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RE: Attractiveness - 4/5/2006 7:12:38 PM   
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It's important that my partner be attractive to me and I do have an eye for good looking men, but there's never been much in the way of consistent features in those I'm attracted to. With the possible exception of their being taller than I am.

If I had to name three physical features they would be height, smile and hands.

Top three non-physical features...sense of humor, eloquence or depth (or both!), and a non-American/Canadian accent, or the ability to fake said accent convincingly. Mrowl.

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/5/2006 11:51:26 PM   
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ummmm thoughtful here.......
 
- attractiveness is desireable but not always the key
what are looks if there is no depth beyond - merely a flight of fancy, divergence, a piece of fluff, until the novelty wears off.  

On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive?
on a scale of  1 - 10?

for bdsm____  he 5 me 5 
for public____ he same as me 
for sex____ lets meet in the middle together 
Other____  ditto

What did you expect  -  a picky picky pick list - nope, sorry, not from me

Sounds like I'm sitting on the fence? well yes and maybe he might just come along and wish to sit next to me too.

What is the top 3 most attractive features about a partner that is to die for:
personality, voice, eyes, scent, nice bum - ok so i couldnt short list to 3       
                                                                   

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/6/2006 2:09:36 AM   
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quote:

On the scope of things how important is it that your partner is attractive? 

on a scale of  1 - 10?

for bdsm____

for public____

for sex____

Other____

What is the top 3 most attractive features about a partner that is to die for.

Excluding love as that is obviously #1 to those who embrace it.

 
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Bdsm: Doesn't matter.
 
Public: Doesn't Matter
 
Sex: Like above Beauty is in the "Eye of the Beholder!"

 
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RE: Attractiveness - 4/6/2006 2:39:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: rivenmoon


Sounds like I'm sitting on the fence? well yes and maybe he might just come along and wish to sit next to me too.



Wonderful thought and attitude

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/6/2006 3:18:56 AM   
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OK jali,, you have to have twin or a double some where.. You just listed what I'd hope a potential kajira would be looking for in a Master and would see something of it in me  

Ok away from the Humour now.......

R1, before I answer, could you please define what you mean "Attractiveness" to be?

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/6/2006 3:56:56 AM   
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that which draws Me to another is their creativity, curiousity, intellect, humor...if those are there, they can become more beautiful each day.
I have no set 'attractive' traits I seek per se...but I have met some I don't find myself sexually attracted to but a lot of the time it is ruined for Me by their personality but...not always <g>

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/6/2006 4:34:30 AM   
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To be honest some might call me shallow some might not it really doesn't matter. I have been with gorgeous men and men that aren't all that but what they had in personalities made up for anything else.

I really don't have a specific type other then taller then me a not so hairy body, last Dom I was with was the most hairiest man  I had ever been with and it was a slight turn-off but I overlooked it ...well actually in his case I overlooked quite a bit.

I like men that are fit, height/weight proportinate. I normally like light hair/eyes but wont limit myself, he must have sense of humor, intelligence, be creative, does he like people do people like him, is he he kind to others. There is so much that makes up a person looks isn't everything but personal hygiene is of the utmot important thing I look for.

I avg a 7 with bdsm , play, sex and other.


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RE: Attractiveness - 4/7/2006 5:49:26 AM   
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I have been with my boyfriend since highschool and find him to be the most attractive person I have ever met, so I will answer 10 to all of them based on that  I do not participate in poly, though he does, so he will have to answer for himself. The 3 most attractive features that drew me to him were his aura of wildness, his genuine concern for others, and the fact that he had a mind and was not ashamed to show it.

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/7/2006 3:17:02 PM   
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quote:

for bdsm

7 I like beauty in a woman, not just on the inside, but on the outside also
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  for public

10 My girl is absolutly beautiful me, that's all that matters
quote:

for sex 

10 see the reason above
quote:

  Other

7  see the first reason

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RE: Attractiveness - 4/13/2006 2:57:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear
R1, before I answer, could you please define what you mean "Attractiveness" to be?


attractiveness can be on many levels, i just shot off a couple examples, it comes down to pretty much anything you feel is attractive, the things you look for in a partner that are attractive to you and how important is each part?


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RE: Attractiveness - 4/13/2006 3:11:35 AM   
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Attractiveness gets me there, personality keeps me there.

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