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mugwump -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 12:27:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

This is a bit of an oxymoron.  If you know intellectually that it couldn't happen, it rather takes the edge off it as a thrill. 


Much of what goes on under the huge umbrella of kink falls into this category though...
The slavery is personal, not societal. The bondage is chosen. The rape fantasies are, if played out, consensual and safe...

It's very much a 'whatever floats your boat' thing... Just this one seems to have got people's knickers in a twist. In honesty my hub would run a mile at the thought of more babies, but cumming inside is a whole different thing[;)]. The desire to be a bit wanton and primal (insert a million elfnsafety caveats here) is pretty darned normal I'd think..?
I have had a few emails over the years from peeps who seem to fetishise breeding to the extreme. (You'll be kept permanently pregnant...that kind of thing)
It doesn't get me squishy, but if it's what turns your ex on and he's not the proud father of 461 kids yet then more power to his....er....elbow[8D]

x




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 12:29:21 PM)

~Fast Reply~
i'm not trying to be disruptive, but i have to say that i'm with OsideGirl & sirsholly on this one. It may be a big turn on for Him, but what happens if the gal DOES get pregnant? Will He help support the baby? Want it adopted out? Abort it? And if it's aborted, what was the point in the first place? NO birth control is 100% effective, and i'm just too realistic to think otherwise. Now, go ahead and flame me if you want.....
~sweetsub~




divi -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 12:31:05 PM)

This can happen at anytime.  But I must say it is a silly fetish.




mugwump -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 12:36:26 PM)

But seriously, how many of us women who are in stable relationships (and the OP gave no hint that this ex was a 1-week-wonder) and still potentially able to conceive abstain from all sex during our ovulatory phase???
It sounds like he found something that got him fired up, was lucky enough to find a partner who accepted it and they did what they did with a constant eye on safety - other than tying her legs and his willy in a knot when they hit puberty and nevernevernever having sex again other than in a specific attempt to conceive what would anyone recommend??
I'm not advocating that we all go about having unprotected sex and b*gger the consequences, but neither is the OP..




IronBear -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 12:47:07 PM)

Do what the Greeks did and I'm told some unmarried Greek girls to to preserve their virginity and have anal sex instead (As I have been informed by more than several Greek women living here. It is also useful if a married woman wants to have a bit on the side and her husband checks her pussy when she gets home to see if there has been any visitors). Stone the bloody crows, a female has three orifices which can be used, just lock up the baby home and use the other two. After all it is a case for some blokes of "Any Hole In A Drought". 




mugwump -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 12:56:37 PM)

If my hub ever reads this thread and acts on it I am sooooo coming over to pee on your cornflakes [8D]

x




Phoenixpower -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 1:06:08 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~Fast Reply~
i'm not trying to be disruptive, but i have to say that i'm with OsideGirl & sirsholly on this one. It may be a big turn on for Him, but what happens if the gal DOES get pregnant? Will He help support the baby? Want it adopted out? Abort it? And if it's aborted, what was the point in the first place? NO birth control is 100% effective, and i'm just too realistic to think otherwise. Now, go ahead and flame me if you want.....
~sweetsub~


Dito....was about to meet someone who also came up with that topic and comments a la if it would be ok for me returning to the UK pregnant if it wouldn't work out....hello? Certainly not! And gosh did he keep talking a la "other women who want children do it despite such risks..." yeah right....[8|] Am not "other women" and I certainly know when I would be willing to risk that with a partner....and that would certainly not be in one of the first meetings with him when it isn't even sure that we will move on...Am a lil bit too grown up to risk that to just anyone...life in expensive UK on my own is tough enough...certainly don't need ending up as a single-mother on top of it...[8|]




windchymes -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 1:15:54 PM)

Much as I hate to give the OP this bone, given the tantrums she throws, I was with someone years back who had that very fantasy.  It aroused him immensely to think that his "boys" were on their way to defile that egg and make a woman impregnated.  When we were together, he'd hold my lower tummy and just moan at the thought. 

Then, ONE little pregnancy scare in all the years I saw him....I went to him, and his dick shrunk like I'd thrown ice water on it, lol.  Seems he didn't think he'd be able to actually help raise it.  Fortunately, it was just a false alarm, and I lost a lot of respect for him.  And he has since fizzled away to some other place, no love lost.




