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chaz11b20 -> help on how to handle a sub (3/27/2010 8:58:26 AM)
i am new to this life stile the woman i an with show me it and it like it what i need is help on how to spank her saftle and how to tye har

DesFIP -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/27/2010 9:25:02 AM)
Are you typing from a cell phone? Because if so, I would recommend you wait till you can get back on a computer and use spell check. Your post is very difficult to read and you are likely to receive a lot of teasing about it. Buy Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage and his S & M 101. They are the beginner safety bibles. I also commend you for considering this. About spanking, stay on the bottom half of the ass and avoid the tailbone like the plague. Use your hand to spank and it's unlikely you can do any danger. Tying, the smaller the rope or the smaller the part being tied, the shorter time you can keep the tie on. Check the tied part frequently to see that the color hasn't changed and it isn't getting cold. But most body parts can tolerate 20 minutes before you need to think about changing them. Make sure you have safety shears (EMT scissors) to remove ropes. And ask your victim for feedback but don't depend on her being able to tell you that it feels bad. She may be enjoying it too much to realize her hand has gone cold so check yourself.

DarkSteven -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/27/2010 11:08:01 AM)
There's gotta be a kinkster group in or near Lafayette. Go there, watch, ask questions, and learn.

DickSteel -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/27/2010 5:02:34 PM)
I C U R noob & need help. 4 U 2 get help, U should type in english, even if it isn't your primary language. Then do what the Darkman ^ says.

thishereboi -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/27/2010 5:25:02 PM)
According to your profile, you are an expert at breast play, yet you don't know how to spank?

GreedyTop -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/27/2010 10:34:51 PM)
or tie?

takemeforyourown -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 8:55:58 AM)
Gotta give him kudos for trying.

Shyla -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 9:38:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven There's gotta be a kinkster group in or near Lafayette. Go there, watch, ask questions, and learn. I wouldn't count on this ^^ . I think the only one I found in looking all over the state was in New Orleans (maybe there's something in Baton Rouge?) but N'awlins is a good 3 hour drive away for him, and BR would be like.. 2? Louisiana is not a hotbed of originality or tolerant thinking [8\|]

Andalusite -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 10:15:50 AM)
DS is right, here's a group in Lafayette: http://www.myspace.com/apexla

DarkSteven -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 11:20:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Andalusite DS is right, here's a group in Lafayette: http://www.myspace.com/apexla So there, Shyla! [sm=tongue.gif] /Says "neener neener" in a Domly manner/

ShoreBound149 -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 12:13:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chaz11b20 i am new to this life stile the woman i an with show me it and it like it what i need is help on how to spank her saftle and how to tye har E-mail me on here if you're in the mood to play online Scrabble for money.

Fitznicely -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 2:32:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi According to your profile, you are an expert at breast play, yet you don't know how to spank? Taking a wild stab in the dark that he was thinking "Yes, I'm great at playing with breasts"

cajingrl -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 2:54:04 PM)
Shyla, there is a group in Lafayette, because i used to date a dom from there and he was in the group. not sure what the name is though. cajingrl

whiteslavebitch -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 3:01:25 PM)
I wasn't aware there's a "domly" way to say 'neener, neener'.[sm=angel.gif]

Shyla -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 3:35:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven So there, Shyla! [sm=tongue.gif] /Says "neener neener" in a Domly manner/ Obviously, I just didn't look hard enough when I went through that "huh, I wonder if there are any local groups" stage... s'ok. I'm pretty happy with the fact that I haven't lived here long enough to know about them, and won't be here long enough to find out [8D] I do, however, see your "neener neener" and raise you a "pffffffttttttttttttttttt"! So there!

DarkSteven -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/28/2010 10:38:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: whiteslavebitch I wasn't aware there's a "domly" way to say 'neener, neener'.[sm=angel.gif] We Doms were placed on this Earth to educate submissives like yourself.

myotherself -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/30/2010 12:41:17 AM)
I wuz hedumicated by Steven. I is smart now. [sm=biggrin.gif] ...altho all of my cookies disappeared...

nephandi -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (3/30/2010 10:24:50 AM)
Greetings Perhaps you should not do BDSM on the woman you are with until you have learned how to spank someone safely and how to tie somone up without risking them harm. I agree with DesFIP that Jay Wiseman's books are very good for beginners. I wish you well

reynardfox -> RE: help on how to handle a sub (4/7/2010 4:04:09 PM)
a friendly hint, next post, take off the boxing gloves first.

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