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a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 5:10:32 PM   
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We had an interesting time last night, we met a Domme who had told my Master that she wanted to dom a woman, we went out for dinner, she was dressed the part, attractive, tight dark pants, a suit jacket with just a bra on underneath (which for some reason made the first red flag go off in my brain, she walked the walk too... but it looked put on), we all made just small talk till i said to my Master, what are we doing then? (he likes to chat). we invited her back to our place after she asked me if that was what i wanted (second red flag went up in my brain)......
Anyway she came back to our place, my Master got me to show her my brands, which she said she liked, he then told me to strip while we all had a wine and they were dressed ( i like that, a lot) my Master was pointing out things he has done with me, showed her the 4g through my clit, described to her how he did it, i love being exhibited like that, it really turns me on, just a pity she wasnt a real player....it would of been more of a buzz to have been inspected properly like the property i am.
When we went into the bedroom, i got into my Masters favorite position, my arse on a couple of pillows ready to be whipped, which he showed her. She then had a go but mis-aimed and hit too hard (another red flag)....ummm and i did tend to over-react when she hit a bit hard...blush.....well, sure i wouldnt of done that with a 'real' Domme but i wanted to make her feel bad (does that make me bad, nah!!, just cheeky)...she then was curious to how it felt, my Master hit her through her pants first as that was what she wanted, she didnt really react at all, i told her that she couldnt tell unless her pants were down, Master told her to trust him which she reluctantly did, he hit her but not too much, enough so that she just felt the sting, which she found interesting, i'd got up off the bed and had got my wine, when i came back she had a couple of red marks on her, anyway, her head was down, i picked up the crop and gave her one on the arse which pleased Master no end!...she didnt react so i gave her another one, a bit firmer....Master was on the other side of the bed whipping her gently also, i then thought, stuff this and gave her a couple of decent ones which made her jump and look around and then she saw that it was me hitting her!!! LOL, she said "you!"..i just told her that i couldnt help myself.....mmmmm....Master REALLY enjoyed seeing me do that.

Master then told her that i was hers to enjoy, she said that she wasnt going to whip me anymore, that i'd had enough!!! LOL....anyway she told me to kiss her and use my tongue, she then told me to suck her nipples and told me to bite them......chuckle.....well, my nipples are insensative and i only know them don't i? so i'm going to bite other nippples how i'd like mine bitten...arn't i????
my Master told me later that he thought to himself "uh-oh, don't tell slave that"....

I didnt bite them too hard, well, i didnt think i did but apparently she has got sensative nipples....oh well....these things happen!....anyway she then called it a night, thanked us and left, she sent a txt about an hour later (we were busy and didnt see it straight away) thanking us again and saying she was looking forward to the next time she meets up with us, Master responded in short by saying that he was surprised to see that she brought out a Dommy side in me (what has she done!) and that she could expect to have marks put on her by me plus other bits of her body.
I don't reckon we'll be seeing her again.

After she left, the whipping my Master gave me was amazing, i can feel the bruises, he raised blood to the surface, he again put bands on my clit which always raises my threshold even higher!!! after a while he put more bands on so couldnt talk for a minute, then he whipped and then fucked me...oh wow! the pain orgasm was sooooo intense!!!, i felt like i was elsewhere, I was telling him, "it hurts Master" as he was pushing into me, when he orgasmed he yelled, i could tell it was amazing for him also.... it was very intense.

Lately he has taken me to a higher level, he's calling it the darker side, doesnt happen all the time but it's there, i'm seeing an area ive never experienced and i can tell its only the start of it.

What i'm loving is that we are going on this journey together, he's had many, many subbies but no-one like me, he says no-one who has wanted to devote themselves completely to him like i do, he makes me feel so wanted and appreciated which i havnt been before in the past.

Anyway, i hope you got a giggle about our 'Domme' experience, my Master found it very amusing and he really enjoyed seeing that side of me, he now wants to explore that more....lol....what have i done!!

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 5:29:26 PM   
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How funny! I'll give her some credit though-I never try to play heavy with anyone on a first date.

Maybe she'll come back on the second and welt your ass but good.  ;)

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 6:01:49 PM   
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hmmm.....somehow i don't think that'll happen!!...she is a kinkster, not Domme/switch/sub.
Would of prefered it if she had of just said the truth instead of pretending to be something she isn't, i don't have any respect for pretenders.

my Master and i met a Dom and his subby on the weekend for a coffee, she wants to switch and dominate me, i had more respect for her because she was open with what she wanted, she took me into the ladies toilets, fucked me with a dildo and took a pic to show our Masters...now that turned me on...i can see myself submitting to her a lot more easily than the woman we met last night.

Oh well...alls good and fun in this life, we have to wade through the pretenders, thats just how it is.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 6:10:01 PM   
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I know how it is. I usually don't take a girl I'm dating seriously until I am balls deep in her welted,tightly bound ass. Listening to her grunting like a little piggie while I pump her.

I guess I'm just a hard sell. 

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 6:20:14 PM   
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You seem a bit judgemental. Maybe she was going at a slower rate since you were both strangers.
Or maybe she didn't like you.

