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What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 11:17:29 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		To compliment the thread about dominant women I wanted to start this thread to ask about subs and bottoms.

Jack Rinella's column this week was about clothing at play parties and how he sees het men as being far less concerned with how they dress or lack of dress than het women.

Since many subs/bottoms have an idea of what a female dominant should wear, what are these same subs/bottoms putting effect into in terms of clothing for when they scene or go out with their top/dom?


Fox has a separate wardrobe for our public events. He wears things that I prefer -- usually black, shirts untucked and buttoned down, pants that show off his "ass-ets" and his bondage boots that I lock onto him. Alternatively he has a couple of rubber and latex catsuits that he's allowed to wear both here at home and at events. Of course he has his collar and some times a set of wrist cuffs to match.

At home, he's pretty much like me though he does make sure he gets ready (hygiene and in clothing to please me) if we have a scheduled scene time set-up for playing.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 11:36:19 AM   
GoddessAlexia


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Status: offline 		Personally i like my worshippers in a full fetish wear.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 11:44:53 AM   
LindaLashes


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Status: offline 		I´ve done two fetish partys,, the first dressed up enfemme and serving as a maid. The next party Mistress made me wear a black tight boxer and an apron since I was the servant again. Both partys where at her house.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 11:58:36 AM   
MHOO314


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Why Tammy-Jo---subs and bottoms wear Tops of course!

< Message edited by MHOO314 -- 4/4/2006 11:59:22 AM >

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 2:48:05 PM   
blkdragn01


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Status: offline 		This is a good question. It depends on what type of play scene I'm in the mood for. If it is more of a fantasy scene ie: kidnapping, crossdress etc. I will usually instruct my subs to wear easy access clothing, or something simple, that they will not mind getting dirty or having cut off. If a sub is to accompany me to a specific D/s function, basic semi. formal black is in order. They must also have a manicure and and make all of the neccessary hygiene preparations, as required by me.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 5:55:21 PM   
talmar


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Status: offline 		For fetish gatherings where I have attended with Dommes usually black shirt & black jeans...unless the Domina wanted me on a leash (or bound in some manner) or cross dressed.

For normal activities going to movies or dinner generally business casual or whatever she instructed me to wear.

I am willing to dress however it would please the Dominant I am with if she makes her perference known if not I usually dress neatly & appropriately for whatever activity we are doing.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 6:33:00 PM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		In the outside world, My submissive should wear 'outer' clothing which I find pleasing and appropriate (in casual situations, I love the right pair of jeans on the right derriere), but where I really get My thrill is from what is going on underneath those jeans....  panties and a chastity device are My preferred accessories.   At home at play, accessories only wins most every time.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 6:49:58 PM   
MochaMistress


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Status: offline 		I agree. A nice pair of well worn jeans, unbuttoned, no shirt and bare footed its best for around the house.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 6:50:01 PM   
MistressWolfen


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Status: offline 		I concur Lorelei, my slave dresses to suit My taste in clothing and what is appropriate to the ocassion. I also get a huge charge of My boy looking completely mainstream and knowing that under that "jo guys" jeans and Tshirt are panties, cammie, stockings and a plug. Play time can be accessories or goth slut dress depending on mood. For clubs I adore the black boxer brief, harness and doc boots, shows all assets while respecting club parameters. I also heartily agree with a submissive being groomed ie., manicure, pedicure and shaved. Nothing looks tackier than a submissive that does not pay attention to all the details and has raggedy hands flapping about.

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 6:56:38 PM   
boundpet


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Status: offline 		well   nothing underneath below the waist    ever!

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 7:44:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		My delight wears Obsession..because it suits <grin>

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 8:20:13 PM   
littlesarbonn


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Status: offline 		Wait a minute! Everyone here doesn't wear a bunny suit?

Oh crap, I've been posting in the wrong message board again!

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 9:24:01 PM   
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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/4/2006 11:28:38 PM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		At major events, especially where I am teaching or demonstrating, full fetish wear which might include for him a male-cut corset or a catsuit, or leather pants and a button down shirt -- in addition to his acoutrements.  In more dressed down events where we're among friends or at a private gathering, it might range from totally vanilla (jeans, rugby shirt) to business suit, to a black button down shirt and trousers, to a tight Body Armor tee and leather pants.  Through all of this, my one requirement is that the black leather footwear be immaculately kept.

I prefer full exposure at home, contrasted by a set of bondage restraints and collar, or hiatts transport shackles (4 point) for added entertainment value.  (He can be heard everywhere.)

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RE: What do Sub/Bottoms wear? - 4/5/2006 10:54:24 AM   
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I also get a huge charge of My boy looking completely mainstream and knowing that under that "jo guys" jeans and Tshirt are panties, cammie, stockings and a plug.  


i love this, too. Masculine and vanilla on the outside, soft and 'girlie' underneath.
It makes me feel so 'owned' to go to work like this, especially with a few fresh stripes on my bottom! Everytime i sit down or bend over i am reminded of my submission.
trissy

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