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RE: squirting - 3/16/2010 7:31:49 PM   
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If this is a survey, I'm chiming in just to say I'm a squirt...er. If God ever decided to repeat the flood, He might even make use of me. Something of a Pavlovian pup, I can come on command when properly dominated and, yeah, I'll squirt like the dickens.

I hate that phrase. I've never been all that comfortable with saying "I squirt" so I figured I'd embrace it. Squirt, squirt, squirt, squirt. I'm a squirt. Find me a man named Noah. I'm a squirt...

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RE: squirting - 3/16/2010 9:07:22 PM   
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made me giggle! :) it's not fun until it gets messy....

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RE: squirting - 3/16/2010 9:38:03 PM   
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My personal experience would be way above 10%... of the top of My pointed nose I would have to guess 30 to 40% at least.

Jeff


errr, maybe the secret is in your pointed nose?? uh where do you live again?? *blinks

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RE: squirting - 3/17/2010 2:52:41 AM   
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Switch2please is right, there is so much contradictory information out there. Some say you can produce cup fulls at a time of the stuff and others say a few teaspoons. Some say that all women can squirt, others say that not all women can. Some say 50% is urine, others say there is no urine. Then we have the squirting porn films!!! Reading about it can be confusing.


I have become involved in a tantra group in the UK and a lot of it involves the female orgasm and female ejaculation. It involves being very much in tune with your own body and understanding what is going on just prior to ejaculation and during ejaculation

For the women who haven't been able to squirt 'yet' Remember that its not a competition and neither is it a porn show. The porn industry have passed on a lot of misconceptions about squirting and women wrongly believe that you should be producing a jet stream. This can happen but its unlikely it will.

Try putting a finger inside yourself and feel towards the front of the vagina, you will find a rough spot. Its easy to find (along the front wall ). When your not excited it will feel flat. Cup the finger and gently move it back and forth like you would when your signaling to someone to come over to you. As you become stimulated it will start to swell and become engorged. You will become aware that your vagina becomes tighter.
A few moments before your ready to ejaculate it will feel as though your about to have a pee. The reason for this is the tip (opening) of the urethra will suddenly open.
Most of us aren't aware of this feeling when we go for a pee because we do it so often that we just don't notice. You need to become aware of the feeling you get when the tip of your urethra opens (just before you pee).
This is the point where many women stop. They mistake that feeling for wanting to pee and so close everything down.
Put a towel down if your worried but try and relax and go with it. In the next few moments your going to feel something happening that feels very different to peeing and immediately after you will feel the gland start to flatten. When you have a vaginal orgasm everything feels slightly tighter after and when you have an ejaculation everything feels slightly slacker after. When you have the two together you won't notice that change.
Rub the substance around your fingers. Its thinner than semen and often its clear but not for all women and it will have a lubricant feel about it. Taste it too. It certainly doesn't smell but mine has a slightly sweet flavor.
Don't be disappointed if you only produce tiny amounts. Amounts vary and its not a competition.
Once you have done it once or twice you will start to recognize that feeling and go with it. Ejaculation becomes easy once you have leant to embrace it.

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RE: squirting - 3/17/2010 6:12:44 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: alhamdullilah

If this is a survey, I'm chiming in just to say I'm a squirt...er. If God ever decided to repeat the flood, He might even make use of me. Something of a Pavlovian pup, I can come on command when properly dominated and, yeah, I'll squirt like the dickens.

I hate that phrase. I've never been all that comfortable with saying "I squirt" so I figured I'd embrace it. Squirt, squirt, squirt, squirt. I'm a squirt. Find me a man named Noah. I'm a squirt...


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RE: squirting - 3/17/2010 6:43:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I don't believe its rare at all but I do believe that a lot of women will stop themselves from ejaculating because they mistake it for needing to pee.



How can you tell when it's NOT a need to pee?

**Eta, never mind I read your response in post #24.***
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RE: squirting - 3/17/2010 6:45:21 AM   
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when you don't pee, but just squirt? I would assume you own a towel, use it to get enough experience to tell the difference, and get comfortable with it.

Ain't no guy I know gonna freak out if you miss it and pee instead a few times.

Far as I know, men cant come when they have to pee and I havent seen a woman that could either, dunno.

Ron

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RE: squirting - 3/17/2010 9:34:13 AM   
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True mnottertail but a woman doesn't need to cum to squirt.
Your right though, about not knowing if your going to pee or squirt. At least to begin with. There are some subtle differences that you will start to pick up on, the main one being that you get tighter just before you squirt.

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RE: squirting - 3/21/2010 8:36:45 AM   
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I don't always squirt except when I am with my partner.  Then it is guaranteed.  It's so bad we have to get our hotel rooms with two beds so we can have one for messy and one for sleeping.  LOL  I like it being that bad. 

Seriously though, not all my alone time ones or ones with my hubby are gushers.  Some are though.  My partner just knows entirely too much about female anatomy or I am just a dripping, horny slut when around him.  I dunno.  *giggle*

lovingpet


This is probably the hottest post Ive read in a while.

