solestria
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Are you using lube? I like Slippery Stuff gel for anal play. Start with one finger, and don't move it in and out--just hold it there and let him get used to the sensation. Feed back to him what his muscles are doing, when he's tensing them up, etc. When he's ready (weeks if necessary), move on to a very small dildo. Same thing--hold it there without movement. Eventually, move on to a small butt plug, and movement with the dildo. This is the process I'm currently using in anal training myself. I've never truly attempted it before, but it seems to be going reasonably well. The most comfortable for me is still a finger up to the first knuckle, which feel definitively good--anything more than that just feels weird or interesting, and sometimes uncomfortable. I've found that it helps sometimes to do it every other day and give everything a chance to rest, and the one time I did push myself to take the butt plug longer than was comfortable, things felt weird in there for the next couple days. Also check out Jack Morin's Anal Pleasure and Health.
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