Edited to add....you also seem just as "pretender". Imagine listing yourself as a slave and doing the things you did to her. For shame. How deceptive.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 6:43:51 PM   
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quote:

what have i done!!


If that is your question, you have already answered it---in agonzing detail.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 6:50:58 PM   
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~Fast Reply~

You are claiming she is a fake domme because she didn't hit you hard enough? Seriously?

Not every dominant is a heavy sadist. Get over it.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 6:53:32 PM   
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yes, maybe i am being a bit judgemental but it was obvious that she didnt know what she was doing......also my Master has just told me that she txt'd him at work and that she IS interested in me domming her.....

By the way, i never had any intentions of whipping her, i was never deceptive, it was just something that happened at the time.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 6:58:38 PM   
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So what? She had a change of heart - maybe you have a unique personality that she wants to submit to. Maybe she didn't realize she is a submissive/switch till that scene. If she doesn't know, there is no deception. Either way, you've elected to put her up for judgement.

Have you told her about this thread? Have you linked her to it so that she can come here to present her own "defense"?

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 7:03:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: femasoslave

yes, maybe i am being a bit judgemental but it was obvious that she didnt know what she was doing......also my Master has just told me that she txt'd him at work and that she IS interested in me domming her.....

By the way, i never had any intentions of whipping her, i was never deceptive, it was just something thatĀ happened at the time.



Bolded is based on what you think. Maybe she thought you two were freaks and had no clue what you were doing. Or a billion other reasons...
You will always be disappointed if you expect a complete stranger to conform to your standards. And to view them as being in the wrong because of that is just immature.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 7:05:47 PM   
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And I'm not even going to get into the "I'm much better at bdsm than you are ( in regards to the domme )" attitude that drips off of your post.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 7:07:14 PM   
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That stuff is like toxic waste. Best not to touch it.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 7:08:47 PM   
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quote:

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That stuff is like toxic waste. Best not to touch it.


You're right. The flirting thread is much more fun. Heading back there now.....

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 7:16:57 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: femasoslave

yes, maybe i am being a bit judgemental but it was obvious that she didnt know what she was doing......also my Master has just told me that she txt'd him at work and that she IS interested in me domming her.....

By the way, i never had any intentions of whipping her, i was never deceptive, it was just something that happened at the time.



So it's ok for you to do something new, because it was just something that happened at the time, but she's a pretender because she let you do it. Do her a favor and don't reconnect, you will likely end up here bitching about it anyway and who needs that.


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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 7:33:19 PM   
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It's a real shame that the op isn't holding herself to the same standard as she is her visitor and was encouraged by her dominant. I feel really bad for the 'great pretender' and hope she will come across this thread and the journal entries.

Talk about kissing and telling! I don't care what the titles are... I wouldn't trust the op as far as I could pick her up and toss her. Nor her dominant.

So you would top/bottom, insult and attack, use passive aggressive bs and be proud of it... you and your dominant and still be with this lady again? For shame.


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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 8:34:14 PM   
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This is...different. People would have been all over the poor top for being an ass if it was a male instead.

I wondr at you people and your double standards of conduct and behavior at times.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 8:44:17 PM   
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We do not intend on meeting her again! for the slow witted among you, she lied to us! We were up front with what we were into but she told us that she had dommed many men and wanted to experience domming a woman, it was very obvious that had never dommed anyone, when she whipped me, she hit me on the bone and also a fresh branding my Master had done, it hurt, not a nice hurt, it wasnt that she hit extremely hard, just the wrong places.
We don't know what her agenda was (she's a psychiatrist, maybe she wanted to analyse us! who knows), but if she had of been up front and just said that she was curious and was wishing to experience and learn that would of been fine but she didnt, my Master has no qualms about teaching but she told us that she knew what she was doing.
I have no interest in domming her, if that is a road that my Master and i explore we want it to be with someone who is honest and real, not a liar and pretender.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 8:52:26 PM   
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I'm going to ask that the OP learn the difference between Topping and bottoming and Dominating and submitting.

Clearly the OP and her guy don't see that they were Dominated and easily...cuz the Domme got exactly what she wanted.

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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 8:58:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Smutmonger

This is...different. People would have been all over the poor top for being an ass if it was a male instead.

I wondr at you people and your double standards of conduct and behavior at times.


We only know what the op said and when someone continue's play when it clearly wasn't going right and then run and shout all over a web site about it... I am going to focus on the one's doing the shouting.

If there was dishonor or lying by the dominant they met, she was met with ridicule and games. I'd say they were all out of line, but I find the error in shouting and judging what they returned as well, as just as bad.

Had I found out that someone lied to me and they hit my submissive as described, all play would have stopped and any discussion would have been about what I was seeing or had heard and how that person needed to leave.


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RE: a pretender Domme! - 4/6/2010 9:04:06 PM   
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Okay.  Nondomme lies about her topping experience.  femasoslave lies about a whip stroke nearly reaching her limits when playing with a partner for the first time.  Master of femasoslave lies about meeting with nondomme again when he has no intention of doing so.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I'm laughing at all three pretenders.  This verifies, yet again, the correctness of my policy to only play with friends.


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