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domiguy -> RE: A few switch questions... (7/2/2010 4:59:55 PM)

Then fly, Nehemia...Fly!!!

Shit! You cannot fly....It's kind of a hard limit.

When it comes to matters of the palate do you prefer stilettos to flats?



MindRiots -> RE: A few switch questions... (7/28/2010 10:39:32 PM)

I'm going to bypass the discourse and go straight to the heart of the issue by pointing out that your problem is in your rhetoric. You talk about it as if some strange identity crisis is at hand when we like variety. The idea that you have to be one or the other is flawed.

Whatever strange issues you have with understanding "because I wanna" is beyond me, but that is the only answer I can give you. Moreover, I think it is an answer that should suffice.



BotanicalMiss -> RE: A few switch questions... (10/24/2010 2:41:34 PM)


*Why do you choose to identify as a switch instead of dominant or submissive? 

Because I freely accept that I have both very strong dominant and submissive aspects and both need to be acknowledged.

*Do you identify as switch in conjunction with dominant/submissive/slave

Yes. Even though my dominant side is more prevalent, there is one who I submit to in small ways every day which gives me a lot of pleasure. We do not see him as being my dom, nor me as his sub, we just naturally work out with those roles subtly there. With those who submit to me, I am all dominant.

*Do you see switching as top/bottom or dominant/submissive in nature?

Depending on the personalities involved, it can be either. I have a play partner who I bottom to, and our scenes are typically for my pleasure as a bottom (not that he doesn't get a lot of fun out of it too! lol) The one time that bottoming truly turned into submission to him, it totally freaked me out and after discussing it with him, I think that going that deep is really more than either of us wants out of the relationship we have so we keep it more on a top/bottom level.

*Did you choose switch because you're still undecided?

I only chose switch after realizing and becoming comfortable with both sides of myself. I used to focus only on one and shut the other out completely, thinking that I had to be one or the other. It has only been after several years that I am really getting comfortable with all of me and letting people know that I may be more complex than they may think at first glance.

*What has been your impression of switches and their acceptance in the offline bdsm community? 

One local community I ventured into didn't seem to care for the idea of a switch; they wanted me to be one or the other. However, the group of folks I have gotten involved with in the last year are very accepting of switches and there are many of us who are active in the group. Most of them focus on who you are as a person, not what designation you carry in your relationships.



MIsabelah -> RE: A few switch questions... (10/24/2010 3:07:19 PM)

I love these questions very nice OP:

*Why do you choose to identify as a switch instead of dominant or submissive?

Because I like being myself (although I am naturally dominant) and enjoy both sides of the TPE.

*Do you identify as switch in conjunction with dominant/submissive/slave?

I go into D-mode or s-mode, because I am naturally dominant, I tend to be more comfortable projecting dominance, BUT, I will reveal the s-side of me with someone with whom I trust and will Switch with me, but understands that I view my s-mode as something important, private, and significant. Meaning, I do not reveal my s-side to just anyone.

*Do you see switching as top/bottom or dominant/submissive in nature?

I see switching as enjoying both sides of the D/s relationship so when I am in my D or s mode with a Switch not a dominant or submissive...we both can enjoy the lifestyle in a peaceful union. It becomes muddy when one is not being honest and really wants something else or to break someone else.

*Did you choose switch because you're still undecided?

No I was a slave for a time and then I was a dominant for a time. I realize I was happier being both. I am a true Switch.

*What has been your impression of switches and their acceptance in the offline bdsm community?

Personally, I don't care what the impression of switches are or have been. But I know some dominants who like to believe that switches are just brats who need to be tamed or broken. I don't believe in having multiple profiles. I am a Switch with a Switch profile what else do I need to be? I am not sure what submissives think. I stay in my own business and therefore enjoy being myself.




HannahLynHeather -> RE: A few switch questions... (4/22/2011 10:51:07 PM)

quote:

*Why do you choose to identify as a switch instead of dominant or submissive?
i am dominate sub women, and i submit to dommes. i can top/bottom to anybody.

quote:

*Do you identify as switch in conjunction with dominant/submissive/slave
not entirely sure what this means, but i'll take a stab at it. in my present relationship i am the dominant. in my previous relationship i was the submissive. before that i was just a submissive top or bottom (preferred) for basically whoever came along.
quote:

*Do you see switching as top/bottom or dominant/submissive in nature? 
both, see above.
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*Did you choose switch because you're still undecided?
no, not at all. i am quite firmly decided.
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*What has been your impression of switches and their acceptance in the offline bdsm community? 
what the fuck do i care about acceptance?
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*edited for spelling and grammer...ugh!
yes spelling and gram...oh, wait. oh, never mind.

hannah lynn



kittenrosemoon -> RE: A few switch questions... (4/26/2011 5:11:32 PM)

*Why do you choose to identify as a switch instead of dominant or submissive? 

Yes I am Submissive to Men and Dominant to Women

*Do you identify as switch in conjunction with dominant/submissive/slave

Yes (read above)

*Do you see switching as top/bottom or dominant/submissive in nature?

 Yes (read above above)

*Did you choose switch because you're still undecided?

No (read above above above)

*What has been your impression of switches and their acceptance in the offline bdsm community? 

Yes (and just bcuz read above above above above)


LOL I Love my sense of humor



sheisreeds -> RE: A few switch questions... (4/26/2011 6:04:50 PM)

*Why do you choose to identify as a switch instead of dominant or submissive?
It's not really a choice, it's just who I am.

*Do you identify as switch in conjunction with dominant/submissive/slave
Not at the moment, but I have and may in the future. These days I primarily identify as a violence driven sadomasochist. My favorite mode of play is all out fighting, not wrestling, since wrestling doesn't tend to end in pain and injury.

*Do you see switching as top/bottom or dominant/submissive in nature?
Both. Depends on the partner, and depends on the scene. Also switch in and off itself is an identity for me. My preferred relationships are with other switches with a lot of struggles for power and control.

*Did you choose switch because you're still undecided?
Hell no. There is no indecision about me.

*What has been your impression of switches and their acceptance in the offline bdsm community?
Fine, for a lot of people my fighting style of play is a little new, and at times a little shocking. Though my partner and I tend to get a lot of respect for what we do. Also tend to get a good audience which is always a bonus :)



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