Andalusite -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/14/2010 6:24:21 PM)
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mikeyofGeorgia, I'm a little puzzled/confused. It's not *impossible* to find someone who is both a pro-Domme and a lifestyle Domme and be able to get involved with her for either a relationship or free casual play, but it does seem fairly unlikely, and booking a session and expecting it to be free is downright odd. Wouldn't it make more sense to seek out women who don't charge in the first place, or at least attending lifestyle events where no pro-Domination is allowed to take place? I've played with two pro-switches for free. One is a good friend of mine who I met through vanilla circumstances, who was engaged to her Dominant and had a live in male-submissive. We were friends well before she started working there part-time, and we played at her home, not at her workplace. The other was at a major BDSM event - I had planned to play with someone, and she also asked him to play, and he had a DM shift. So, the three of us got together that morning and hung out and talked throughout the day, and did a scene with the three of us rather than trying to squish in both back-to-back. I'm not at all interested in pay-for-play, on either side of the coin. I'd never have gone to their respective workplaces and expected a freebie - they were on company time there, and needed to either earn their fees.
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