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NorthNewbie -> Intimate Shaving, males (4/9/2010 9:25:27 PM)

So, this is a subject I am somewhat embarrassed to bring up publicly like this, but I thought it may be needed as those I've asked elsewhere didn't bring much light to the subject. The following might be... detailed and explicit.

I have a decent amount of hairgrowth around my genitalia, my thighs and for that matter my bum. When I study myself to gauge whether I may or may not be able to be visually pleasing, I find that I need shaving. However, this is easier said than done. Shaving a face/thigh or any other relatively firm bodypart poses little problem, but I find myself incapable of shaving where it actually matters. Thus far, I've had to be content with using a trimmer on my... well, sack... And it doesn't really provide a proper shave.

How do people go about to get a proper close shave down there? I see people smooth as a baby's butt on and around the sack, and even their bums. The only thing I can think of would be 'abusing' the area enough and squeezing it hard enough to make it 'firm' enough to use a normal Gillette Fusion razor and copious amounts of shaving gel, but I thought I'd ask here for advice/tips before I started doing that.

And how the hell does people get around to shaving their own bums? Some intricate posing of multiple mirrors? I can't for the life of me figure out how one's supposed to both see what one's doing, while also having the reach and maneuverability of the razor.

This is mainly a vanity problem for me, since as a paramedic I'm tediously zealous about personal hygiene, but it would also be a major help in that regard as well. Anyone got any good advice? Oh, and preferably advice for methods that could be used solo, not requiring a partner to help.

- North



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/9/2010 9:38:21 PM)

Whether a dominant wants you shaved or not is up to her.  I'm currently wrangling one subby boy who used to shave himself regularly because it made him feel more submissive and available.  However I *like* a fuzzy boy, so he's not shaving his chest any more even though he feels weird about it.   I'm indifferent as to whether he shaves his crotch or not, but I like hair everywhere else, so he still shaves down there when he feels the need. 

Basically what I'm saying is don't assume all dominants want you shaved.  Some will, some won't.  I personally wouldn't.  Might want to ask first before desecrating what your prospective dominant may well consider a lovely boy-toy decoration.







LanceHughes -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/9/2010 9:45:33 PM)

Index finger and thumb around ball sac to stretch the skin - that will make it be like a cheek.  I have a hairy dick - almost a third of the way up - - -terrible for feeling the boy's mouth.  So I'll pull dick gently away from body, again stretching the skin to give required firmness.  All stretching done with hand oppisite your shaving/writing hand.

No knowledge to share as to shaving ass-cheeks except that when I do a boy's, might take two sessions including showering with him.



NorthNewbie -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/9/2010 9:53:20 PM)

Thank you both for the advice. And yes LadyNTrainer, I was thinking just that. But in order to be prepared, I was asking to see if I could learn something. If I am asked to shave, I'd hope to do it properly and without waiting to seek this information then.

-North



GraciousLady -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/10/2010 6:42:57 AM)

The advise given to do as a Dominant says is good advise. However, you are correct to be prepared. Learning the proper way by practice will insure both you and your skin are used to shaving if you are required to be smooth.



ffv66 -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/11/2010 2:53:03 PM)

After the first shave be prepared to get razor rash. For your first cut, I would recommend a beard trimmer. If you want to get really smooth use a good shave cream and new razor. Like was mentioned above be sure to keep the skin taught. The skin is very thin and can nick easily. I found being closely trimmed is acceptable. Good luck and be careful



pixelslave -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/14/2010 8:29:47 AM)

NorthNewbie,
There's no doubt that the more you can trim down with day a beard trimmer, the better off you are because the longer hairs will clog your razor. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image]
 
Once you've done that, use hot water to soften & moisturize things.  Take a really hot washcloth for example and let it sit on your scrotum to soften it so you can stretch it.  You really don't want to try and shave when its really tight.  Later, once your skin gets used to being shaved, you'll be able to shave without that kind of prep in the shower.
 
What also helps in terms of shaving creams is to use a woman's bikini shave lotion or gel that's more transparent.  That helps in that you can see what you're doing.  I'm confident they sell something similar in Norway to what's available here at WalMart.  Applying hydrocortizone afterward will help reduce any skin irritation you might have the first few times you shave. [8D]
 
For a razor, IMO, you can't beat the 5 blade Gillette Fusions! [:D]  Just remember to rinse them frequently to remove hair stubble that's going to get caught between the blades; especially the first few times you shave or when you've not shaved in a while.
 
Shaving between your cheeks can be difficult, of that there's no doubt.  Having someone else do it for you is by far the easiest and safest method.  Otherwise, you can of course first hack down as much of the forest first with a beard trimmer or clippers with the help of a mirror. [;)]  Be especially carefull though around the anus which is where you're most likely to cut yourself. [:(]  Afterward, do the same thing with the hot wash cloth, transparent gel shave lotion and your Gillette Fusion.
 
