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WyrdRich -> Switching in Mid-Scene (4/2/2006 9:28:59 AM)

    Had an interesting evening this last week.  My wife arrived home feeling frisky and aggressive and I was happy to comply.  After a bit of nice CBT and her first orgasm she didn't notice my hand sliding into the bedside drawer for the wooden spoon.  Three stinging smacks later she was on her knees and face counting, "Thank you, Sir" when I brought out the oak.  A marvelous time was had by all.

     I'm wondering what others think about starting a scene in one role and moving to the other.  Would you ever do it?  Should it happen organically, by a pre-arranged signal, or by an outright test of will and strength?  And would the purists ever invite you to the play-party again?

    A Heretic as usual,
     Rich



fergus -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/2/2006 10:16:50 AM)

I think it is a wonderful idea.  Sadly ... knowing myself, I have real trouble switching mid-scene!  My head doesn't seem to switch gears so fast.

fergus



SimplyV -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/2/2006 2:36:34 PM)

It does sound like a wonderful scenerio.  And I can see it being done easily in the right mood with the right person.  However, you get out that paddle and smack me when I'm in the wrong mood or we've never "switched" roles before.. and you'd better expect to be SET in your place so hard that any thought of doing that again will be in the very distant future.

But it could work out fine as long as both parties are up for "whatever happens"



Lashra -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/3/2006 4:27:39 AM)

Yes I've done this before with my sub. We were playing Daddy/daughter and I turned the tables on him in midplay.[:D] It was alot of fun when I wrestled him onto the bed and tied him up and made *bad* Daddy pay for his torments..hehe 
It's a heck of alot of fun and it really keeps things hot. I really like the element of surprise (pleasant surprise that is.) as we don't usually tell the other before doing it, it works for us.

~Lashra



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/3/2006 7:05:46 AM)

We don't do it consciously, but it happens occasionally.  We laugh at ourselves and our nature and go onto whatever the energy takes us.



Evanesce -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/3/2006 9:39:22 AM)

quote:

I'm wondering what others think about starting a scene in one role and moving to the other.  Would you ever do it?  Should it happen organically, by a pre-arranged signal, or by an outright test of will and strength? 


Would never happen here.  First of all, I have no desire whatsoever to ever dominate Master.  But mostly, my role within specific relationships is clearly defined.  I am slave to Master, and only Master, and I'm dominant with everyone else.  And when it's simply playtime and I'm playing with someone other than Master, I can't be bothered changing roles in the middle, because when I'm bottoming, it's all about the sensations; and when I'm topping, I'm in "control mode" and relishing every second of it - and I'm not surrendering that to anyone.  I'll go bottom afterwards, when I'm all energized and wanting to get the living crap beaten out of me.  That's when Master gets to play the really evil sadist and I get to egg Him on.



DigitBox -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/3/2006 11:00:55 AM)

I think if you are enjoying it then just go with it.

I tend to be very 50/50 in my switchiness so having a partner change things around can be fun.

But it can also be annoying if I'm enjoying the role I'm in and suddenly my partner want's to rewrite the rules.

To which a response like "Mind your place. Or need I remind you of who is in charge? <grrrr, sneer>"  ,or "Excuse me but who is holding who's leash?" would get used by me to send a message that I'm just peachy with the current power structure.

Maybe that's a bit overly dramatic but still the idea is to keep it natural and flowing.



RubberWitch -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/3/2006 1:12:50 PM)

I LOVE switching midscene, well actually, like having a full scene bottoming, then switching and doing another. My favorite way of doing this is waiting till my partner collapses exhausted, and then slipping my ropes (escapology is a wonderful thing), taking off my collar and putting it on them. The mental thing of them realising I could have lossed my bonds at any time is a wonderful instant headfuck.

*sighgiggle* mebad!

