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2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 8:53:24 AM   
littleone35


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Let's say your Master, Dom, Daddy or whatever you call him was in a geneours mood one day and he said i know there are some things i do to you that you are not too fond of. So will tell you what, i will give a you a 2 week free pass you tell me what you do not like and for 2 weeks i will not do it. You have to be honest about it.

Now i love almost everything Master does to me except one. For my free pass i would tell him that the thing i don't like is when he runs his razor stubble over my nipples thst hurts. Of course after the two we eks are up he may do it more.

So what would you tell your Master/Dom if he said this?

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 9:06:18 AM   
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I would tell him to stop pinching/clamping my nipples, I never like it, it just hurts and not in an enjoyable way.He likes to see me take the pain and know that it's something I'm doing just for him and not because it's enjoyable to me. That is actually the one thing I like about it as well.
Also, I'd ask him to stop biting me when he gives me oral.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 9:10:51 AM   
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I'd ask him to stop tickling me.  I hate being tickled.  Always have.  It just makes me squirm and spaz out, but not in a fun giggly way....but he loves doing it, and he does it just for his own amusement.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 9:23:17 AM   
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I wouldn't pass on anything. There are definitely things I hate that he does to me, but they tend to make me the most excited just for the fact that I have no control when he chooses those things. To pass would give me control and the whole two weeks would be a let down to me.
That probably made no sense.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 9:39:03 AM   
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I've been trying to think what I would ask for, but I can't think of anything.  I'm kinda with Aileen on this.  And also, there are many things that he does to me that scare me half to death, but I always end up enjoying them.  Well, except for a couple of times when I went so far out that I kinda lost it & apparently said some things I shouldn't have.  I don't really remember saying them, but he says that I did, so I must have.  He has told me that I can take an amazing amount of pain & torture & that kind of makes me a little proud.  Because there's a reason that I refer to him as His Evilness.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 12:08:10 PM   
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It wouldn't happen.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 12:52:59 PM   
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im in the nipple torture club - not fun, not at all - nope nope nope - actually breast torture generally.  im fairly well endowed and it seems to bring out the worst in men for some reason and i just dont enjoy it on any level - my breasts are round, soft, bouncy and fun, why do they want to hurt them

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 2:19:26 PM   
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I would tell him I don't want the two week pass.

Even though there are things I don't like that he does to me, if he started allowing me to pick and choose even if for that short period of time, I'd feel as if I was manipulating the relationship in some way.

Now there are times when Master will not do things to me that he enjoys but that's by his choice and not mine.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 3:14:58 PM   
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I think it would be more beneficial to say "Rather than a 2 week pass, how about we have a conversation about things I REALLY hate which are causing some resentment/hurt feelings/dread/emotional baggage [pick your term/level of discomfort] for me."

This sort of mind fuck just pisses me off, honestly. :P

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 3:22:59 PM   
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For Carol it'd undoubtedly be something about making her doing things out in public.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 5:09:30 PM   
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I am like those that said "I would ask not to be given the 2 week pass." Aileen said it best.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 5:32:50 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: lizi

I would tell him to stop pinching/clamping my nipples, I never like it, it just hurts and not in an enjoyable way.He likes to see me take the pain and know that it's something I'm doing just for him and not because it's enjoyable to me. That is actually the one thing I like about it as well.
Also, I'd ask him to stop biting me when he gives me oral.


I like a light pinch. If he's bothered to file his nails.
But I also hate the biting when he does oral. Hate, hate, hate. Have I said I hate that?


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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 5:34:25 PM   
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Oh I know for damn sure this would NOT happen in our home.....But in fantasy land, in a heart beat I would be telling him NO MORE CANE OF DOOM!!!!!

I hate that fucking evil cane......

Kali


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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 7:00:10 PM   
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Haha, it's too good to be true.  But let's say the wish does come true, I'd say to stop doing housework for two weeks.  Haha!  :P

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 9:12:57 PM   
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I would hate this. I get my pleasure from knowing that he's doing exactly what he wants and not worrying about what I want or like.

But putting that aside and just being clinical about the sensations I like and don't like . . . I could go two weeks without having clamps on my clit. I imagine I would actually miss those damn clamps, though, and the predatory way he looks at me when he's getting ready to put them on (and take them off--which is definitely worse than putting them on).

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 9:22:02 PM   
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I am extremely fortunate that he don't believe in doing things to me I don't like. So this scenario would never happen. It'd be more like, I know you really like play time and I haven't been giving you enough, so for two weeks you can get any kind of play you want.
quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

Let's say your Master, Dom, Daddy or whatever you call him was in a geneours mood one day and he said i know there are some things i do to you that you are not too fond of. So will tell you what, i will give a you a 2 week free pass you tell me what you do not like and for 2 weeks i will not do it. You have to be honest about it.

Now i love almost everything Master does to me except one. For my free pass i would tell him that the thing i don't like is when he runs his razor stubble over my nipples thst hurts. Of course after the two we eks are up he may do it more.

So what would you tell your Master/Dom if he said this?

Matt's littleone

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/27/2010 10:27:56 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968
I wouldn't pass on anything. There are definitely things I hate that he does to me, but they tend to make me the most excited just for the fact that I have no control when he chooses those things. To pass would give me control and the whole two weeks would be a let down to me.
That probably made no sense.
the whole question is really poorly phrased for just that reason.

BUT... if I did give Carol such a command, I'd expect her to dig deep and find something... something meaningful and important. Clearly if I was doing this to start with, I have some purpose behind it and to just say "pass" would be thwarting whatever purpose that was.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 6:28:40 AM   
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quote:

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BUT... if I did give Carol such a command, I'd expect her to dig deep and find something... something meaningful and important. Clearly if I was doing this to start with, I have some purpose behind it and to just say "pass" would be thwarting whatever purpose that was.

That's what I was thinking. I can't imagine Master giving me a two week pass, but if he did, it would NOT go over well for me to say no to it.

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 6:35:10 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: leadership527
the whole question is really poorly phrased for just that reason.

BUT... if I did give Carol such a command, I'd expect her to dig deep and find something... something meaningful and important. Clearly if I was doing this to start with, I have some purpose behind it and to just say "pass" would be thwarting whatever purpose that was.


i could see a potential Owner of mine offering a two week pass simply to find out what my least least least favorite thing was at that current moment. 

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RE: 2 Week Pass - 4/28/2010 7:07:23 AM   
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Sleep in when he wants me to get up. I'm just not subbly enough to enjoy being controlled when he's waking me up and I want to hit the snooze button.

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