understand the whole having a Dom but they arent your significant other thing...my Doms have always been my bf's or gf...
anyway, to answer your question, yes...i think it totally normal to feel lost without him and betrayed and alone and even if you werent in a relationship of the traditional sort, spending time with someone and being close to someone like that, showing him parts of your inner being, expressing your true desires that you never revealed to anyone before him, im suprised you arent more upset...he is the one who discovered you, the first one you submitted to, but he wont be your last...i wish you luck...

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

But not the married ones that want kinky sex?

If his wife knows all about you and is cool with it, then why is he sneaking around? You can't get it both ways. And I'd bet money the daughter will graduate, marry, have kids and he'll still be married.

Oh yeah, your six month fling is nothing compared to a vanilla who has been married for 50 years who loses their spouse to death.

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But not the married ones that want kinky sex?

If his wife knows all about you and is cool with it, then why is he sneaking around? You can't get it both ways. And I'd bet money the daughter will graduate, marry, have kids and he'll still be married.

Oh yeah, your six month fling is nothing compared to a vanilla who has been married for 50 years who loses their spouse to death.

I suppose I get annoyed at people who think that just because someone told them when to go to the bathroom and spanked their hiney that this somehow makes what they shared anymore important or more meaningful than what anyone else feels....

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I didn't say she was cool with it... She would love to kill me I'm sure.
I wasn't trying to imply that what I had was more important or special than anyone elses relationship. And I clearly said that I don't feel it could be compared to a vanilla relationship. So yeah. Someone being married 50 years would be different.

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But not the married ones that want kinky sex?

If his wife knows all about you and is cool with it, then why is he sneaking around? You can't get it both ways. And I'd bet money the daughter will graduate, marry, have kids and he'll still be married.

Oh yeah, your six month fling is nothing compared to a vanilla who has been married for 50 years who loses their spouse to death.

I suppose I get annoyed at people who think that just because someone told them when to go to the bathroom and spanked their hiney that this somehow makes what they shared anymore important or more meaningful than what anyone else feels....

I didn't say she was cool with it... She would love to kill me I'm sure.
I wasn't trying to imply that what I had was more important or special than anyone elses relationship. And I clearly said that I don't feel it could be compared to a vanilla relationship. So yeah. Someone being married 50 years would be different.