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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 12:36:08 PM   
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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 5:12:38 PM   
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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 5:18:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow. Not about the OP, but about the cavalier attitude so many have shown. Wonder if the responses would have been different if it was a guy who lost a testicle or worse... Any of you smart asses want to give that a try, let me know. I'm sure I have the appropriate rope...

The story does remind me of the morons who say how they're going to do suspension using the breast...Uh huh...as if there was the structure there to do that...

OP, hope you are able to move on past this

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 5:30:46 PM   
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OP, hope you are able to move on past this


She is a few pounds lighter. It should be a breeze.

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 6:31:08 PM   
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Wow. Not about the OP, but about the cavalier attitude so many have shown. Wonder if the responses would have been different if it was a guy who lost a testicle or worse... Any of you smart asses want to give that a try, let me know. I'm sure I have the appropriate rope...

The story does remind me of the morons who say how they're going to do suspension using the breast...Uh huh...as if there was the structure there to do that...

OP, hope you are able to move on past this

I think it would just as funny as if were a guy.  Maybe after you mentioning this a guy may come forth with a cbt antic gone wrong. 

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 6:52:28 PM   
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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 7:02:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		OP I am sorry that you are left with a reminder of what CAN happen if /when we play with people who don't have experience. I love to play rough but there are certain things I will NOT do with someone unless I know/see that they have training or experience. Or simply start out slowly and learn for myself how experienced they are. No one knows my body but me, no one is responsible for my body but me. Yes, he lied. Yes, he is a prick for it but the reality is it is YOUR body. You are 150% responsible for whom you choose to play with and how you choose to play. Dont blame him bc you were naive. YOU learned a hard lesson, one you will probably never forget.

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 7:12:17 PM   
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RE: Breast Damage - 5/27/2010 9:19:32 PM   
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I wouldn't worry about it....I kind of doubt it ever happened.
are you trying to tell me someone would make up such a horrific story, just to mess with folks?

gasp......i guess it is true.  if you tell lies, your boobs will fall off.

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 2:01:28 AM   
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whatever happened to personal responsibilty?

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 5:15:07 AM   
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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 5:27:38 AM   
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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 5:38:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		We are all responsible for the choices we make.

100% responsible.
Not 75% responsible and not 150% responsible.

Her purpose was to alert women to the possibility that the guy they may put their trust in might not be trustworthy because she found out the hard way.

Sooner or later, we all find out the hard way.

I found out the hard way that if you choose to stay with an alcoholic boyfriend he might try to kill you.
I am responsible for that decision.

However, many people seem to confuse taking responsibility with people getting what they deserve because they have made the wrong choice.
Some of those posters on this thread have ignored that distinction quite gleefully.
Thank you for the warning sign.

She did not deserve this.
She does not deserve ridicule.

If you think she is misled about personal responsibility then think back to a time when you were too.
Have you offered her your experience or just your judgement?

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 6:11:02 AM   
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We are all responsible for the choices we make.
( right on ! )

Her purpose was to alert women to the possibility that the guy they may put their trust in might not be trustworthy because she found out the hard way.
( Shouldn't this be standard practice in any kind of relationship ?)


I found out the hard way that if you choose to stay with an alcoholic boyfriend he might try to kill you.
( I'm not sure how you can compare this to what happened.. but ok )

However, many people seem to confuse taking responsibility with people getting what they deserve because they have made the wrong choice.
Some of those posters on this thread have ignored that distinction quite gleefully.
Thank you for the warning sign.
( She had every right to say something, she never mentioned her mouth being gagged )



If you think she is misled about personal responsibility then think back to a time when you were too.
Have you offered her your experience or just your judgement?
( Can't say this ever happened to me.  I know if someone did this to me once I wouldnt go back.  She had the choice not to go back.  IMHO my only judgement is she didnt show any )

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 6:53:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe you missed the part where she said that this was not something that happened all at once and that she did not know she was being damaged until medical tests showed the damage.

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 7:09:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		ty mistoferin I did not see that.

After reading that I still think its insane.  She trusted him cause he has 30 years experience?  I mean does he have a BDSM diploma?  I mean wake up chicks.

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 7:14:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh I absolutely agree that a lot of newbies make some very serious mistakes. I guess that's why we call them "rookie mistakes". But that certainly doesn't mean that one is deserving of having such a thing happen....and wow, what a hard way to learn a lesson!

Personally, I think that threads such as this could go a long way to helping some other newbie (or even not so newbie) avoid making similar mistakes. "I trusted a guy and allowed him to do what he wanted because I didn't want to appear unsubmissive and it resulted in them having to chop off my tit" is a pretty big eye opener....maybe it should be required reading for all the new and clueless.

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 7:17:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I wouldn't worry about it....I kind of doubt it ever happened.
are you trying to tell me someone would make up such a horrific story, just to mess with folks?

gasp......i guess it is true.  if you tell lies, your boobs will fall off.


I'm not applying this statement to this particular thread and situation, but yes, I absolutely do believe people would and do make up bizarre stories just to mess with folks.  Yes indeedy.

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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 7:30:40 AM   
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Yet I didn't come here and start whineing about it.


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RE: Breast Damage - 5/28/2010 7:35:24 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
Oh I absolutely agree that a lot of newbies make some very serious mistakes. I guess that's why we call them "rookie mistakes". But that certainly doesn't mean that one is deserving of having such a thing happen....and wow, what a hard way to learn a lesson!


Just keep in mind that a lot of mistakes in any field are not "rookie", but happen after enough experience has produced a cavalier attitude toward normal safety considerations.  If you've been tying titties up for 30 years, you've had 30 years to convince yourself that nothing can go wrong.


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