RavenMuse
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Joined: 1/23/2006 Status: offline
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Most conversation I have is with folks I've met here on the boards apart from two very noteable exceptions. Whilst I have had lengthy conversations with the occassional girl I contacted on the other side of the site the two I talk too most both contacted me after noticing my profile and checking out my forum posts and one of those has developed into significantly more than just friends, hence my search is at an end. So you've made the first positive step by deciding to get active in the forums. Next however I would seriously think about what you are trying to convey with that profile. To my eyes it doesn't say much and what it does say isn't flattering.... short, little effort and kink focused..... ie more HNG than someone likely to be contacted for a friendly chat. Hopefully some of the helpful young ladys on the sub side of the equassion will give you some feedback about how it reads to them (As that is more important than how it reads to some hairy old Scottish Dom *g*). When I wrote out my profile I asked one of those young ladys for feedback on it to check it was saying the right things to 'my target audience' for exactly that reason. Also if I where you I'd be open about being a switch in your profile, if it is going to be a problem for someone then it will be a problem when they find out later on too so best to be upfront about it and avoid those for whom it means incompatability. Sure keep yourself listed as Dom if you like, but I wouldn't try and hide it, that could cause trust issues before you even start.
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This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man. Owner of metalmiss
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