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Your thoughts please - 3/3/2010 1:20:03 PM

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I wanted to get the perspective of subs on this one: Do you consider satisfying your Mistress orally during her period to be the equivalent of Toilet games? Or worse, better? Or just entirely different?

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/3/2010 8:06:54 PM

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I consider it a hard limit. But then again, so is toilet service, so I guess it would be equivalent.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/3/2010 8:45:44 PM

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Eeewww. But to each his or her own.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/3/2010 10:21:31 PM

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i have no problem with it as W/we are fluid bonded. my Mistress does not enjoy it.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/5/2010 8:56:38 PM

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Hi.

I've only met one sub that was into doing oral sex during mentruation. Why is it a guy can watch gory bloody flicks but he can't go down on a woman when she's on the rag? She's laying down on her back so it's not like it's going to get all over his face. Don't men realize how horny women are during their period? (Does this reply make me sound cranky? Could I be on the rag now? lol)

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/5/2010 10:17:00 PM

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Yea, as others have said, ewww. We have sex during my period, but not oral sex. I don't think he would have a big problem with it, but he does have a beard and well.....yea, ewww.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/6/2010 12:03:03 AM

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I earned my red wings before I ever considered getting into a D/s relationship. No I don't see it as anything like water sports or toilet play. If you're living with a woman and she's on the rag, this is simply a smart way to increase you chances of surviving.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/6/2010 4:11:37 PM

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/7/2010 4:17:39 AM

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Why is it a guy can watch gory bloody flicks but he can't go down on a woman when she's on the rag? She's laying down on her back so it's not like it's going to get all over his face.

And even if he would get all over his face, what would be the problem?

To me, this is still less humiliating than to feel her shit smash my face when she has a good diarrhea.

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Don't men realize how horny women are during their period?

Oh yes, I do.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/7/2010 6:53:29 AM

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YUCK, no comment

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/9/2010 2:36:14 PM

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I've known people who have no problem doing it, some who actually get turned on by it, and some who think it is utterly disgusting.

Like so much else, it's one of those "to each his/her own" kind of things.

But you asked how I felt about... personally, I think it is somewhat similar to toilet play, but within that field, is its own little thing. So while I may say I'm into toilet play, that doesn't mean I want someone to shit in my mouth; it may mean just that I think golden showers are hot (metaphorically as well as literally). So I would agree that oral sex during menstration IS toilet play, yes.

Thankfully for me, my Mistress thinks it's disgusting, so I never had to decide how I really felt about it.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/9/2010 4:23:17 PM

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YUCK, no comment

Ah - Osf - YUCK was a comment.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 3/9/2010 4:44:13 PM

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quote:

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Why is it a guy can watch gory bloody flicks but he can't go down on a woman when she's on the rag? She's laying down on her back so it's not like it's going to get all over his face.

And even if he would get all over his face, what would be the problem?

To me, this is still less humiliating than to feel her shit smash my face when she has a good diarrhea.

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Don't men realize how horny women are during their period?

Oh yes, I do.

All you need now is a straw and you've got a human shake maker.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 4/8/2010 6:47:11 PM

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This was asked from the standpoint of a sub servicing his/her mistress.

I would like to answer this from another perspective.

Master is much less squick-able than I am.

I belong to him.
He owns me.

If he sees that I am cramping and tells me to take a bath, I do.
If he chooses to have sex with me when I have my period, we have sex and I enjoy the pleasure he gives me as well as the joy in serving him.
If he chooses to play with me when I have my period, then he does.
If he chooses to go down on me during my period then he does that as well.
This is not at all because he is submissive nor because he is interested in toilet play.
This is because he owns all of me.
Nothing is hidden, there are no secrets and all of me is His.
Nothing is "off limits".

(and because of his high level of comfort I have become more so as well.)

Edit: to clarify

< Message edited by angelikaJ -- 4/8/2010 7:17:04 PM >

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RE: Your thoughts please - 4/8/2010 6:53:13 PM

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There's a huge difference in enjoying movies on a screen that are bloody and Gorey and FAKE that you're not tasting and smelling and experiencing , than playing with blood for real specially when you'll be tasting it.

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Hi.

I've only met one sub that was into doing oral sex during mentruation. Why is it a guy can watch gory bloody flicks but he can't go down on a woman when she's on the rag? She's laying down on her back so it's not like it's going to get all over his face. Don't men realize how horny women are during their period? (Does this reply make me sound cranky? Could I be on the rag now? lol)

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RE: Your thoughts please - 4/8/2010 8:45:30 PM

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She's laying down on her back so it's not like it's going to get all over his face.

I can't speak for everyone, but I would be more concerned with getting it in my mouth, than getting it on my face.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 4/9/2010 12:59:32 PM

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My take on the OP's question would be the "entirely different" option.

To many people, the squick factor of menstruation play and the squick factor for toilet play are going to be similarly high, but that doesn't make the two activities similar.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 4/9/2010 2:40:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: niceandnaughtym

I wanted to get the perspective of subs on this one: Do you consider satisfying your Mistress orally during her period to be the equivalent of Toilet games? Or worse, better? Or just entirely different?

No applicable in my case.

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RE: Your thoughts please - 4/9/2010 3:36:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: niceandnaughtym

I wanted to get the perspective of subs on this one: Do you consider satisfying your Mistress orally during her period to be the equivalent of Toilet games? Or worse, better? Or just entirely different?

I like to imagine that the OP has spent innumerable sleepless nights wrestling with this very question. He has started to write elegant, heartfelt treatises from one side only to tear them up in frustration, halfway through, realizing that he has changed his mind again. He has approached professors, psychologists, doctors, gurus, third shift 7-11 clerks, and held seances to speak with sundry dead logicians and asked this one single question over and over. Climbing to Dharamshala, he repeated the words in his head until they lost all meaning until finally, when he had his audience with a learned and wizened old lama, the question from his own tangled tongue sounded like nothing more than subanimalistic noises and moans to his own ears. He has scribbled the question in bathroom walls at Denny's up and down the East Coast at 3 in the morning. And now he comes here and presents, in a sense of ecstatic desperation, what is, after all, the only truly interesting question of the 21st Century:

Do you consider satisfying your Mistress orally during her period to be the equivalent of Toilet games? Or worse, better? Or just entirely different?

This is not a question to be considered lightly. It is like The King in Yellow. Even as you're peering into the question, the question is peering into you, driving you mad.

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