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ORIGINAL: beej

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I find that if I posture as dominant (if they read between the lines) men respond in a couple of different ways. They posture back as dominant, to establish power.  Or, they respond like a kinky puppy, bubbly and excited (these are the "tie me up and give me a blow job" types).  Or, they fall right into line, politely, sweetly, it's as if they found a home.

this is a bit of what i'm experiencing, not just with the dance instructor but with other dudes as well. i dunno if i'm giving off a scent, but between the instructor (and the difference between before i came into kink and after), and then another dude who wrote down his address and advised that i come by for a cleaning sometime, i see a difference in how men respond to which muscle i flex, especially if it's a dominant one. i just wonder, is it okay for me to do that? especially when i know that most of the time, it would just be for my own satisfaction and not for a relationship?