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saltygoodness27 -> RE: too selfish to be submissive? (4/4/2006 9:51:51 AM)
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There's a reason wiiwd is generally called power exchange. Would you rather the standard answer from the thread about what people get out of submissive, "I do it because it fills a void in me"? If you considered what you quoted to be selfish, then wouldn't submitting to fulfill yourself be equally selfish? There's a give and take in any relationship, it's just more pronounced in BDSM. I don't see anything wrong with taking the attitude of, "I keep him happy, he keeps me happy."
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