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longislandbttm -> Sub in long island new york (5/5/2010 2:17:21 AM)
so here i am, looking for a dom/domme in ny thats safe, sane, d&d free and also knows what they are doing. i been watching videos and reading up on this lifestyle for a long time... years. just never had the chance to make the jump and allowing someone to totally own me and put me in a position of vulnerability. i mean, i kinda have been submissive in some aspects of sex life. Being a bottom for another man has to count for something lol. being used that way, as a mouth piece for their penis and spanked has to be a precursor for bdsm. as it states in my profile..... Things im willing to do and try.. I have been studying for a long time and seeing what i want done to me: Bondage, Prostate Milking, Bottoming, Over the knee spanking, Butt plugs, Padding, Caning, Being face fucked, Spanking, anal hooks (will try, but scared it might hurt a lot), Being the Group sex toy, Group sex servant, Cuffs, Discipline, Flogger, Ankle and wrist cuffs, Bukkake, Butterfly chair, CONSENSUAL NON-CONSENT, Rape play, Rape fantasy, Forced cross dressing, Verbal abuse, Enemas, Face sitting, Fisting (never done it, dont know if possible to do to me), Fucking machines, Funnel gag, Kneeling stock, Glory holes, Suspension, Sybian, Feeldoe, and being taught more things that my master/mistress can teach me to enjoy well willing to answer any and all posts here. so let me know what you think and what i should do with all advice accepted and welcomed. =)

divi -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/5/2010 4:25:42 AM)
Heya ! Welcome ..

sunshinemiss -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/5/2010 4:43:22 AM)
Welcome and good luck in your search. [sm=waves.gif]

lizi -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/5/2010 6:46:31 AM)
Hey there....hope you find what you seek [:)]

choccywoc -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 5:49:25 AM)
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longislandbttm -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 11:20:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: divi Heya ! Welcome .. :) tyvm!

longislandbttm -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 11:21:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Welcome and good luck in your search. [sm=waves.gif] :) TYVM! people are nice around here... shame not in nyc!

longislandbttm -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 11:22:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lizi Hey there....hope you find what you seek [:)] :) ty! and as do i!!! still looking, but many seem to be pro's. not looking for that :)

RedMagic1 -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 11:36:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: longislandbttm so let me know what you think and what i should do with all advice accepted and welcomed. Not a question you need to answer in public, but something to consider..... Do you have a heart and a brain? Why should I do any of those physical things to you? If all you have to offer is your willingness to be used, you undoubtedly will be successful in your search -- but you'll primarily attract men who are interested because they can finally put real live vaginal lips (or anal sphincter, if you're a guy) around their masturbation hand. And hey -- I'd rather get off by myself than have meaningless sex, so I'm not knocking masturbation. But when I'm with someone else, I actually want to have a conversation and a nice cuddle time. So. Who are you when you're not fantasizing? Who is the human being behind the sub frenzy? Why should anyone other than a narcissistic asshole consider you as a partner? Welcome to Collarme.[;)]

DarkSteven -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 11:45:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: longislandbttm quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Welcome and good luck in your search. [sm=waves.gif] :) TYVM! people are nice around here... shame not in nyc! You're damn (!&^^#$ing right we are!!!! [sm=slappy.gif][sm=sodoff.gif][sm=tantrum.gif][sm=angry.gif][sm=argue.gif][sm=bite.gif]

longislandbttm -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 12:47:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: longislandbttm so let me know what you think and what i should do with all advice accepted and welcomed. Not a question you need to answer in public, but something to consider..... Do you have a heart and a brain? Why should I do any of those physical things to you? If all you have to offer is your willingness to be used, you undoubtedly will be successful in your search -- but you'll primarily attract men who are interested because they can finally put real live vaginal lips (or anal sphincter, if you're a guy) around their masturbation hand. And hey -- I'd rather get off by myself than have meaningless sex, so I'm not knocking masturbation. But when I'm with someone else, I actually want to have a conversation and a nice cuddle time. So. Who are you when you're not fantasizing? Who is the human being behind the sub frenzy? Why should anyone other than a narcissistic asshole consider you as a partner? Welcome to Collarme.[;)] have no problems answering all of this..... in private lol

January -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 1:10:51 PM)
Hi, I agree with Redmagic, You have a list a mile long of things you want "done to you", yet at the same time you are dissing ProDommes. You should think about adjusting this rigid stance--and fast. What do you bring to the table? What makes you so wonderful? Why would someone "do you" without getting paid? About the only reason I could think of is a relationship between you and your Top. Which means your Top or Domme would have to find you (and perhaps your needs) worthwhile. By the way, I'm not asking personally. No need for private correspondence with me. I'm not looking. I'm asking these general questions because these are issues you'll have to address in your profile--and your introduction. January

Jeffff -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 1:12:38 PM)
He's got a cool picture though.

longislandbttm -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 1:15:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: January Hi, I agree with Redmagic, You have a list a mile long of things you want "done to you", yet at the same time you are dissing ProDommes. You should think about adjusting this rigid stance--and fast. What do you bring to the table? What makes you so wonderful? Why would someone "do you" without getting paid? About the only reason I could think of is a relationship between you and your Top. Which means your Top or Domme would have to find you (and perhaps your needs) worthwhile. By the way, I'm not asking personally. No need for private correspondence with me. I'm not looking. I'm asking these general questions because these are issues you'll have to address in your profile--and your introduction. January Hello im not quite sure how i came across dissing dommes... im willing to be a sub for a domme easily. a perfect match is a match no matter the sex of my master. as for the list of things done to me... i was just listing things i would allow a master to 100% do to me even before figuring out my hard limits. i thought it would be better to let everyone know im definitely willing to allow this to be done and maybe my future dom/domme are interested in those things. if there is anything else you feel i need to change or add, please by all means let me know, i thank you well in advance :)

January -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/6/2010 1:31:28 PM)
Hi, This is what you said in a previous post: quote: :) ty! and as do i!!! still looking, but many seem to be pro's. not looking for that :) You're right. You didn't diss PRO Dommes. You dissed all PROs. I misread. Sorry. But my advice stands. Your avatar is cool. Usually these intro posts aren't a long list of limits or non-limits. The best use of an intro, I would think, would be to get people to come look at your profile (where your interests are specified). The intro is where you try to get some strangers interested because you are so cool and fascinating... January

sirsholly -> RE: Sub in long island new york (5/8/2010 4:02:08 AM)
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