Jeffff -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 1:18:03 PM)

That STORY just shriveled My dick.

You owe me gash pics!




IronBear -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 2:01:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mugwump

If my hub ever reads this thread and acts on it I am sooooo coming over to pee on your cornflakes [8D]

x


Should I direct him where to read it? [8|] Perhaps my unpleasant neighbour's cornflakes will suffice I don't eat them.. [;)]

I'm not quite sure which part of this would trigger such a delightful reaction.




FetishRose -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 2:05:28 PM)

My Sir certainly enjoys cumming in me during my documented most fertile times.  Although I am on the pill, of course there is still some risk in it.  However, we have discussed what we would do if I were to get pregnant unplanned, so while perhaps a dangerous "game," it is still one we engage in.




AquaticSub -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 3:36:34 PM)

~Fast Reply~

I've come across people who actually wanted to breed me. At the risk of drawing the OP's wrath (now just ask me how much I care [;)]), the term "breeding" would suggest an actual intention to well... breed.

Otherwise it's just a mental game. Like how Valyraen spanks me with a "sword" when it's just the sheath safely slamming into my ass. Now, that said, even if the intent isn't to breed, because the man in question would be delibarately seeking out the most fertile periods pregnancy is a valid concern. Since it's during the time when you are most fertile if the condom breaks, you are most likely to be up shit creek.

I, at least, tend to view my risks differently when it has the potential to affect or create other people.




LittleBroken -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 4:35:16 PM)

Awww you guys......I'm a Brat...but a loveable Brat.

Maybe I just need a firm hand.  <giggles>




domcypher -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 4:38:00 PM)

My gf is on bc and I still pull out. Not something I want to chance. We are both on the same page about what would go down if it DID occur, but still I'd rather be safe than sorry.

Plus, its much hotter to cum ON someone than IN someone... imo.




AquaticSub -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 5:23:28 PM)

Are you implying that being insulting and rude deserves a reward? I doubt many, if any, of the people you've spoken to on this thread have any interest in providing with you a firm a hand. Much less one that causes you to giggle thinking about it.




NuevaVida -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 6:04:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LittleBroken

Awww you guys......I'm a Brat...but a loveable Brat.

Maybe I just need a firm hand.  <giggles>



That's not what came to mind when reading your earlier responses.

In any case, I understand you were speaking of a fantasy.  However, as Erin tried to explain, you were likely getting the responses you did because others practice this NOT in fantasy, and your OP was not clear that this was fantasy only.  So others may well have thought your OP was not about just fantasy.

My owner does not have this fetish.  In fact, the idea of creating a child at this stage in his life is a real turn off.  If any past partners have had this fantasy with me, they didn't tell me about it, so I don't know.




Elisabella -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 7:27:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LittleBroken
The question goes out to Masters, Doms, slaves or subs.....

Have you encountered a desire to ejaculate inside your partner with the desire to make the other party pregnant EVEN THOUGH YOU KNEW INTELLECTUALLY IT COULDN'T HAPPEN?

<sigh>
Life shouldn't be this fucking difficult!



Unless you're restricting responses to couples where at least one partner is completely and irrevocably infertile, I really have to question your knowledge of biology.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 7:33:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: domcypher

My gf is on bc and I still pull out.

Actually, the pre-cum leakage contains way more than enough little swimmers that it alone can get someone pregnant, so pulling out is not reliable as birth control.

~sweetsub~




DarkSteven -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 8:14:48 PM)

I don;t get it.  People who don't want kids and plan to not have them are fine.  People who do want kids and try are fine.  What's wrong with getting a charge out of making a woman pregnant?

As long as the kid will get cared for after birth, whats wrong with getting turned on?




Elisabella -> RE: Seeding/Breeding (5/27/2010 9:49:51 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I don;t get it.  People who don't want kids and plan to not have them are fine.  People who do want kids and try are fine.  What's wrong with getting a charge out of making a woman pregnant?

As long as the kid will get cared for after birth, whats wrong with getting turned on?



Because she said that actually getting pregnant was a turn off.




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