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Lockit -> RE: Hi Mistresses (5/26/2010 2:45:08 PM)
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Welcome to the boards.
Now, the tough stuff. If you are going to talk like you aren't worth our time or come off as if you aren't doing a good enough whatever and need to improve, most of us will take your word for it and not bother. You don't have to be overly confident or cocky but to come from a place of less worthy, inferior or lacking is just as bad as the overly cocky person. That honored to just speak to us or have a chance to, is giving far too much credit where none is deserved. Wait until someone has actually honored you with their interest and don't hand it out to everyone or it belittles a very wonderful thing.
We all figure there have been women before us, but right off and until we ask, we really don't want to hear about the prior mistress you lost because of a move. You can talk about your desire to submit and why, without the mention of someone from your past validating your needs/wants/desires.
Try showing us who you are in some positive ways, what you might like to find in a relationship and don't make it all about kink, yourself or one dimensional. And you might consider a photo change. When your nylons are prettier than ours or we see your ass before we know your name, we tend to get a little prickly and walk on by.
We can be a tough crowd, but we do purr or even growl in the good ways, when the man proves to be someone we would want to know. Show us who you are in ways that won't show us the negatives of panty, butt's, cocks, presumed dynamic's or protocol to impress and that it might seem your desire to be owned is more important than who might own you.
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