Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Thinking about turning Domme


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Thinking about turning Domme Page: <<   < prev  1 [2]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/4/2006 8:49:52 PM   
wytchywoman


Posts: 510
Joined: 2/27/2006
From: Southeastern Michigan
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:

And I'll even share my broken crayons with you. And color your body with them.



May I suggest you use a double boiler and melt them down first? ::chuckles::

Celeste


Good idea! Might even work better than waxing them. LMAO.


_____________________________

Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


(in reply to BitaTruble)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/4/2006 8:50:21 PM   
BitaTruble


Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline
quote:



Ahhhh the old "somone disagreed with me, so they can't be a real dom" theory.  Well, I suppose if you're switching to domme, i will just have to switch to sub, since I've been exposed as a fraud in front of everyone.


Which begs the question... does that make you a subprize and if so, will ya cum in a Cracker Jack box?

::blinks::

Celeste

_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."


(in reply to SirPrize)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/4/2006 8:56:17 PM   
wytchywoman


Posts: 510
Joined: 2/27/2006
From: Southeastern Michigan
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

quote:



Ahhhh the old "somone disagreed with me, so they can't be a real dom" theory.  Well, I suppose if you're switching to domme, i will just have to switch to sub, since I've been exposed as a fraud in front of everyone.


Which begs the question... does that make you a subprize and if so, will ya cum in a Cracker Jack box?

::blinks::

Celeste

LMOA, Celeste. I'll share my crayons with you any day.Seriously, I know what this man posted on another thread, and that is one of the reasons I started THIS thread. If no one believe there ever really was an "old guard" then so be it. But historical facts prove them wrong.

That's when they can't take it. As I said, I never claimed to be "old guard". I'm not a gay WWII vet, but I do know those men defined themselves with "top and bottom" terms. I posted that link to SirPrize on another thread. I asked him exactly what he thought that Guy Baldwin meant by those very definittive measures even though Guy Baldwin never used the term "bdsm". Guess what? SirPrize had no answer...none.


_____________________________

Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


(in reply to BitaTruble)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/4/2006 9:08:18 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: wytchywoman
I asked him exactly what he thought that Guy Baldwin meant by those very definittive measures even though Guy Baldwin never used the term "bdsm". Guess what? SirPrize had no answer...none.

You also haven't given him more than a few hours to respond.  Some people get offline to do things.

And don't presume lack of response equals much of anything.  I don't respond to certain people on the boards for lots of reasons.

What you're dealing with so far is actually fairly mundane, low-grade examples of cyber culture and discussion dynamics.  My advice would be to give yourself some distance between your feelings and the discussion- no matter what you do or say, someone's going to think that you suck.

_____________________________

Find stable partners, not a stable of partners.

"Sometimes my whore logic gets all fuzzy"- Californication

(in reply to wytchywoman)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/4/2006 10:19:05 PM   
EvilGeoff


Posts: 523
Joined: 8/24/2005
Status: offline 		*chuckles*

Why in the blue blazes would anyone want to waste their time, energy, creativity or life trying to "straighten things out around here"? ? ? ?  You would just have to start all over again with the next busload of the totally clueless, the astoundingly arrogant, the mindlessly horney, the staggeringly self-important.

The best, the ONLY  to keep your sanity on the boards is to speak your truth quietly, accept that not everyone will agree with you, that not everyone who disagrees with you is doing so for any kind of personal reason, and your thoughts, opinions, and feelings, once posted in a public forum, become fair game for any and everyone to share, gossip about, make fun of, support, ridicule, agree with, disagree with, hijack or wank off too.  Once you hit send, you know longer have any ownership rights beyond "Yeah, I wrote that, so...?"

Welcome to the Boards, wytchy!

And I'll save my thoughts, feelings, and opinions on the "old guard" of leather for another time and thread.  ;-)

(in reply to LuckyAlbatross)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 10:14:58 AM   
Driver1961


Posts: 459
Joined: 9/8/2005
Status: offline 		Be honest to thyself,  no matter what we say will not 'settle' nor 'alter ' you.  what is inside you is your's for the understanding.  Read definitions for switch, top. bottom, dom/me then make your own judgement.

_____________________________

Dance as though nobody is watching!

(in reply to EvilGeoff)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 1:55:17 PM   
TeeGO


Posts: 451
Joined: 12/11/2005
Status: offline 		Question?  How would becoming a FemDom help you set straight MaleDoms?  Why do the MaleDoms around here needing straightening?  If you wanted to become a FemDom to set straight malesubs, that would be different.

(in reply to Driver1961)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 4:46:29 PM   
wytchywoman


Posts: 510
Joined: 2/27/2006
From: Southeastern Michigan
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeGO

Question?  How would becoming a FemDom help you set straight MaleDoms?  Why do the MaleDoms around here needing straightening?  If you wanted to become a FemDom to set straight malesubs, that would be different.


