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allthatjaz -> RE: Overt Dominance During A Vanilla Encounter (5/22/2010 5:04:08 AM)
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Shit happens. I don't know both sides of the story so I'm not prepared to comment on what you originally posted about but I will offer a little advice on something you said later on.
You said you had to change your phone number. I'm taking it you have two phones if your a pro Domme? One for personal use and one for business. I used to give out my personal number to anyone I knew really well (trustworthy people) and my business phone to clients, potential clients and scene people I didn't know that well, especially potential meets.
My personal phone was always safe but my business phone would get all sorts of time wasters who obtained my number through my website. Once I had established they were time wasters or jerks, I put a name to the number so that if they called, I knew not to answer. That name was 'time waster'. If I had changed my number every time I had a 'time waster' persistently try and call me, I would of been changing my number at least once a week.
If I had changed my phone number then I would of had to of changed my website number and I would of had to text every regular client. Some I wouldn't of been able to text because even though I had their number, they had made it clear that I must never call or text them (discretion reasons) If I had a re-direct number, then I would of had to pay every time someone tried to call me on my old number, so don't ever change your business number unless you really have to. Its too much hassle.
If on the other hand, it was my personal number and I wasn't on a network that allowed 'number block' I would of just ignored it. I have an ex sub who tries to call me every day and who has text me every Friday at 8pm for the last 4 years. I never pick up and I never text back.
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