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sunshinemiss -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:33:20 AM)

It's possible for domi to be greater than he already is?  Lord have mercy, his swollen head will never get through the door.  He'll be like an onion headed chihuahua.




came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:37:44 AM)

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Truthfully I realize that my standards seem high and that I'm a difficult person. But my standards seem high because I'm simply refusing to settle for less than what I desire and there is nothing inherently wrong with that.

As for my being difficult, any woman that's with me would have to be just my type, or reasonably close to it, or they just wouldn't get me at all. I'm not expecting perfection, I'm just hoping for my dreams to come true. Which seems to bother many people here.

I'm also very aware that the woman I'm looking for is likely to be one in a billion. But it is THAT one that I'm looking for. Be she here, or elsewhere, she will see me for who I am and find me to be desirable.

I'm not here to appeal to those that would find me unappealing. I'm here to fill a niche for that person that seeks someone like myself. People can despise me all they like, it doesn't bother me. I'm not here to cater to their whims.

On an average day I'm normally pretty laid back. However, the supreme arrogance displayed on this forum and the overall "know-it-all" attitude many people seem to have is very off-putting and not putting me in a good mood.

Simply put...I didn't ask for "advice" and in most instances it wasn't wanted or appreciated. I'm actually rather surprised that people here can be so brazen and expect no backlash. It's actually kind of disturbing.

Perhaps others here are comfortable with the way many of you approach newcomers, but I'm not. I didn't come here for a popularity contest or to see how many women I could nail before the week is through.

I came here to find THE ONE, the one that will redefine me. The one that will help me become better than I am. The one that will heal me. I don't expect her to be here, but it would certainly be nice.


k this will be shorter than what i intended because last time CM ate my longer reply lol

dunno what it is with you but honestly,

1. most women (slave or nay) do not want a man they have to 'fix'.

2. some of us already have raised children, we don't need another.

3. nor do some prefer to choose a *coughs* grown man who needs another grown man to pin his mittens on.

4. I believe George Hamilton believed he would look 35 at 70 too. We all think at that at 30.

5. I do imagine though, that between whippings, I'd find you reading Spiderman comics.

6. You may only be 31 but to me, you are frankly too old to be fixed and the damage is done.

7. reminds me of this drivel: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NpWAlvWNZj0, no thanks.




sirsholly -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:39:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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I did note that I desire someone that can redefine my existence and make me a better person.
Oh for petes sake. Fella. if you are looking for someone to redefine your existence, i suggest you log off the computer and get thy ass to a therapist.

As to making you a better person? Where do you get off dumping that responsibility on someone else? YOU are responsible for the quality of a person that you are. If you are seeking someone for self improvement, i would first wish you luck, and second tell you you are a lazy jerk who is unwilling improve himself on his own.



I disagree with some of this statement. I know we have battled in the past where you were wrong and I did my job in acknowledging that fact.

I am not always the same person when in and out of a relationship. The "right" person can inspire.

When single I don't care about whether the toilet seat is left "up", or about the poo that just might have been sitting in said toilet for the last few weeks. When dating or involved with a woman I might actually take the time to flush away the turds.

She can inspire me towards greatness.
Reread the post. He is not looking for inspiration, He is looking for redefinition of existence and for someone to make him a better person. He is looking for healing.

Personally..i am the same in or out of a relationship. If i require a s/o to make me a better person, then it doesn't say much for who i was prior to the relationship. A relationship w/ the right person does not redefine, nor does it change...it enhances




domiguy -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:42:09 AM)

Give the guy a break. What the fuck is wrong with you subbies?

So the kid has got a few crazy ideas rattling around his cute lil' ol noggin'.

He wants a woman that will make him want to improve his life...What is wrong with that?

How many of you subby fucks are not dying to find the same in a man? All the fucking time we hear how woman want to be inspired and nurtured.

Inspire and nurture yourselves you cold repugnant whores.




BLoved -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:43:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
Give the guy a break. What the fuck is wrong with you subbies?

So the kid has got a few crazy ideas rattling around his cute lil' ol noggin'.

He wants a woman that will make him want to improve his life...What is wrong with that?

How many of you subby fucks are not dying to find the same in a man? All the fucking time we hear how woman want to be inspired and nurtured.

Inspire and nurture yourselves you cold repugnant whores.


Amen.




Smutmonger -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:44:06 AM)

Submissive women are not looking for a kid to fix,I must agree. A leadership role requires confidence and ability to pull off. The last thing they want is someone who is a sucking emotional black hole-with enough baggage to fill the grand canyon.

At the same time, I wonder about guys with a "white knight complex"........since it so often points to some very basic lacks in self if you have to "fix" other people to feel good about yourself.




Jeffff -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:45:42 AM)

Wooooooo boy... the Uni is gonna be busy this week!




came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:48:26 AM)

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Inspire and nurture yourselves you cold repugnant whores.


thanks Domi,

but I already do that 3x a day. I wash up between sessions though.




sirsholly -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:48:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Give the guy a break. What the fuck is wrong with you subbies?

