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RE: How do you find yourself? - 5/26/2010 2:22:50 AM

WestBaySlave

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ORIGINAL: xdannyboyx

Hello to everyone.

I have a quick question that may lead to a not quick answer. How do you find your place within this world?

I am completely new to all of this... I have always felt the need to submit to women but having a look around just submitting is not enough.

Danny

I just typed my postal code into Google Maps. It was spooky, I tell you.

For a slightly less literal answer to the question... I'm still finding myself. As time goes on and I gain experience, I grow and change, learn more about the scene and myself, and hopefully get a little closer to understanding who I am and my place the world around me. It's an ongoing process.

If you need advice on specifics, never be afraid to ask. Things like "What makes a good profile?", "What do dominant women want?" and so forth are discussed heavily here and in the Ask A Mistress section, and reading through these forums can be a valuable learning experience in itself.

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RE: How do you find yourself? - 5/26/2010 2:57:44 AM

switch2please

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As WestBaySlave said, searching the forums can provide valuable information.
The 'interests' section on your profile might also help; think about the activities and what turns you on, then decide what you might be willing to try in real life.
It's not a concrete process, some people know exactly what they want and some never stop forming - and there's nothing wrong with either. Age has nothing to do with it. Everyone needs to refine parts of themselves now and then, and you're new to this lifestyle. Welcome!

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RE: How do you find yourself? - 5/26/2010 3:27:20 AM

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I think that we change as we go, and we change with the people we are, i had Doms who view BDSM in a way that to them i was a slave, and i had others, who view it in a way that i was a submissive, so i just stop to give me names and limite to live...

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RE: How do you find yourself? - 5/26/2010 12:11:21 PM

VonTeese

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Thank you all for your various responses to my post ^_^

And yes I do live with parents but I graduate from my associate Degree in January and from there I will be migrating to Australia. So the few months or few yrs I have left in this island I'm just going to use it up in learning more about this life style and if anyone should take interest to me within this time frame then it would just give us time to know each other and what we stand for and seeing how compatible we are and if we are on the same page. With that in mind I wouldn't mind if my potential master would move to Australia with me... But I'm the slave and I do not wish to make such a direct request for that doesn't seem like a slave like question so I'd feel out of place to ask such a thing.

And yes I have a bit of experience with being a virtual slave/master on a different community online so I know it can take a while to find a master or even getting messages from anyone. But my aim right now is to learn and I'm not in any rush as I know I can not be a true slave until after I graduate and move sometime next yr. Thanks again for your tips they are greatly appreciated ^_^

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