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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

Be interesting, intelligent, personable, sociable, fun to be around, and develop good social skills.  Treat dommes like human beings.  Be considerate of our feelings rather than focused on your getting what you want.  Avoid being rude, sexual, or overly intimate with a lady to start with.  Don't even bring up sex or kink unless she indicates you should - just spend time treating her like a person and a lady you would like to get to know.  Care about what she thinks and feels and says, and show it.  Read her profile very thoroughly and see what you can strike up a non offensive conversation about that she would find interesting. 

Shockingly, the majority of male "subs" don't do any of those things, so if you can, you will definitely stand out.