ssoft
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ORIGINAL: quietseeker I think that if a Master/Mistress "requires" a sub/slave's actions to be a reflection of the Master/Mistress, then the Master/Mistress must necessarily BE what He/She is demanding as proper behavior. Thought, word and deed must be above reproach, as that is what is required of the sub/slave. Physical, mental and emotional traits must also be "in balance" with the requirements levied. Bottom line, to Me, to BE the One, I must be everything I require of another, and more. Hypocrasy has no place in this. QS I totally agree. I was in a relationship from the start that was, as I believed it to be, totally honest. In time things turned. I was lied to, misled, told things with particulars left out. When confronted, there was no explanation just a barage of questions as to why should I be asking, why should I be told. He is THE MASTER, i am the slave. Am sorry but that just didn't do it for me any longer. I was hurt emotionally numerous times with the promise of, I will never do that again, yet it continually occurred. His behaviour was unaccountable yet mine always was. I stood deadfast in all that He wanted of me, a struggle that I am still dealing with. ssoft
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