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1st time sub in DC - 5/12/2010 8:18:50 PM

havyorwaywthmeDC

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I'm interested in having my first submissive relationship. I would like to meet a woman that is fun, sexy, playful and adventurous. Someone with a good sex drive that wants a real man to pleasure her and pleasure her and pleasure her.... Someone who would ease me into this in a thoughtful and caring way.

I'm not interested in any bitches...that's definitely not my thing. I prefer the caring and loving sort, but with a devious and creative mind! I think my ideal sub experience could be best described as loosing at winner's choice strip poker that would sometimes include other partners. Sort of a fun and sexy "I'm taking advantage of you and you can't stop me" sort of environment.

Some possibilities: Lots of oral (lots!), bondage, blindfolds, lots of teasing (lots!), delayed gratification, lots of nudity, interesting & fun experiences with others, threesomes, exploring. The threesomes could involve two women dominating me, being shared with a vanila woman while following my mistresses restrictions (maybe pleasuring or being used by one of her friends) or sharing my mistress with another man (submissive or vanilla) but with my mistress always being the only dom. I'm not interested in interacting with dominant men or sex with gay men.

If this sounds like fun, I would love to hear from you!

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 12:10:51 AM

GreedyTop

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um this would be best placed in your profile. And just so ya know, you sound like a 'do me' sub. Might wanna wander over to the Mistress forum, and/or search 'do me subs'.

But welcome, anyway.

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 3:54:44 AM

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OP, let me explain what Greedy wrote.

Dommes are Dommes because they love being in control. Your profile says, "I want to be Dominated. Let me tell you how I want you to Dominate me". While there are women willing to do this for the man they love, a lifestyle Dome would not be interested. I presume those are the ones you call "bitches" in your intro.

C'mon over to Ask a Mistress and read and learn.

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 4:09:37 AM

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 5:57:40 AM

blueeyedbbwsub

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Welcome.

Stating that you're not

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interested in any bitches

is not going to earn you any points. Just seeing that statement set my teeth on edge.

As was stated above it's not all about *you*. As for your "real man" statement, is that opposed to a "fake" one???

Just sayin...........

< Message edited by blueeyedbbwsub -- 5/13/2010 5:59:16 AM >

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 8:08:20 PM

havyorwaywthmeDC

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GreedyTop,

Thank you for your suggestion. Where do I find this Mistress forum?

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 8:38:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: havyorwaywthmeDC

GreedyTop,

Thank you for your suggestion. Where do I find this Mistress forum?

http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_6/tt.htm

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 8:44:57 PM

lizi

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Oh Steven, you ever-helpful Dom you.
OP...you can repay him in cookies. Any kind. He's easy that way

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 8:51:13 PM

DarkSteven

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I'm easy in other ways for purty sub wimmins like you, lizi...

/Bats eyelashes in a seductive Domly manner/

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/13/2010 9:13:09 PM

lizi

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Omg....i swear. You just want my cookies....

Um hey...I forgot to say hi and welcome OP, hope you find what makes you happy. I apologize for not saying that earlier - it was Steven's fault after all.

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/14/2010 4:25:20 AM

sirsholly

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RE: 1st time sub in DC - 5/19/2010 8:01:24 AM

havyorwaywthmeDC

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quote:

Your profile says, "I want to be Dominated. Let me tell you how I want you to Dominate me". While there are women willing to do this for the man they love, a lifestyle Dome would not be interested. I presume those are the ones you call "bitches" in your intro.

I appreciate the comment. My intention was to present things I would enjoy so that I might find someone that has similar interests. That doesn't mean I'm not interested or curious about other things. As far as "bitches", I'm just not interested in someone who's primary interest is to abuse some guy. Since this would be my first experience, I'd want to ease my way into this. I doubt I could handle full "fem dom" immediately.

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