Sirandlittle1
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ORIGINAL: slaveladyj I'm a fairly self-confident person, in that I know if I put my mind to something, I can figure out how to do it, and get it done. I have faith in myself and my abilities. In short, I'm fairly self-efficient. Why then do I have this need to serve a man? Which brings me to what I want to ask: Do you think being self-assured makes you a better submissive/slave? Good question. I think being self assured makes you a better submissive/slave to a Dominant who seeks this in their partners. But lets say, you find a dominant, who has that 'rescuer' personality trait. Your screwed as the self assured person arent you. As you dont need rescuing. So its partner specific as to whether it helps or hinders. I would like to add, that being one of these self assured peeps, i just love it, when im floored by my dominant, who whips the rug from under my feet, and makes me feel very far from self assured!
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