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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/3/2010 9:25:03 PM

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P.S. You should costume for your military scene. GoodWill is your friend. Women's military wear is not a common thing there. Try Army/Navy surplus... Denver has a GREAT one! "FAke" it. Knee-high dark blue skirt, white blouse, dark tie (although now "tabs" are worn.) He can be in a jump suit - DAMN! I love a man in a jump suit - so very, very accessible.

AND!!!! Here's the best part of the "whole" thing..... Y'all can reverse roles. You can be inductee; him the Master Saregent. He can "dress you down." Literally, "strip you of your rank."

AND!!!! It leads to other power exchange role-play. One day: King & wench; The next Queen and Knight (keeping him in military role.)

ETC.!!!

This way, you can explore, figuring out what areas appeal to you both..... We don't call it "playing Doctor" for nothing! LOL! I'd say Male Doc and female receptionist or patient. Female Doc and orderly: "I told you to mop that floor." (Overalls for him, and a small closet....) Patients are "naturally" told to strip...... At least they were in my day... nowadays, they are afraid of privacy and lawsuits, etc... But I digress.........

Here's one a little more tricky for after you've played those scenes. Try male and female doctors meeting to discuss the research project they've shared, how much they each respect the other and yet they have some points of contention (Both in professional suits).... "I'm sure you don't mean that the FJ-factor could be that low." "Why yes, I do, Doctor." "You'll see what I mean when we meet next time on this," <whispering "bitch"/"bastard" one(or both) says as slamming down the briefcase. "I can't see why you're so passionate about this." And I can't see why you are." Burning eyes and nose-to-nose.... HOT! Nothing like angry sex. (And no special clothes needed!)

Oh! I got one for you..... You could be at the same hotel for a conference on the FJ-factor. Hotel has screwed up, giving you each keys to the same room... You (or he) are in shower when other walks in..... Power dynamic???? Anybody's guess.

Er..... you'll have to excuse me again.... Seems I once again have some personal business I must attend to. LOL!

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/3/2010 9:43:58 PM

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Riding crop? Google is your friend. I entered:

"riding crop"

with the quotes and got plenty of hits. Here's Amazon.com at $4.40 (plus shipping)

http://www.amazon.com/Riding-Crop-Braided-Genuine-Leather/dp/B001HRXGHE

CollarMe has a "For Sale" forum. I didn't check that. eBay probably has Women's Military outfits, come to think of it.

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/3/2010 9:55:01 PM

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btw, OH NO YOU DIDN'T QUOTE FROM ERICA JONG. i live by this quote (and several others) from Parachutes & Kisses:

"Better to be broken and stronger at the mended places than to live one's entire life in an impending fracture."

I'm always willing to learn, so I looked for the quote with each of parachutes and kisses. Sorry, but I kept coming up with Erica Jong. I got it from a day-timer-kinda-thingie, so who knows? I see NO reference to anyone BUT Erica Jong. Please advise. LOL!

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/4/2010 4:24:52 AM

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Lance your a genius and guess what my guys wearing this weekend

I have 2 military ladies uniforms that I got from ebay but be warned, good ones don't come along that often and so you need to keep your eyes peeled.

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/4/2010 7:58:02 AM

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Miss, I order you to post pics. You are to cmail me as to the location.

See how easy it is to give a command?

Two of them? Or more?..... Present arms! (with suits zipped down, but not too far.)

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/4/2010 8:26:49 AM

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* sits back and takes notes*

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/4/2010 8:39:38 AM

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By the way, if the OP decides to go with the nap-him-while-he-sleeps, use silk ropes that have been brought up to body temp and use slip knots. They will tighten as he struggles so they can be placed loosely about wrists and ankles.

To cinch them back without getting close enough for him to grab, loop the slack around a stick ( a broom handle works well in a pinch ) To draw back arms and legs, simply twist the stick so the slack is wrapped around it. ( Think how to tighten a tourniquet on a gushing artery. ) And voila, entrapment.

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/4/2010 9:01:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sanguinarian

By the way, if the OP decides to go with the nap-him-while-he-sleeps, use silk ropes that have been brought up to body temp and use slip knots. They will tighten as he struggles so they can be placed loosely about wrists and ankles.

To cinch them back without getting close enough for him to grab, loop the slack around a stick ( a broom handle works well in a pinch ) To draw back arms and legs, simply twist the stick so the slack is wrapped around it. ( Think how to tighten a tourniquet on a gushing artery. ) And voila, entrapment.

Sanguinarian: WIITWD is power exchange, not grab-the-body! At least WIIT<Lance>D is not rape scenes every time, all the time..... even though a rape scene is kinda fun, once-in-a-while, they can get boring.

IMHO, the OP was looking for something a little more sustainable, but more to the point, she is a beginning dom and was looking for ideas - but barking up the wrong tree. He said "THINK like a Dom." She was trying to think of how to top-FROM-the-bottom. That makes you a SAM, not a Dom.

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/7/2010 8:47:40 AM

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think about it..pull a mind fuck..I read on the other night..where they cuffed the guy broke some light bulbs in front of him..then blindfolded him..spun him around till he was a bit dizzy..made sure he was pointed away from the broken glass...then made to kneel on pototoe chip..lol

mmhmm. i like where that's going. that's something i could pull off as an idea of what to do with him after i get him, to establish my dominance. Jeffff was talking earlier about not being there when the handcuffs come off.. lol, Wood said i ought to keep him restrained for a good long while so it could sink in that i had him. lol, now i'm a lil scared but oh well. it'll be fun.

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/7/2010 8:53:52 AM

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AND!!!! It leads to other power exchange role-play. One day: King & wench; The next Queen and Knight (keeping him in military role.)

LMAO! that's how he got me! before i even knew that i was submissive, i was talking to him about Arthurian legend and this fantasy that i'd had about King Arthur (dom), a serving maid (sub), and a lady (switch). another friend that i told about it was like, "oh, that's nice." Wood was like, "I''ll be your Arthur. I'm pretty sure we can get chainmail on ebay." hook, line, sinker. :)

thanks, honey for your enthusiastic advice.

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/7/2010 9:00:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: Sanguinarian

By the way, if the OP decides to go with the nap-him-while-he-sleeps, use silk ropes that have been brought up to body temp and use slip knots. They will tighten as he struggles so they can be placed loosely about wrists and ankles.

To cinch them back without getting close enough for him to grab, loop the slack around a stick ( a broom handle works well in a pinch ) To draw back arms and legs, simply twist the stick so the slack is wrapped around it. ( Think how to tighten a tourniquet on a gushing artery. ) And voila, entrapment.

:takes notes: thanks. i'm not sure what i'll have to do to get him. i doubt i'll accomplish it the first time, but i'm going to try, and then after that, i'll have to chose a program that appeals to me. i read a really great post somewhere in the forum about predicament tortures that i would like to become savvy enough to try so i'll have to make attempts at restraints. Wood says he'll show me. he has a lesson plan from a class that he teaches, lol. gotta love a man who wants you to succeed with your goals, lmao.

thanks very much.

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RE: Suggestions On Subduing A Man? - 3/13/2010 9:13:06 PM

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A lot of other people have already made suggestions, so I'm not sure if you're still considering doing any wrestling or playfighting. IMHO, it can be a lot of fun, no matter who wins, or not set up as a contest at all. I've trained in several forms of martial arts, and while I can do most of the moves with a guy who is half a foot taller and twice as heavy, he can usually roll out of pins and ignore joint locks unless I'm willing to use enough force to risk physical injury. If you do play this way, make sure that things are cleared out of the way so neither of you accidentally get hurt.

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