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subtletwist -> Breast Damage (5/25/2010 2:28:36 PM)

BE VIGILANT ! I am a novice sub who trusted a self-appointed "Gentleman Dom" in Massachusetts. Because of his binding, I have lost 2/3 of my right breast. The binding caused loss of blood supply to the tissues causing necrosis ( death ), and also severed the breast tissue from the cooper's ligaments which support the breast. PLEASE BE SAFE ! DO NOT LET THIS LOSS HAPPEN TO YOU. I have posted some details of the offender on my post for those of you living in the area, Please, please be safe!



JstAnotherSub -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 2:31:21 PM)

sorry for ya loss, but really...it was your boob, you should have made sure it was safe....

hard way to learn about personal responsibility tho...



sirsholly -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 2:34:46 PM)

i am so sorry this happened to you.

This is why i do not like a lot of breast play. When the binding/clamps come off and there is that intense stab of pain...it is blood returning to the tissues and that means there was no blood flow or a very limited supply and tissue death is a real possibility. It can happen before anyone realizes it.



lizi -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 3:23:04 PM)

That's terrible, so sorry that you are in this situation. Thank you for the warning.



DomImus -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 3:54:14 PM)

How long was the activity that caused these injuries?



kiwisub12 -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 3:56:55 PM)

Good God - that is awful. How terrible for you.[:o]



KatyLied -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 4:32:23 PM)

I am sorry this happened to you.  But you are responsible for your own health and well-being, certainly you understand this.  



camille65 -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 4:35:49 PM)

I read your profile, I'm terribly sorry and literally cannot imagine going through that. You've my utmost sympathies.



Phoenixpower -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 4:36:40 PM)

Sorry to hear that this happened to you...[&o] and the first time - at last - that I appreciate that I do have serious limitations in regards to bondage with my fms [8|]



GraciousLady -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 5:38:17 PM)

This is an absolute horror story! It is also a wake up call for those who play with people they do not know or do not fully know about what they are doing.

subtletwist, I hope you recover fully and are able to have reconstruction. I also hope you have learned a lesson about personal responsibility.



subtletwist -> RE: Breast Damage (5/25/2010 7:10:34 PM)

Thank you to all for your sentiments of concern and sympathy. Indeed I do take responsibility for being willing to trust. I was new. He claimed to have 30 yrs experience and I was naive. I so wanted to learn and to please him.....lesson learned.

Be Safe. Be wary, always. Be vigilant.[:o]



angelikaJ -> RE: Breast Damage (5/26/2010 5:23:52 AM)

I am not minimising her own responsibility in this, but when we are new, sometimes we don't even know the questions to ask or the things to watch out for and especially if one is tied up and something seems to be going wrong, I am not sure many of us know what to do.

I look at this and think how foolish I probably was when I was new and also how incredibly lucky I was that I 'found' safe people to play with... and because I was carless, I broke a lot of common sense safety "rules".

Thanks to the OP for being brave and sharing and I am glad you happen to live in a state with mandatory health coverage whether or not it was needed in this case.




JstAnotherSub -> RE: Breast Damage (5/26/2010 5:31:22 AM)

i hope i didnt come off as being flippant about such an injury, but when i read her profile she indicated he had lied about his age, his looks, and i think some other things.  if that wasnt enough redflags, perhaps she might wanna step back and re-evaluate a few things.

it would suck to have something like this happen.  i guess i am just too untrusting, cause i aint sure i buy it first, and second all the other lies....well...

just my thoughts

speedy recovery to the op



DerangedUnit -> RE: Breast Damage (5/26/2010 5:36:00 AM)

you can have some of mine if you want a replacement i need a reduction anyways



angelikaJ -> RE: Breast Damage (5/26/2010 5:36:24 AM)

I agree... but it is unfortunate that this lesson came at such a high cost.

And it was a good reminder for me regarding how lucky I was.



JstAnotherSub -> RE: Breast Damage (5/26/2010 5:38:44 AM)

true.  and maybe someone will read it and think twice.

i guess i am lucky too.  i have always just followed my gut and the voices in my head.  so far, they havent led me down the wrong path..  i think ill keep trusting them.



divi -> RE: Breast Damage (5/27/2010 6:55:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subtletwist

BE VIGILANT ! I am a novice sub who trusted a self-appointed "Gentleman Dom" in Massachusetts. Because of his binding, I have lost 2/3 of my right breast. The binding caused loss of blood supply to the tissues causing necrosis ( death ), and also severed the breast tissue from the cooper's ligaments which support the breast. PLEASE BE SAFE ! DO NOT LET THIS LOSS HAPPEN TO YOU. I have posted some details of the offender on my post for those of you living in the area, Please, please be safe!

Once again I find myself saying WOW.
Seriously they're your boobs.  What details did you post about this so called boob abuser ???



domiguy -> RE: Breast Damage (5/27/2010 7:05:36 AM)

She has take every action available as outlined in the official bdsm handbook on bdsm woopsie daisies.

"The Official Handbook of bdsm Woopsy Daisies" clearly states that if you find yourself in a situation where one half or more of your tit has sloughed off please immediately notify the community. Place offenders description and name in your profile and start a thread on as many sites as possible detailing the account of your titty trauma.

Under no circumstances are you to notify the authorities or anyone that might actually give a shit.



subtletwist -> RE: Breast Damage (5/27/2010 9:27:33 AM)

It's unfortunate that some feel this is a joke. From my now deformed chest, it couldn't be any more tragic. I'm not an idiot. I wanted to be fully trusting as I thought that was my role. This didn't happen in one event, most likely it was over time as I cannot recall one instance where I would have required immediate medical attention. The xrays speak volumes. The radiologist and surgeon confirm it was done with some sort of ligature. It sucks. I will never be able to forget with this huge scar on my chest.

You may choose to post your inappropriate thoughts, but in the end , if another new sub is spared this pain. I've done my job.

Thank you to all who have sent well wishes. Be safe.



subjim2010 -> RE: Breast Damage (5/27/2010 12:34:36 PM)

I send my sympathies to your newly diminished bosom. It sounds as though the BDSM game just isn't for you and I'm sorry for your loss. I once was hogtied with my buttocks strapped up extremely tightly. The doctors performing my recent anal surgery noticed that there was some tissue damage and went about filling the hole with some fatty tissue through a syringe. They said in time it will 'fill out' and be just as juicy as it was before.

If I were you and my cleavage had shrunk I would be writing a complaint to your previous master with an invoice for corrective treatment at some Mexican clinic in Los Cuervos.

I wish you the best in your hunt for huge bazookas.

Yours,
Subjim



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