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NuevaVida -> RE: "Dom" Frenzy? (5/10/2010 8:52:34 AM)
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ORIGINAL: slaveluci
As one who detests the term "sub frenzy," I don't see "dom frenzy" as being any more valid. I'm not saying that "frenzied" type behavior doesn't happen, I just don't think it should get a nice, clinical term. I think it should be called what it really is: grown people using poor judgment and making stupid choices without concern for the consequences. It happens with subs, doms, vanilla-types and every sort of human being. Being kinky and full of endorphins doesn't excuse moronic behavior. Never has, never will..........luci
I agree with this, although, I recognize that not everyone in life is equipped for relationships when going out in the world. All grown ups exercise poor judgment at some point in their lives - some apply it toward relationships, others toward business transactions, others toward their health, and so on. I think the term "frenzy" regarding relationships comes in when someone is so excited about a fun new relationship that they don't see or think straight. I've seen this in any kind of relationship, though, not just D/s. The BDSM activities, and the feelings that come with submitting for the first time (or, perhaps, dominating for the first time), may bring someone to a new level of poor judgment because they're so focused on these new feelings that they miss everything else. I've been guilty of that myself, in the past.
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