heartcream
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From: Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop
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The whole humiliation thing in restaurants sucks so bad. Thinking this is how you give perfect service is a big trough of horse crap. Back off with that kind of work ethic. It is power struggle based, reptilian brain domination based, and under, under, under it is more than likely survival fear, fear of inadequacy, self hatred etc.
I am so over those sorts of places with their snideness presenting as the way it is done. Gerr off!
As far as having a forked tongue, being competitive and going for the jugular I do have hefty experience with this as well, coming from me. I have gotten into it with others and had lots of responsibility from my side of it. Intent does make a huge difference and intent to heal this whole area will lead you there.
DarkSteven said something about you having two relationships but honestly the key one, the most important one, I feel is the one you have with yourself because your needs are divine. If you arent taking care of you it is not right for you.
I like what mistoferin, I think it was, said that she is where she needs to be in the moment. This is a really good point. Let the parameters of what is acceptable broaden. It is not wrong how you are, have been. You obviously give a shit, you posted this whole darn thing here.
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