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RE: Jealousy/ Possessivness? - 6/14/2010 2:27:43 PM

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Is it being possesive if after you share her you want her back?

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RE: Jealousy/ Possessivness? - 6/15/2010 1:25:03 AM

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These are some good articles regarding jealousy and possessiveness. I have encountered these issues and will get jealous and possessive when I am involved in a relationship. My last relationship was a downfall for me due to my insecurity and jealousy. There was bad communication and misunderstanding coming from the ex-dom and me.

If a dom and sub have a very secure relationship with honesty and communication, these insecurities would be minimal. I have learned my lesson well and instead of being jealous, I try to be a better person. I guess I am a work in progress.

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RE: Jealousy/ Possessivness? - 6/15/2010 1:29:30 AM

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I find that Owner / property relationship is actually a celebration of possessiveness.

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RE: Jealousy/ Possessivness? - 6/15/2010 10:23:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

I find that Owner / property relationship is actually a celebration of possessiveness.

How did you find that?

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RE: Jealousy/ Possessivness? - 6/15/2010 11:03:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SocratesNot
I find that Owner / property relationship is actually a celebration of possessiveness.

I disagree. Possessing something and being possessive about it are not the same thing. I can possess a radio and still loan it out to all my friends and not even be all that worried if I ever get it back again.

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