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Daddys - 2/23/2010 9:43:04 AM   
mandmlv


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Status: offline 		I am a Dom of many years experience, and my sub just revealed a fantasy to have me "Daddy" her.  I am anxious to hear from 'little ones' who want to help me understand My sub's needs.
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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 9:48:37 AM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mandmlv

I am a Dom of many years experience, and my sub just revealed a fantasy to have me "Daddy" her.  I am anxious to hear from 'little ones' who want to help me understand My sub's needs.


not all "little ones" are cut from the same cloth. this slave would encourage you to communicate with yours if you want to gain insight about her.

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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 9:56:46 AM   
UniqueRaven


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From: Austin, TX
Status: offline 		Yes, i agree with beth. i'm very very "girly" in some ways but don't know that i would ever identify as a "little one." And there are some "Daddy" things i love and some that skeeve me out, being that i have a daughter of my own.

If i may offer my advice, talk with her and see what her needs are, and what you can provide....and then go from there. Take it slow, and have fun! It's supposed to be fun, so don't make it too "mental".....just enjoy.

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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 10:44:48 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		If your many years of experience tell you to ask others what the fuck to do...I would revise your resume.

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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 12:59:43 PM   
afkarr


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Status: offline 		FWB recently mentioned his Daddy desires. Having not gone there before, Igogled asnd searched- and found there as many varities of Daddy Doms as anythng else. Back to square one- I just asked him what he had in mind.

Only your girl- and you- can figure out which elements of being a Daddy work for you.

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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 5:04:01 PM   
winterlight


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Status: offline 		Why don't you ask her what she needs? What does she desire? What kind of Daddy does she want?

Have her make a list of the above and anything else she can think of.

Go to the source of information....your girl..

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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 9:46:15 PM   
antipode


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quote:

I am anxious to hear from 'little ones' who want to help me understand My sub's needs.


And you think the "little ones" can somehow divine the needs of a person they know nothing about? (Hint: "my sub" is not quite a full description of a person)

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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 9:51:25 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

I am anxious to hear from 'little ones' who want to help me understand My sub's needs.


And you think the "little ones" can somehow divine the needs of a person they know nothing about? (Hint: "my sub" is not quite a full description of a person)



No but maybe they can give him some wanking material! ;-)

- LA


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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 9:54:46 PM   
mikeyOfGeorgia


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Status: offline 		why is it always only "Daddies" and not "Mommies"?

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RE: Daddys - 2/23/2010 9:59:28 PM   
heartcream


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From: Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop
Status: offline 		Well I guess a 'little one' who might have something to say here would rather wilt.

I think it is important to go ask his girl what she wants/needs/desires but is it really so hideous and mean he is not freaking domly because he came here and asked yalls? Is it the subject matter that turns the plate upside down? I dont know this guys intent whether wank fodder or not but maybe not huh?

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RE: Daddys - 3/10/2010 11:01:46 AM   
littlegirlangel


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Status: offline 		It depends on her definition of being "Daddied" and would it be sexual, non sexual? Is it a role play or something more? There's a lot to age play and being a Daddy and a little/babygirl/adult baby. 

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RE: Daddys - 3/10/2010 11:24:05 AM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

not all "little ones" are cut from the same cloth. this slave would encourage you to communicate with yours if you want to gain insight about her.


Can't argue with that logic. Well said beth.


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RE: Daddys - 3/10/2010 11:45:24 AM   
osf


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ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

Yes, i agree with beth. i'm very very "girly" in some ways but don't know that i would ever identify as a "little one." And there are some "Daddy" things i love and some that skeeve me out, being that i have a daughter of my own.

If i may offer my advice, talk with her and see what her needs are, and what you can provide....and then go from there. Take it slow, and have fun! It's supposed to be fun, so don't make it too "mental".....just enjoy.



But , you're a cute little one

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RE: Daddys - 3/10/2010 12:09:15 PM   
MasterSlaveLA


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mandmlv

I am a Dom of many years experience, and my sub just revealed a fantasy to have me "Daddy" her... help me understand My sub's needs.


Here you go --->  What is a Daddy Dom?





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RE: Daddys - 3/19/2010 5:32:14 AM   
Zechriel


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Status: offline 		Good morning,
Best idea would be to talk to her..maybe over a period so she does not feel overwhelmed, about what she needs or would like. It absolutely differs from one Daddy to the next. To me, Daddy holds me, lets me cuddle with him, worry about him, pout (sometimes), lets me vent lots of times and get frustrated to which he comforts me. Rarely do I dress up or do age play. Before we got together I never imagined I would be in this type of relationship but once we met, he called himself Daddy and it just clicked. I needed that and I needed him to be that. Little by little you can draw out what she is thinking when she says that so good luck!
Very truly,
Zechriel


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RE: Daddys - 3/19/2010 7:46:04 AM   
UniqueRaven


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From: Austin, TX
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quote:

ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: UniqueRaven

Yes, i agree with beth. i'm very very "girly" in some ways but don't know that i would ever identify as a "little one." And there are some "Daddy" things i love and some that skeeve me out, being that i have a daughter of my own.

If i may offer my advice, talk with her and see what her needs are, and what you can provide....and then go from there. Take it slow, and have fun! It's supposed to be fun, so don't make it too "mental".....just enjoy.



But , you're a cute little one


Actually, i'm not as cute as most think - i'm a ninja slave! *disappears with a swish*

.........what?


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