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Marini -> RE: Clothing? (4/21/2010 10:19:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer That's true, Pyro. And we know how much women hate dressing up too, don't we? Actually, I don't like dressing up. I'm a jeans and T-shirt kind of girl. An athlete, and a tomboy. Nyah! [8D] Oh, I WILL dress up for a night on the town, when you are taking me somewhere for fine dining and maybe a play. I might consider dressing up for the RIGHT submissive man, who is making me very, very, happy. Hell to the yes, for the RIGHT SUBMISSIVE I might start wearing all kinds of shit. The right submissive can inspire me, motivate me, and buy me all kinds of fun outfits to wear. [;)]

SweetDommes -> RE: Clothing? (4/21/2010 11:53:17 PM)
If and when we have the money to buy the fun clothes to fit me properly, I'll wear them because I like them. At this point, though, it's what I'm comfy in ... which is generally nothing at home LOL

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 3:01:54 AM)
FR For the first play party I ever went to, I wore a floor length red lycra faux-kimono-thingy, a corset, and proper fuck-me heels.I felt very sexy, and received a lot of compliments (good going as the dress was £5 from a charity shop! :D). I didn't feel any more dominant than I do when I'm in jeans and trainers, though... If it's not obvious that I mean business when I mean business, no matter what I'm wearing, then something has gone very wrong.

Angelsprey -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 4:17:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: Angelsprey I think the submissive is going through all this effort so I should be the fantasy woman they desire. Angelsprey, you are the rarest of diamonds amongst dommes! [:D] Thanks

beej -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 12:32:05 PM)
i love to dress up when i go out, to dinner, for a party... anything social is a good reason to have a sense of occasion. in sexual situations, i find dressing up impractical. i can't move as fast in high heels or hit as hard with gloves on, frankly. straps and garters and pretty tied things have to be straightened and monitored, and i have often trussed up so well that when i wanted a spontaneous fuck, all those clothes had to come off in a jiffy. but because that stuff is so expensive, i get particular on how its handled, and then an encounter turns into, "be nice to my gear or you're gonna get it!" which sounds like a fun opportunity for punishment but not really, lol. as a general rule, i don't mind dressing according to the mood of an encounter, but i don't like to dress up according to a man's specifications because then that's all they notice, in my experience.

pyroaquatic -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 2:45:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetDommes If and when we have the money to buy the fun clothes to fit me properly, I'll wear them because I like them. At this point, though, it's what I'm comfy in ... which is generally nothing at home LOL I prefer nudity as well. Less laundry. The lady can do as she pleases. Naked, Clothed... I can't decide what I like better. If I had to be dressed for something I would pick a simple suit.....with a derby (i've work some fairly weird articles.) I guess everyone has a different style and it all takes effort. How much effort... that is for the Lady to decide. Male Peacocks have the brightest of displays, Peon.

PeonForHer -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 2:49:59 PM)
FR How intriguing! I always used to think that women like to dress up because they love clothes to a weird extent, because they love the effect their appearance has, and because they are vain. However, I now understand that this isn't the case at all!

pyroaquatic -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 3:08:34 PM)
A Toga would be perfect. What are a Man's specifications? What are a Woman's specification? I work hard expecting nothing. I receive miracles and phenomenon. On another note

PeonForHer -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 3:32:38 PM)
It's ridiculous really, Pyro. I've so often been in the situation where I know that a woman has dressed up to impress me. After some experience and many migraines, I've come to realise that it's not good to acknowledge to said woman that her latest outfit has been a turn-on. Oh no. That would make me "superficial". (Whereas women dressing up to have a specific effect on a man is never superficial, is it? Of course not.) The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. You put it that way, the woman in question is able to assure herself that she has 'power over you'. She doesn't actually give a flying rat's anus that you're 'superficial' - so long as whatever is 'superficial' about you, she can control. It's all good fun at bottom. I love it, really. [:)]

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 3:38:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer It's ridiculous really, Pyro. I've so often been in the situation where I know that a woman has dressed up to impress me. After some experience and many migraines, I've come to realise that it's not good to acknowledge to said woman that her latest outfit has been a turn-on. Oh no. That would make me "superficial". (Whereas women dressing up to have a specific effect on a man is never superficial, is it? Of course not.) The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. You put it that way, the woman in question is able to assure herself that she has 'power over you'. She doesn't actually give a flying rat's anus that you're 'superficial' - so long as whatever is 'superficial' about you, she can control. It's all good fun at bottom. I love it, really. [:)] I see. Topping from the bottom, Master Mindfuck[8\|]

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 3:45:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. This from the man who compliments my outfit every time he sees me...

PeonForHer -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 3:53:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer It's ridiculous really, Pyro. I've so often been in the situation where I know that a woman has dressed up to impress me. After some experience and many migraines, I've come to realise that it's not good to acknowledge to said woman that her latest outfit has been a turn-on. Oh no. That would make me "superficial". (Whereas women dressing up to have a specific effect on a man is never superficial, is it? Of course not.) The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. You put it that way, the woman in question is able to assure herself that she has 'power over you'. She doesn't actually give a flying rat's anus that you're 'superficial' - so long as whatever is 'superficial' about you, she can control. It's all good fun at bottom. I love it, really. [:)] I see. Topping from the bottom, Master Mindfuck[8\|] Nope. It comes from looking at a woman's face and thinking 'Ah, she thinks she's controlling me' - and loving that thought. But, maybe, that is topping from the bottom. I don't know - at some point, it all gets too subtle for me.

PeonForHer -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 4:11:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer The trick is to maintain that there is 'something about you that is different, but I can't quite put my finger on it, but, by thunder, I'm turned on by you tonight' [etc]. This from the man who compliments my outfit every time he sees me... Not every time, I have to say, hon. I wasn't that impressed when you turned up at my door in only a thong and wellington boots.

Andalusite -> RE: Clothing? (4/22/2010 6:26:14 PM)
Compliments are generally good, but being crude about it, even if she wants to get you aroused, generally isn't well-received.

JhonDean -> RE: Clothing? (4/24/2010 8:07:18 AM)
I think grooming and stylish color coordinated apparel are extremely important, not just in fetish attire but in everyday life. I think how we dress and carry ourselves; the politeness’s and courteousness making up our demeanor are all a statement about the inner most person.

OttersSwim -> RE: Clothing? (4/24/2010 10:35:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pyroaquatic Male Peacocks have the brightest of displays, Peon. I am a total peacock. I admit it. What I wear is very important to me. What She wears is of passing interest, but I try to not put any expectations on it at all. I admit that I do enjoy that she does like to dress up a bit and we get to enjoy some of that energy together in a bit of the way that two women might. But her being or not being in a corset is of no consequence to my libido. It is her energy and actions that arouse me, her scent, her movement, and especially her eyes. She exudes those things that say "dominant" whether she is in sweats or a fishnet body stocking. She is -yummy- and I am totally drawn in. <3 [:)]

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