It was a joke I made out of sheer frustration. Ignore me. Most people do.


_____________________________

Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind.
Ralph Waldo Emerson


(in reply to TeeGO)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 5:04:53 PM   
OneX2


Posts: 157
Joined: 1/3/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: TeeGO

Question?  How would becoming a FemDom help you set straight MaleDoms?  Why do the MaleDoms around here needing straightening?  If you wanted to become a FemDom to set straight malesubs, that would be different.


I think for some it is appealing to top from the bottom. On the same note I think you might make a good Domme. Only time will tell.

Joseph

(in reply to TeeGO)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 10:23:08 PM   
Laura


Posts: 573
Joined: 6/22/2004
From: Ontario, Canada
Status: offline 		A big mouth is not essential for a Domme. I like being very quiet and making him listen. 


_____________________________

Bait & Switch - Adult column

(in reply to SirPrize)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 10:28:26 PM   
ArtCatDom


Posts: 478
Joined: 1/20/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: wytchywoman

Only based on some of the very serious inaccurate posts from so called "dominants" on this forum. That really goes against my nature, but again...based on some of the very inaccurate posts I keep seeing "pop up" from some dominants, this just might push me over the edge.

I don't generally like to "take control" but from what I've read tonight, someone other than self proclaimed male dominants needs to set some things straight here.



Nah, you don't have to be a Dom/me to know some people just need to be smacked upside the head and told "What are you thinking!!??"

;)

*meow*

(in reply to wytchywoman)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 10:48:39 PM   
Emperor1956


Posts: 2370
Joined: 11/7/2005
Status: offline 		Hello all.  In no particular order, commenting on the thread:

1.  The hypnosis hype is just that....there is a very very very little bit of hypnotherapy in what some Dom/mes do with their subs.  Just like there is a vvvlb of operant conditioning, and arguably psychotherapy, etc.  BUT real hypnosis isn't at all what people are gushing over.  My submissive is in training as a psychotherapist/hypnotherapist and she can tell you all about it (as she has Me).  Simply put, its a fantasy.

2.  On the other hand, the "cum on command" thread is real.  I've been there.  BUT I will say that in many instances (including one's I've taken part in) the submissive is already quite aroused, and the "command" might just be the stimulus needed/desired to tip him/her over.  But I've also seen actually deeply conditioned submissives who cannot cum without the command, and do cum on command...often to their dismay.

3.  Oh, don't get Me started on Old Guard/Old Leather etc.  I will go on for hours, and froth at the mouth, and only a few stiff shots of good bourbon will calm Me down.  I've researched this a bit (come to Chicago and spend an afternoon at the Leather Archives & Museum...what a wonderful affirmation of WIIWD.  But I digress).   There are SOME old guard traditions in the leather world.  Ironically, they are out of the Gay (mostly male) leather clubs/cycle clubs -- a tradition antithetical to many on CollarMe who are very locked into heterosexual B/D/S/M.  But WIIWD today has virtually no antecedents in this Old Guard, and frankly I've yet to meet a hetero Dom/me or submissive who claims to be trained in "OLD GUARD" or "OLD LEATHER" who really knows what they are talking about.  Its a myth as applied.

Thanks for letting Me vent a bit.

E.

_____________________________

"When you wake up, Pooh," said Piglet, "what's the first thing you say?"
"What's for breakfast? What do you say, Piglet?"
"I say, I wonder what's going to happen exciting today?"
Pooh nodded thoughtfully.
"It's the same thing," he said.

(in reply to NakedOnMyChain)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Thinking about turning Domme - 4/5/2006 10:57:46 PM   
PrinceSitri


Posts: 99
Joined: 3/28/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

3.  Oh, don't get Me started on Old Guard/Old Leather etc.  I will go on for hours, and froth at the mouth, and only a few stiff shots of good bourbon will calm Me down.  I've researched this a bit (come to Chicago and spend an afternoon at the Leather Archives & Museum...what a wonderful affirmation of WIIWD.  But I digress).   There are SOME old guard traditions in the leather world.  Ironically, they are out of the Gay (mostly male) leather clubs/cycle clubs -- a tradition antithetical to many on CollarMe who are very locked into heterosexual B/D/S/M.  But WIIWD today has virtually no antecedents in this Old Guard, and frankly I've yet to meet a hetero Dom/me or submissive who claims to be trained in "OLD GUARD" or "OLD LEATHER" who really knows what they are talking about.  Its a myth as applied.


And it doesn't mean a damn thing anywhere outside of the USA, anyway.


_____________________________

"Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former."
Albert Einstein

(in reply to Emperor1956)
Profile   Post #: 33
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Thinking about turning Domme Page: <<   < prev  1 [2]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078