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ageplay switches - 3/29/2006 10:42:53 AM

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Here's a new topic -- how does one 'switch' in ageplay...?

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/29/2006 10:52:31 AM

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Simply put: if the roles aren't static, you can play different ages. If they are, remember how controlling a child can be over their Mommy or Daddy. Dommy little brats!

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/29/2006 10:55:46 AM

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I have no idea HOW it happens, but I know that it does. I could be walking along with my partner in normal me/him mode, and I will see something, or something will happen, or I'll just slide into that little girl headspace and go from there. He picks up on this and goes into his daddy headspace and we're in the dynamic!

I know some people have rituals, specific patterns they do to make the change easier for them, but it works.

If you're talking perhaps how does a little girl top a big old man? It's really not that hard. It's all about perspective- a demanding little girl with a doting older person who is completely wrapped around her thumb...it works.

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/29/2006 11:15:47 AM

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Take turns coloring.

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/30/2006 4:43:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
If you're talking perhaps how does a little girl top a big old man? It's really not that hard. It's all about perspective- a demanding little girl with a doting older person who is completely wrapped around her thumb...it works.

*laughs* I couldn't have stated it better. There are quite a few Dommy kids out there .. while we're at it.. there are quite a few Dommy animals too.

No matter which "role" you see yourself in.. there is a way to sub or Dom from it.

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/30/2006 6:55:26 AM

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Excellent answers -- gold stars for everyone!

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/30/2006 4:25:17 PM

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When your kids think they know it all....and suddenly instead of teaching them, you are now hiding from them.
They can yell ali, ali, in come free all they want....I got a beer and they'll never find me here.....The little Bastards!

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/30/2006 5:47:08 PM

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When your kids think they know it all....and suddenly instead of teaching them, you are now hiding from them.
They can yell ali, ali, in come free all they want....I got a beer and they'll never find me here.....The little Bastards!

Kevin

That often leads to a father fishing. All the time.

In the backyard.

Out of a bucket.

Starts right about whne they hit puberty.

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/30/2006 11:49:44 PM

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heheheh....One of my brothers and his wife have 8 kids plus they are foster
parents. When he built his house it included not 2 or 3 but 6 bathrooms!
This was the result of the frustration he expressed by muttering under his
breath, "Every time I need to use the bathroom there is always a damn kid
in there!"

He also keeps the bathroom in the master bedroom suite stocked with magazines.
My theory is that the "fancy throne room" is his one refuge of peace and quiet
in the whole 2 story +1 large attic house.

Good luck with your 2 boys fastlane. They will not doubt lead you on many
a merry chase.

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When your kids think they know it all....and suddenly instead of teaching them, you are now hiding from them.
They can yell ali, ali, in come free all they want....I got a beer and they'll never find me here.....The little Bastards!

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/31/2006 12:03:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Take turns coloring.

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i second that motion!

i agree with LA, though...it's all a matter of perspective.

and crayon color. and sharpness. i'm currently missing one of those niftly little crayon sharpeners and it's just screwing things all up. ;)

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RE: ageplay switches - 3/31/2006 5:18:43 AM

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I agree with Lucky, for some it just "happens." I live a poly lifestyle and I don't engage in age play with My subboy. Now let's move a little closer to home. My Hubby/Dom is another matter. One look from Him and I'm immediately placed in that little girl mentality. He admitted surprise when in one scene some time I ago, I went from being tha naughty little slut He was accustomed to, to an demanding lil nympho with her own agenda. When it was all over He turned to Me all breathless and said, "I've been topped," as if it was suddenly not as foreign a concept. I giggled and nodded as that was the first time I had taken the initiative in that fashion. While my Hubby/Dom still doesn't consider Himself a "Switch" per se I can't say He resists too much when I get a lil aggressive in a very little girl wrapping her Daddy kind of way.

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