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new Dom - 4/7/2006 10:11:48 PM

Corvax

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Hello all, I'm new to the life style , an ex got me into it, but her view is definaly .... messed up.... Well ok my question i guess is more along the lines of is there some place in Houston or someone in the area that is willing to help me out oppinions from D or s would but helpfull .

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RE: new Dom - 4/8/2006 3:13:00 AM

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Well I've never been to that city, or state, or country, or hemisphere....

But we are both right here (welcome, btw) so I've gotta ask - help you out with what?

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RE: new Dom - 4/8/2006 3:25:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: Corvax

Hello all, I'm new to the life style , an ex got me into it, but her view is definaly .... messed up.... Well ok my question i guess is more along the lines of is there some place in Houston or someone in the area that is willing to help me out oppinions from D or s would but helpfull .

Thanks

Corvax
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Hello Sir Corvax,

You might be able to find people local to you through a real time group in your area. To assist you in finding one here is a link to a BDSM directory. http://www.darkheart.com/sceneusa.html

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RE: new Dom - 4/8/2006 1:25:02 PM

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Please give more details on what was messed up about her view on D/s curious minds want to know....

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RE: new Dom - 4/8/2006 1:41:34 PM

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http://www.houstonbdsm.com is a great place to start.........Houston has its own PEP organization, and you can also look here http://groups.yahoo.com/adultconf?dest=%2Fgroup%2FHouston-BDSM%2F . There are some good folks around Houston into kink, and I'm sure you can find what you're looking for with a bit of patience and care. Good luck and welcome to the show lol.

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RE: new Dom - 4/8/2006 9:05:50 PM

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To the Op...There are also many books out there that can be read as well..ummm..Loving Dominant by John Warren and the like...welcome to CM....

To Level...Dang!...you are now corrupted!..grrr...you forum addict you!

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RE: new Dom - 4/9/2006 11:40:04 AM

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hum... well her views... she love to be called worthless beat black and blue, told that the only thing that she is good for is a whore , she had no self worth she threatened to leave me on more than one occation because i wouldnt ball up my fist and hit her untill she had to go to the hospital

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RE: new Dom - 4/9/2006 11:50:49 AM

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And well to be honist I do not know what my limits are yet, but i know that she wanted too much, I couldnt do that . I was rasied that you dont hit females, but I have bent that rule a lil to not unclude the spankings and D/s play.... though i still will not fisicaly hit any woman. Like i stated I'm new to this and just reading around and looking at diffrent things I find here and there. I do however know I like the spanking, rope play, tape play can be fun, um... food play is usualy verry intresting and fun .... asphyxiation can be thrilling too

BTW thanks A/all for the welcome

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RE: new Dom - 4/9/2006 12:25:54 PM

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welcome Corvax. It is all about communication. You are in charge.. tell her what you are comfortable with. Move on if she isn't compatible or wont respect you enough to listen.

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