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Greetings from Reptoid - West coast Canada - 9/11/2004 11:45:29 AM   
Reptoid


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Greetings CollarMe.com members.

My handle is "Reptoid". I am a Bi-Poly-Pagan-Switch. Yes, it seems like a lot of titles to think about, but for me it is easy to just be myself, and the titles then fall into place. (The ones that society hands me anyway)

I prefer to know all aspects of any possible world before deciding where I fit best, and so far I am quite happy where I am learing every aspect of life bravely with a clear mind about my spiritual path and how it relates to every experience I encounter along the way.

I am not a role player, nor into anything even remotely cyber, please do not even ask. I prefer to keep it real - not behind a glass screen.

I have lived as both a slave (BDSM slave and a Gorean male silk slave), and have lived (for even longer) as a Gorean Master with slaves in tow serving me well. I have also worked at BDSM clubs and events as party monitor and know well assorted "scenes" and the politics involved.

Switches are often misunderstood because of the lack of open forums of free communication where the truth can be fully presented properly - such as the fact that everyone's a switch at work unless they are at the very top or the very bottom of the pyramid of their company.

What did you say about being Gorean? Let me explain a little about who I am.

To be GOREAN means that you adhere to a philosophy introduced in a set of books by John Norman. The Gorean philosophy is to be true to yourself, and in this way you have honour. There is a premise that there is a Natural Order of things, and that is that people are what they are. Instead of trying to level the playing field, and make everyone fit into a preconceived mold, the differences are celebrated. Some people think honesty, honour, protection, and self rule would be a fantasy to themselves, because it is a hard concept, that only fabled Men could achieve. Difficult for them to understand let alone practice. Gor is not difficult for Goreans. Knowledge combined with the ability to not be afraid to say what you feel and think (come hell or high water), ignoring peer pressure so you can be yourself, doing what you feel you must even though you may not like it - this is the Gorean way. Above all know thyself. Being Gorean includes being true to ones dominant or submissive natures. This is not BDSM role-play or role-reversal, this is not "kink", this is who we are by natural design.

Presently I am contemplating many things, including my continued personal explorations. I am free to make my own choices in life and do so with an open mind and heart.

If I happen to meet the "right Mistress": I might consider to one day serve a Mistress of high honour and inspiration in real life, but only if She can prove to me Her worth as a true warrior of truth, compassion, love and spirit. Being a Master and being able to own others takes a LOT of responsibillity and mental-emotional balance - i know it well and will not be easily fooled by gamers. If this were to happen at all, I am in no rush to get there - I must trust you first, and that takes a while. Those Mistresses who put in the effort show me their sincerity of heart and remain consistant have a better chance of being more than friends - depends on their true powers and dedication to capturing my bold heart.

If I happen to meet the "right slave": If we decide to proceed further in our mutual consent, then we shall decide then and there as to those particular details. First I am to trust your sincerity and witness your dedication to learning.

I am seeking companions to meet in person to explore who we are and discuss assorted philosophies. I am open to all levels of learning as long as it's presented respectfully so that I may fully understand better what is being communicated. Owners need to learn as they grow as well as slaves.

I am seeking to expand my awarenss by meeting new people, especially those I relate to best. I manage a few websites and moderate several lists where we discuss many philosophies, including paganism, nudism, alternative health practices, bisexuality, polyamorous living, paranormal events in modern and ancient history and of course, Gorean living in today's modern world.

I have many friends and associates who are witness to the true nature of my character. I tend to lay all my cards on the table, once you gain my trust by being honest and true yourself from the start - consistancy works both ways.

A quote to learn more about me: "Is your sense of identity based upon your true will, your conscious choices in living YOUR life, or upon what society has programmed you to be through the default of mass homogenous social acceptance? Is your choice to be free, to be "yourself" as an individual, a retaliation to this absurd society, a reaction based upon anger towards others for your being what they call "a social outcast", or are you truly being who you really are deep inside yourself no matter what others think of you? Have you spent time alone with yourself in deep meditation to ask yourself these questions? Have you heard the answers that your heart quietly sang in response to being considered in your self-activation, a song often suppressed by the roaring of your own mind's worries and fears implanted by this homogenous, bland, depressed society? Have you done all this before asking me your questions so that you would understand my answers? If you have done all this, then perhaps you will understand who i am, because you already fully understand who you are. Perhaps we are different in personal choices, yet the same in truth and honour."

I look forward to speaking with you soon.

Best of health and happiness.
I wish you well.


~~~~]xxx[:>~
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RE: Greetings from Reptoid - West coast Canada - 9/11/2004 11:58:23 AM   
proudsub


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Hi Reptoid, welcome to the Collarme. My guess is this will be moved to the Introductions forum. I love Vancouver, we lived in N. Vancouver for two years.

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"Without goals you become what you were. With goals you become what you wish." .

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RE: Greetings from Reptoid - West coast Canada - 9/11/2004 12:05:23 PM   
Reptoid


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Yes, thank you, proudsub, for the warm welcome. :) you are quite swift in your reply. *chuckles - warm smile*

I am hopeful to hear from Switches about their experiences as well as share my own once I feel comfortable doing so. Meanwhile I am open to some questions - this is why I posted my reason for being here today. I'll be checking in every few days for replies, questions and additional comments.

Wishing you well.


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RE: Greetings from Reptoid - West coast Canada - 9/11/2004 12:05:24 PM   
Reptoid


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Yes, thank you, proudsub, for the warm welcome. :) you are quite swift in your reply. *chuckles - warm smile*

I am hopeful to hear from Switches about their experiences as well as share my own once I feel comfortable doing so. Meanwhile I am open to some questions - this is why I posted my reason for being here today. I'll be checking in every few days for replies, questions and additional comments.

Wishing you well.


~~~~]xxx[:>~

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