J



texguy98 -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/3/2006 8:30:53 PM)

Couldn't do it. Can't do it. Tried it, didn't like it. "Not gunna do it!". I get too confused :) Too hard to read the signals. I think my head might explode. It happens. It usually grows back though. ;)

Tex



sfogarty -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/3/2006 11:33:50 PM)

Generally I cannot do it, but with specific people I can switch very quickly. It's fairly easy top to bottom (I identify more strongly as submissive), but it has even happened the other way on occasion, with one person. A lot of fun when it does, and results in great irony like my cuffs adding weight to my hands for face slapping.



Dustyn -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/5/2006 12:38:25 PM)

If you can change positions during sex, then why can't change positions in a relationship?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/5/2006 12:50:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dustyn
If you can change positions during sex, then why can't change positions in a relationship?

Some people don't switch within individual relationships.



Adrian2084 -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/5/2006 1:21:05 PM)

Ditto, its the same for me and my bf



Adrian2084 -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/5/2006 1:25:46 PM)

Sounds quite fun actually :)



Dustyn -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/5/2006 1:51:07 PM)

I'm not saying that everyone should.  Simply stating that it is as possible as anything else.

The old phrase "Whatever floats your boat," comes to mind.



Laura -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/5/2006 9:22:04 PM)

I like it. It's fun! It will never get routine if you never know what to expect. :) 



UrbanFetish -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/22/2006 2:43:45 PM)

Done it at play more than once. Both times it just moved that direction. Lingerie models in both cases that read me like a book. I don't exactly look submissive according to one, the other said she could see the desire in my eyes when I stared at her. (She was right of course) What began as simple, romantic foot teasing and leg licking/heel worship sessions became me actually telling each how to pose, arch, move themselves to please both my eyes and my intense desire to have each (separate occassions...). While neither allowed/lead to penetration. The act of going from kissing toes/thighs to dryhumping and slapping my 'dom's' hips was really arousing. Sort of a MOCK conquering if you will. The other model actually let me bind her wrists and ankles and playfully begged me NOT to do this or that while posing and mewling. VERY intoxicating...

For me the 'switch' midstream really amplified the experiences. I wish more ladies had that flexibility and imagination. Let alone perception to read a playmate/switch better.

Mind you neither of these is/was a relationship.



MistWalker -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/22/2006 2:54:05 PM)

Can't do it myself, not mid scene... but thats mostly an effect of the arrangement we have.. for Mistress i am submissive, outside of  us im.. well not so much. there are specific times im allowed to top. and i have to keep a tight reign on that portion of my personality, i wouldnt dare try to switch mid scene, unless it was somethign agreed upon.  i suppose if the setting was right it could be intersting to  turn the tables though, sounds like fun. just something i couldnt see myself doing with any ease. 



nimbus2004 -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (4/30/2006 7:49:35 PM)

mid-stream definitely depends on the comfort level of the partner/s

and yes, I and the rest of my playing party left a party [that was designated as Domme/sub] because we had to play those roles only or not play - I was topping a female sub with her boyfriend as my husband topped me at the same time at that party...

another time I topped one guy as my husband topped me

my husband's style is to stay in role for a stretch, we used to switch with each other back in the day and had overlap in our preferences but some didn't and now we each have a sub with whom we play exclusively - his is only sub, mine is switch and though I run the show, some of our play has evolved to be switchier



guarddawg -> RE: Switching in Mid-Scene (5/3/2006 11:44:13 PM)

Being newer to switching... i have found switching roles mid scene to be fun in many ways, but it can totally change the direction of the scene if not planned.
My Mentor (who is also a switch)found this out when we first began to play together. Her in the top role, she had ordered me to massage her sore legs. Rapidly and unexpectedly, I just took control of the scene without missing a beat and didnt realise what i had done until later - very unexpected to hear your teacher calling you Master and begging to cum!
not long ago, she took advantage and when i was topping for my own sub, she comes in and simply boots me into the bottom role (which frankly put my subbie wife into hesterics) 



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