So the kid has got a few crazy ideas rattling around his cute lil' ol noggin'.

He wants a woman that will make him want to improve his life...What is wrong with that?

How many of you subby fucks are not dying to find the same in a man? All the fucking time we hear how woman want to be inspired and nurtured.

Inspire and nurture yourselves you cold repugnant whores.
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ORIGINAL: Dante17677

There are women that are compelled to heal and feel incomplete without doing so. If I were unbroken, I would not appeal to them. It is that kind of woman that I seek. One that desires to heal. One that has a sense of compassion so profound that it is an undeniable compulsion. 
this is not a desire for inspiration, nurturing, etc. This is someone who is looking to dump a huge responsibility onto someone else because he is unwilling/able to achieve self improvement on his own.

If he can't heal himself, he has no business expecting someone else to do so.




juliaoceania -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:49:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dante17677

At least UniqueRaven is nice.

I don't mean to come across as negative, it's just hard to sound positive when you're under attack from bitter grandparents that can't keep their rude opinions to themselves.

You seem nice though.





You are almost old enough to be a grandparent yourself... you do realize you are not 20 or even 25 years old anymore, you are over 30. You sound like a Peter Pan




came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:51:35 AM)

But, Holly

he is asking for a life-makeover that even Oprah and her gang cannot fulfill.

then again, by 31 (when most of us have long had our sh*t together)...sometimes you just can't fix stupid.




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:53:57 AM)

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Reread the post. He is not looking for inspiration, He is looking for redefinition of existence and for someone to make him a better person. He is looking for healing.


Nope, Hols, he's looking for someone with perfect pornstar looks who would be willing to become a hermit like he is.




Smutmonger -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:54:43 AM)

A lot of us here have been involved with people who come across exactly like the op-and they suck. They suck your time,your energy,your emotional well being-and you get a pay back in misery.


I guess we wish we had bitch slapped these people the same way ourselves-only before the fact-rather than after?

I don't think it's about age,as much as "once bitten,twice shy."

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: Dante17677

At least UniqueRaven is nice.

I don't mean to come across as negative, it's just hard to sound positive when you're under attack from bitter grandparents that can't keep their rude opinions to themselves.

You seem nice though.





You are almost old enough to be a grandparent yourself... you do realize you are not 20 or even 25 years old anymore, you are over 30. You sound like a Peter Pan






sirsholly -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:55:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: came4U

But, Holly

he is asking for a life-makeover that even Oprah and her gang cannot fulfill.

then again, by 31 (when most of us have long had our sh*t together)...sometimes you just can't fix stupid.
I have a mental image of Dante sitting down with Dr Phil

*shudders*




came4U -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:56:18 AM)

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he's looking for someone with perfect pornstar looks who would be willing to become a hermit like he is.


so...what you are saying is it would be like being locked up in the Dr. Phil house or rehab

FOR AN ETERNITY?

AAaAAAAaAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaa




littlewonder -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:56:31 AM)

Wow..yeah..good luck to ya dude.

You've got a loooooooooooooong wait!






sirsholly -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:56:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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Reread the post. He is not looking for inspiration, He is looking for redefinition of existence and for someone to make him a better person. He is looking for healing.


Nope, Hols, he's looking for someone with perfect pornstar looks who would be willing to become a hermit like he is.

who have more psych knowledge than boobage and can HEAL him.....




sirsholly -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:58:28 AM)

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ORIGINAL: came4U

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he's looking for someone with perfect pornstar looks who would be willing to become a hermit like he is.


so...what you are saying is it would be like being locked up in the Dr. Phil house or rehab

FOR AN ETERNITY?

AAaAAAAaAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaa
team his ass up with Dr Phil and i hope to god it is an eternity

*despises Dr Phil*




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:58:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: came4U

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he's looking for someone with perfect pornstar looks who would be willing to become a hermit like he is.


so...what you are saying is it would be like being locked up in the Dr. Phil house or rehab

FOR AN ETERNITY?

AAaAAAAaAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaa


Pretty much, only with more hostility and with someone who just sits at his pc all day. Take a peek at his profile and you'll see what I mean.  I would stick with Jim if I were you [:)]




domiguy -> RE: I Need a Slave to Love (2/28/2010 7:59:23 AM)

Before Jeffff and I met we were two lost turtle doves just hanging out on nonconnecting wires. Our lives were meaningless and we routinely shit right where we ate.

All that has changed.

Our song.....We sing it together at The Map Room

Fix You- Cold Play (Real men dig cold play)

When you try your best but you don't succeed
When you get what you want but not what you need
When you feel so tired but you can't sleep
Stuck in reverse.

And the tears come streaming down your face
When you lose something you can't replace
When you love someone but it goes to waste
Could it be worse?

Lights will guide you home
And ignite your bones
And I will try to fix you




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