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RE: squirting - 3/25/2010 2:05:04 AM   
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I was not a squirter until I met Sir. Since He "primed the pump" so to speak, more often than not I will gush/squirt when I orgasm. Amounts of fluid vary, but there's always a wet spot on the bed and sometimes a puddle, so towels are compulsory :)

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RE: squirting - 3/25/2010 7:59:42 PM   
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Good to know I'm in the company of "squirting sistas".  I didn't start squirting until I was in my mid 30's ,but, now it's rare if I don't squirt during orgasm. Once I actually saw it shoot across the room and my partner swears it hit the wall!  Kinda makes me feel like a human Super Soaker!   lol  Now, I am able to keep from squirting if I want to, but, it also reduces the intensity of my orgasm and that's no fun at all!   Daddy loves it when he's eating me out and I squirt all over his face.  Guess I'm pretty lucky that way.  And yes, we wash alot of linens, but, no one's complaining here. 


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RE: squirting - 3/25/2010 8:59:53 PM   
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How can you tell when it's NOT a need to pee?

i can't answer that question, except i always use the bathroom before sex so i know i don't need to. i started squirting in my 20s and still do 30 years later. i used to be embarrassed about it, then when Someone said "Wow! you squirt!?" i wasn't embarrassed anymore.

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RE: squirting - 3/26/2010 1:27:00 PM   
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Haha I've never gotten a negative reaction. B calls it 'girljuice' or 'the fountain of youth'. He's gotten spoiled and gets frustrated when I don't squirt!

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RE: squirting - 3/26/2010 7:51:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail


quote:

ORIGINAL: alhamdullilah

If this is a survey, I'm chiming in just to say I'm a squirt...er. If God ever decided to repeat the flood, He might even make use of me. Something of a Pavlovian pup, I can come on command when properly dominated and, yeah, I'll squirt like the dickens.

I hate that phrase. I've never been all that comfortable with saying "I squirt" so I figured I'd embrace it. Squirt, squirt, squirt, squirt. I'm a squirt. Find me a man named Noah. I'm a squirt...


Would you rather be a Pepper?

Dr. Pepper, drink Dr. Pepper.....




Nope. I rather like being a squirt. It's a little inconvenient but it makes me feel like a fully responsive woman, vulnerable, not at odds with my own nature and as though this passionate, lustful desire I live with won't be going away anytime soon. And as long as I'm a feverish, shameless slut, I will continue to feel like a whole and unreserved woman - and I don't know - that just makes me feel good about who I am. Nothin' against Doctas... but I'd rather be a squirt than a Peppa.
Hey... Domiguy... where are you??? How'd I do with the whole "Docta" and "Peppa" thing??? Lol. Peace yo! Yeah, okay, I suck at that. :P
As for knowing the difference between peeing and squirting... that's almost as hard to describe as when going into labor and the water breaks but not all at once. It feels like peeing but it's not. It reminds me of that. It smells a little different and looks clearer, in my experience, but it also becomes more distinctive as one grows more in touch with their body and sexuality, I think. At first, you don't know for sure but the sensations that precede it and accompany it become more familiar and confidence builds with the realization that this is your body's response to ecstasy and it's awesome. The more in touch we are with our nature, I believe, the more our animal responses, our natural instincts carry us to the heights of pleasure that we are meant to experience.
Shoot, I'm wet just talking about it!! It's so great to be a submissive. -sighs- I'd say all you Doms/Dommes ought to try it but we need you just the way you are!

-llilah

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RE: squirting - 3/27/2010 6:33:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: alhamdullilah

Shoot, I'm wet just talking about it!! It's so great to be a submissive. -sighs- I'd say all you Doms/Dommes ought to try it but we need you just the way you are!

-llilah


Lol... you don't have to be submissive to be a squirt!!!

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RE: squirting - 3/27/2010 9:59:00 AM   
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I am a squirter too!!!

I just piss in the bed because I am too lazy to get up.

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RE: squirting - 3/27/2010 10:09:46 AM   
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The sensation of peeing is similar at first (the first time I thought I HAD peed but I couldn't stop, and I was incredibly embarrassed - and confused that even after soaking the bed, I still had to pee really bad lol). I did some research, and I'm always trying to learn more. I just find the human body to be a fascinating thing to study, and the homework is SOOOO much fun  ;)
The consistency is, in my experience, distinctively not like pee. It's clear and not nearly as acidic, more watery than lube but it has a similar slippery feel. Mine is usually a little sweet but B can always tell when I've been drinking a lot of coffee...

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RE: squirting - 3/27/2010 10:22:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz


Lol... you don't have to be submissive to be a squirt!!!


Too right! All Domme, totally squirt, although it's more like ejaculation for me from the bearing down sensation, sounds and spasms, and I squirt only with orgasm.
For those who haven't tasted it yet, try squirting onto a mirror, and you'll see how different it is from either urine or lubrication.

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RE: squirting - 3/27/2010 4:17:41 PM   
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Lol... WHAT was I thinking?! Of course Dommes can be squirts! I guess I forget that they have fun, too... just don't relate to it and I didn't become a squirt until I let the little slave out of her cage, so to speak. But yeah, that was goofy of me. I still think sub/slaves have it better, though, and all because Dom/Domme-liness is so damn sexy!!

And Domiguy-ness, especially! (Except when he's peein' in the bed, I suspect.) Hey, Baby! There are better ways of dealing with your laziness than that - you just need a slave there to make use of better solutions!

-llilah

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RE: squirting - 3/29/2010 3:30:00 AM   
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I'm enjoying a good giggle reading this post...

I was 40 the first time it happened to me... I was mortified as I thought I had peed...luckily my partner was more experienced and explained it to me.

I still have a tendency to try to pull away... the intensity freaks me a bit...but I appreciate when my partner doesn't allow me to.

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