Cloudz
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ORIGINAL: Real0ne you do not have to be mistress at all. you can be the boss, the controller, the leader, the one in charge, a top, and a whole host of other titles and labels that you can hang on yourself which only really serve to indicate someone will obey you which i believe is what you are trying to accomplish no? there is no reason to have to call yourself anything other than what you feel comfortable with and of course always play safe. I actually like "maam" the best. But isn't it so that some slaves/subs/pets(whatever you want to call them) Isn't it true that they have stonger submissive feelings towards a particular term like "mistress" or "goddess"? Kind of makes me want to have them just call me the name that they feel most submissive calling me, but then again I bet there will be a day when I can help change that association. Sweetie, Rule #1...Be safe and commuicate Rule #2-10 have FUN What your submissive should call you is whatever sounds pleasing to your ears coming out of his mouth. What you call him is whatever pleases you. Mistakes, I've made a few...hundered <laughing>. Knots that won't come undone, rope that stretches AFTER the knots are in, splashing wax on ME, not being able to get the key in the lock because he is so tall and when I locked it - it was easy but to put the key in a lock - that requires a little more attention to detail.- so I had to get a chair. Things happen, as I recall we both laughed about the mistakes made, usually while I was making them...but I am not the type to take myself too seriously. If it feels good, and you are having fun, and there is no unintended screaming or moaning...you are probably on the right track. Welcome
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Enjoy the Journey, ~Cloudz "Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain."
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