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LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/3/2010 7:22:34 PM   
redwoodgirl


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Status: offline 		about fisting- which i actualy know alot about....
my X, which some of you kow, and i used to do this
and never had a problem.
last night my honey tried for the 1st time and ive
been having issues all day today.
my question is how could he hurt me when his hands
are smaller then the X's?
it was wonderful like only that can be, but after
and all day today, im just so thrashed!
anything? anyone? :)

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/3/2010 8:21:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		How long has it been since you were last fisted?  I would think there may have been an issue if it had been awhile and then all of a sudden you are spending the whole weekend with a fist up the ya ya.  I am also curious about your new partner's timing and technique.  Maybe it is different in some significant way.  High arousal is usually pretty important to a successful fisting session.  Did he use lube?  Were you relaxed within the session?  As long as you don't seem to have suffered any damage, it was probably okay, but you may need to sit down with him at some point and evaluate these differences to determine what they actually are and what, if anything, can be done about them.  It may just be he does this activity from a more sadistic angle too.  Take good care and I hope you find some good answers soon!

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/3/2010 8:41:21 PM   
redwoodgirl


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Status: offline 		lol how embarassing *blush*

he has never done it before but i did
explain it best i could. i told hime id look
up insturcutions online for him

it has been over a year but you know
i was so ready lol and totaly relaxed.
that why i was worried, considering his hand is smaller
(and oh btw, hand and feet size do NOT hahaha-
well im sure you all know how that saying goes!)

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/3/2010 8:43:59 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		I am guessing just a techincal issue then that will get resolved with practice.  I think it would still be a good idea to look up that information for him.  It might clear up something that was a problem this time around. 

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/3/2010 8:48:16 PM   
redwoodgirl


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Status: offline 		oh i am!
but ive been having an 'issue'
ever since the 'event' took place,
that what is worrying my...


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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/3/2010 8:54:58 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		What kind of an issue exactly? 

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/3/2010 8:59:57 PM   
redwoodgirl


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Status: offline 		on the other side,
as they say... :)

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/4/2010 8:47:55 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Hinting around is not giving people sufficient info to offer help.

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/4/2010 9:29:07 AM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Are you bleeding from the rectum?
If so, (everyone join in) - go to the doctor!!!!!!

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/4/2010 11:29:11 AM   
GraciousLady


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quote:

ORIGINAL: redwoodgirl

on the other side,
as they say... :)


Go to the doctor if you are bleeding from any opening. If it's pain in the rectum go to a doctor. If your more than a little uncomfortably sore in the vagina this long at lest call your doctor. Please don't be embarrased. You have done nothing wrong or even unsual. Please let us know how you are.

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/4/2010 11:58:28 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		I vaginally fisted someone with no lube for the first time ever, recently.  It was unplanned -- developed from a massage that got hotter and hotter, and I said, "I wonder?" and sure enough, step by step, I was able to get all the way in.  I was moving her to a second orgasm, and started pumping pretty hard.  She suddenly had a flashing nerve pain, and I stopped everything immediately.  No harm done, as it turns out, but, looking back on it now, I was greedy to get her to multiple orgasms.  I should have stayed slow and cautious (especially working only with natural lube), and either let things build, or not.

I agree about the doctor visit.  There's just so much plumbing in that area (and girls are more complicated than boys), it's easy to screw something up without intending to.  I still don't know exactly what I did wrong, and perhaps I never will.  I mention the story because I am experienced, and even so, on some level, I have no idea what happened.  So it'd be good to talk to a doc, especially if you're bleeding.


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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/4/2010 6:03:55 PM   
redwoodgirl


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone, lovingpet gave me some ideas that im going to go check out tomorrow.
wish me luck :)

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/4/2010 6:20:29 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		Good luck sweetie!  And I sure do hope it is good news.  Keep positive. 

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 4/5/2010 12:50:10 PM   
lally2


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Status: offline 		my only experience of fisting was a guy trying to get all his fingers up me while i crawled around the bed like a crab trying to get away from the feck.  he said that id had a baby so it shouldnt be a problem and i told him that i was drugged up to the eye balls and its different when something is coming OUT -

ive been told the O is amazing, but ..................  pass basically

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 6/20/2010 7:50:12 PM   
SirsJewel


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Status: offline 		It's def technique for sure,fingers a duck=like hand motion in, behind the thumb in,before making a proper fist and nothing rough and shes primed really well and safe words and breathing helps wonders ~ jewels

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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 6/26/2010 6:38:46 PM   
KevinSWM


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Status: offline 		Was there ever a conclusion to this? It may be insightful for others to know more about the risks of fisting.


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RE: LOL I have a QUESTION! - 6/27/2010 8:01:35 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Go read Addington's book Hand in the Bush for all the lowdown. She's the acknowledged expert in this.

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