You may find this difficult to believe, but in time, with experience you'll get to where your skin toughens and you can do all of this by yourself in the shower using only soap!  That may take a year or two of regularly shaving yourself before you can do that though.  Just be persistent and hang in there.  Keeping yourself dry and using hydrocortizone are probably the two best things I can think of to minimize any rashes you might encounter from shaving.  The other thing that helps most initially is to try and shave in the direction of the hair (I know that's difficult to do when it goes in all directions), but that should hopefully reduce the number of ingrown hairs you'll have as a result of shaving.
 
As others have noted, pulling the skin tight is what helps the most.  Much of it you can do by feel.  The areas which you probably have to be the most careful of in the scrotum though are along the perineum which can be easily cut if you try to shave across it. [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m13.gif[/image]
 
Hope you find this helpful. [&:]
 
 - pixel
 



NorthNewbie -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/16/2010 10:33:41 AM)

Enormously helpful, thank you all. I've been pondering hydrocortizone myself, as I've got a decent supply of that from work. However, as LadyNTrainer pointed out, I believe I will be better served for now, just waiting to see what'd be found pleasing by any prospective Dommes. For now, I will stick to just... err... 'landscaping'.

- North



NorthNewbie -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/18/2010 3:18:41 PM)

So, the day came where I got to get rid of the forest and undergrowth around the oak tree. I can pretty much confirm everything that's been stated here, and even add a little to it.

The woman in question actually wanted to guide me through the process, and added something to it that wasn't mentioned. Skip shaving cream/gel. That stuff's good enough for a face or other less sensitive areas on your body. For genital shaving: Lotion. It worked wonderfully. I personally used a body lotion that proclaims itself to be "hydrating and bioactive", whatever that means. The back of the bottle says it stimulates the skin's ability to rejuvenate, repair and protect itself. I can't say anything about that, since I'm not someone who uses lotion except for my hands. (Copious amounts of disinfectant alcohol used in my job makes them drier than a desert).

I can, however, say that it resulted in a very smooth shave and also provided comfort and soothing for the skin even before the razor (Fusion, with vibration. Best damn razor on the market) touched it. It'll be a day or three before I can say for sure that my skin can handle what I've done to it, but so far it's been excellent.

One word of caution, however: Keep a moist cloth or two nearby, to wipe lotion off your hands, or you may find your grip slipping. Reapply lotion often. It worked wonders.



Politesub53 -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/18/2010 3:58:55 PM)

This stuff works well and is easy to use. Mix it up, spread it on, wait 7 minutes  ( If I remember right ) rinse it off.  No fuss and no shaving rash.

http://texasbeautysupplies.com/magskinconsh.html



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/18/2010 4:12:45 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthNewbie

Enormously helpful, thank you all. I've been pondering hydrocortizone myself, as I've got a decent supply of that from work. However, as LadyNTrainer pointed out, I believe I will be better served for now, just waiting to see what'd be found pleasing by any prospective Dommes. For now, I will stick to just... err... 'landscaping'.

- North



hydrocortisone works wonders on itchy shaving rash! Seriously!



TheHeretic -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/18/2010 4:45:31 PM)

Simple stuff, Newb. Trim it down as previously described, grab a brand new twin/triple blade disposeable razor, slather on the cheap Suave conditioner, get hard and get it done.

The razor rash and itchy bumps will go away on their own and stop recurring after a couple weeks.



NorthNewbie -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/18/2010 4:48:09 PM)

Thank guys, but that's been covered several times in this thread already. Easy to miss though, when skimming through a slightly boring thread, I suppose. Heh.



TheHeretic -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (4/18/2010 4:52:22 PM)

If one person tells you something on the internet, they just might be fucking with you. If a diverse collection all come up with the same thing, your odds are better of getting real advice.

Now if you really want the hair to stand up well for shaving, try a few drops of tabasco in your urethra.



SirsJewel -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (6/20/2010 7:19:47 PM)

Nothing is too embarrassing if asked well and knowledge is needed,good luck ~ jewels



kinkyfunluv33 -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (7/6/2010 8:05:33 AM)

Yeah there is something to be said about basic hygiene and whether your a male or female I wouldn't be embarassed to ask about it. A basic set of bear trimmers and sizzors will take care of the upkeep. If you looking for a more "bald look" you can go to a salon and get a brazilian wax (yes men too).. Just be sure to call the salon first and book an appointment as not all salons cater to men.



MistressRoux -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (7/13/2010 8:37:48 AM)

One word: LASER



LadyConstanze -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (7/14/2010 2:47:07 AM)

In case you got a gym nearby, ask the body builders where they get their waxing done



Chrisincuffs -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (7/25/2010 10:51:01 PM)

[sm=agree.gif] Just don't try to wax yourself down there.....bad things happen then!



Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Intimate Shaving, males (7/26/2010 1:16:12 PM)

Before worrying if you're visually pleasing, worry about finding a woman to be with, and then let HER tell you if you're visually pleasing to her, not all women want their men shaved. 

quote:

ORIGINAL: NorthNewbie
When I study myself to gauge whether I may or may not be able to be visually pleasing, I find that I need shaving.
- North




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