Dustyn
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Not to offend, but this question is on the basic nature of being a switch. As I understand it, a switch is neither dominant nor submissive exclusively, but a mixture, to one extent or another, of both. Now if that assumption is wrong, it will invalidate the rest of this, so here's to hoping that I am not too far off base. In both of these scenarios, the number of encounters is set at 10, just for simplicity in mathematics. Scenario A: Switch 1, while sceneing, is dominant 90% of the time and submits only 10% of the time. Is it unfair to say that this person is actually a dominant that enjoys relinquishing control once in a while, regardless of the motivation behind it? Scenario B: Switch 2, while sceneing, is submissive 90% of the time and dominates only 10% of the time. Is it unfair to say that this person is actually a submissive that enjoys being submissive, but still enjoys occassionally cracking the whip, so to speak, once in a while? Please separate answers in some manner, be it Switch 1 and 2, Scenario A and B, or what have you. Really don't want to try and sift through long posts trying to figure out which part of the post goes towards answering which question. I invariably make a mistake and end up putting the wrong answers to the right questions. Annoys me to no end, but as my grandfather used to say: "Can't tell the players without a program."
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