MistressKiss -> RE: long distance Dom (3/20/2004 11:01:39 AM)
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: wildpony i am completely devoted to my Master, even though he is 225 miles away from me. W/we are in constant phone and email contact; W/we see each other when W/we can. my question is, how can i show Him the depth of my devotion from so far away? i need real ideas, so i am respectfully asking, please tell me how to worship Him from afar. First of all, allow me to share a brief bit of background information. I was submissive to my ex-husband for two years before we were married, and we were married for one year. Let me say from the onset that the failure of our marriage had nothing to do with the BDSM relationship directly. It was strictly a trust issue and me being unable to believe many of the things he told me - even after a long "courtship". Anyway, he lived in Quebec, Canada for the first two years while I lived in Dallas, Texas. I believe that he felt I showed him my submission in many ways. We too, stayed in close phone, email and chat contact. First of all, when we were chatting (usually in chat rooms) I would always show him extreme respect. It may seem a little superficial to do, but it says a lot to the person. I also did as he asked me to do - if he felt I wasn't getting enough rest, I would succumb to a bedtime if he demanded it. I sent him email cards often and when were were together, we always started our visit with a scene to get me into the head space of being actively submissive, since I have to be Dominant in my "normal life" because of my job, kids, etc. I always prepared a surprise for him on his arrival to my house. For instance, I once did an elaborate tea ceremony, wherein I offered him three types of teas and gave him three gifts with each tea. I actually planned it out, wrote a script for it, and pretty much memorized what I was going to say. This probably was one of the most touching things I did for him. The first time we met, I decorated the hotel room with all kinds of candles and flowers, and waited in the bedroom part of the room (it was a suite) on my knees in a very sexy little outfit...grins. He had told me that he once dreamed of finding me like that and so I made the dream actually happen. He was impressed. My suggestion is to take that first block of time when he is with you to plan something very special as your "welcome home" type activity. I never told him what I was planning - it was one secret I was allowed to keep from him because he enjoyed it so much. Your Master will see the planning you did and it will certainly endear you to him even more. Remember even the tiniest, smallest details...those are the ones that are often most noticed. I have the script for the tea ceremony somewhere - if you would like to have it...let me know. [image]local://upfiles/10574/Ge951719648.gif[/image]
|
|
|
|