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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/7/2006 2:57:00 PM   
Alacrity


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/7/2006 11:51:56 PM   
Dustyn


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/8/2006 5:50:47 AM   
LaMalinche


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We don't need no stinking defintions. . .

Assuming that the word "switch" is taken out of the language, how about . . .

Seig Heil?
Haakaa Paalle?
Gott mit uns?

Likely I would just coin the word "switch".  No need for battle cries after all.

Sheesh.

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LaMalinche


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/8/2006 6:54:15 AM   
sweetbbwsub31


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there are some types that just need my rough side and on occasion i enjoy letting it out. However, i live to serve. It is just who i am.

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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/8/2006 12:33:50 PM   
Dustyn


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Status: offline 		Guess I am just trying to figure out how people view themselves in terms of BD/SM when neither of the normal answers (dominant/top or submissive/bottom) accurately describes them.  I just tend to find it a bit interesting is all, like La Malinche identifying with Cortez' interpreter, or at least admiring her role in history.  How we define ourselves is often how people perceive us.

Call it curiosity.  My feline nature just makes me wonder, but I tend to get lost, so I like directions once in a while. LOL

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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/8/2006 3:39:59 PM   
LaMalinche


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I am who I choose to be. I always have been what I chose…though not always what I pleased.

Experience suggests it doesn't matter so much how you got here, as what you do after you arrive.



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LaMalinche


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/8/2006 9:06:56 PM   
Dustyn


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/8/2006 9:53:48 PM   
LaMalinche


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Status: offline 		Adversity does teach who your real friends are.  Who are your friends?  Can you point them out?  Do you realy KNOW them?

Honesty is the only way with anyone, when you'll be so close as to be living inside each other's skins.  Have you been honest?  Totally?

The more you love, the more you can love—and the more intensely you love. Nor is there any limit on how many you can love. If a person had time enough, he could love all of that majority who are decent and just.  Can you LOVE?  How many?  In what way?

But I will accept any rules that you feel necessary to your freedom. I am free, no matter what rules surround me. If I find them tolerable, I tolerate them; if I find them too obnoxious, I break them. I am free because I know that I alone am morally responsible for everything I do.  What Rules do you want to live by?
 
I am morally responsible. . . are you? 
 
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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/8/2006 11:43:19 PM   
Dustyn


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Status: offline 		Food for thought.  Ask me again ina  week or two and I might have an answer for you.  Fair dinkum?

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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/10/2006 12:21:15 AM   
sfogarty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dustyn

If the term "Switch" had never been coined, so to speak, how would you describe yourself to someone that is exclusively dominant or submissive if asked?


Submissive, masochistic, occasionally sadistic.
I actually use that fairly often, as I consider it more accurate.

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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/10/2006 2:05:46 PM   
Laura


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Status: offline 		I thought of one (finally). I'd call myself Cheshire.

That's the only Disney related thing I have allowed in my home. :) One shades of pink cheap ceramic Cheshire cat.


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 4/18/2006 8:06:57 AM   
Cub05


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Status: offline 		um hey i like to domme but i like to get a bit of pain too. how's that sound

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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 3/5/2007 8:45:04 PM   
Mustardseed


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 3/8/2007 2:28:01 PM   
violetangel


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 3/8/2007 4:41:14 PM   
Suleiman


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 3/8/2007 6:23:01 PM   
SilverShadows


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Cruor est Vita
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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 3/9/2007 10:38:18 PM   
michaels4evr


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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 3/10/2007 4:03:22 PM   
SilverShadows


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Probably

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RE: Question to Ponder #3 - 3/10/2007 4:06:05 PM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		Describing me without using the term switch...something I do fairly often.
Rope slut - giving or taking. Fire slut. Ditto.
Sadist.
Dominant.
His.
Daddy's brat.
Greedy - I like a little bit of everything.

Intro at a local group meeting, I introduced myself as "a lifestyle and professional FemDom. I am also an owned slave. My owner is M, who is also my partner in crime."

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