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slavekal -> RE: Cuckolding (7/30/2010 9:26:06 PM)
Checks the camera is right. Ms. Mlicious is my favorite porn. And yeah, I do all that other stuff too. Gladly.

liks2plzlf -> RE: Cuckolding (7/31/2010 12:44:12 PM)
Suppose only four were married and only two did not show! That leaves three of which two will loose out. You run a search of over 60 Domme"s and you will find there are not very many. Finding one that is compatible narrows down the options. I if I could loose all hard limits and learn to desire pain that would help my cause, but there are still vanilla interests too enjoy together also. I have met with probably 6 dominant women so far, but one of us did not feel it would work for one reason or another. It was not whining, just a simple statement of fact. I'm happy as hell, but it would really be sweet to have a dominant woman for a gf or wife.

slavekal -> RE: Cuckolding (7/31/2010 2:30:40 PM)
You are finding reasons why not as opposed to reasons why. So there are two other guys to compete with. Compete. Win. I can tell you that dominant women...cuckoldresses exist. I have known a few. I serve one now. I am not imaging it. It is actually happening.

LadyPact -> RE: Cuckolding (7/31/2010 4:44:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: liks2plzlf Suppose only four were married and only two did not show! That leaves three of which two will loose out. It only leaves two if one of the last three doesn't try.

slavekal -> RE: Cuckolding (7/31/2010 6:08:51 PM)
OH! Good point. (Typo on last post. I meant IMAGINING....Not imaging.)

PeonForHer -> RE: Cuckolding (7/31/2010 6:22:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavekal All this whining! Ratios don't even matter. Let's say there are ten sub males for every dominant woman. So what? Five of them will be married and sneaking around. Three will make initial contact and never get up the guts to show up for a coffee meeting. One will weigh 400 pounds and have the hygiene of a warthog. Just be that tenth guy. Shower, exercise once in a while, brush and floss. And show up for the first meeting. Dominant women exist. But they aren't going to come over and knock down your door. You know, Kal, what I've always liked about you is your optimism. No doubt perfectly reasonable and justified optimism, too. But whatever: I doubt it could be shaken even with multiple grenades. More power to your elbow. [;)]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Cuckolding (7/31/2010 7:28:53 PM)
Kal lives the dream!! He can afford to be optimistic. :)

slavekal -> RE: Cuckolding (8/1/2010 8:03:12 AM)
Thanks, Lady H. I feel fortunate that I do live the dream. But I know so many guys who, for whatever reason, just won't follow through on their dreams. It frustrates me just to watch them. I have a friend in this scene...known him for nearly twenty years. In all this time, he has never had a steady thing with a Mistress. He almost never shows up for parties or events. Once in a while he will call and ask me when a party is, but even if I give him the where/when, he doesn't show. My Mistress even agreed to take him on. After seeing her a couple of times (after which he was thrilled to the core), he all of a sudden disappeared. Guys like this are always complaining about how hard it is to meet a Mistress. Yeah, it's real hard when you don't try. Recently, I had to have surgery to fix a gym incurred injury. Of course, a couple days after the procedure I was right back in the gym wearing my big padded sling...doing whatever exercises I could do. A couple of guys expressed exaggerated sympathy while wearing long faces. Fuck you guys...I will be on the platform competing before you gym rats will. I am not saying all this to praise myself (honest). I'm just saying that showing up is well over half the battle. You gotta get in the game.

PeonForHer -> RE: Cuckolding (8/1/2010 10:58:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavekal Thanks, Lady H. I feel fortunate that I do live the dream. But I know so many guys who, for whatever reason, just won't follow through on their dreams. It frustrates me just to watch them. Sometimes I think a certain old adage needs revamping. "A coward dies a thousand deaths, a hero only one" might, more helpfully, for many, become "A pessimist dies a thousand deaths, an optimist only one". I read about some psychological research a while ago which I found fascinating - and which confirmed something that I'd long suspected. This research had concluded that people who habitually BS themselves to a certain small degree are generally happier not just than those who BS themselves to a large degree, but also those who have a realistic view of themselves and their lives.* For me, the practice of that translates to: 'a healthy dose of positive thinking goes a long way'. Another of my currently favourite lines, courtesy of Terry Pratchett, is "You don't wanna worry about things that are one chance in a million, mate. Those 'one chance in a millions' work out just right nine times out of ten!' Well, all right, it takes things to a deranged level, but there's a good point hiding in the joke. [;)] *Edited to add: Not that I'm suggesting that you BS yourself, Kal.

slavekal -> RE: Cuckolding (8/1/2010 12:00:55 PM)
We all BS ourselves a little...even when we are aware that we're doing it. But we should try to never talk ourselves out of something good we could have by convincing ourselves that it is an impossible dream.

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