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Starting a Polyhouse - 6/1/2010 5:55:20 PM   
drknessnc


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I had good standing in a polyhouse when i lived in Salisbury NC. The house had three men and four women. It was run by a woman who was Domme above all until she met my creativity.

I didn't live there but would go by four times a week and it always led to sex, BDSM, watchig others have sex, or just eating dinner and watching a movie with my hand on a bob.

All good stuff. I want it again. I have a nice 3 bedroom house in Charlotte NC.

Read my profile.. drop a line regardless.
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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/1/2010 6:32:04 PM   
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Seems to me that your experience and personal thrust is based on wetting sexual appetites. his leaves a huge gap in what goes on in a poly home. I'm left wondering if you are for real or if this is a fantasy. In your profile (and I'll reiterate here and now I am extremely literal minded), you state: "I know pretty girls and models make the worst slaves." I'd have to say your experience is extremely limited indeed. In fact I know of several slaves who are not just excellent slaves but first class in the beauty stakes with two being both photographic and runway models. My only comment regarding the use of models has been that the worst fucks I have ever had was with a couple of international models whose focus was on looking like a top model even in the midst of a fuck. I'll sit back and see who posts what here ere I comment further.

(Pops a giant baggie of popcorn and awaits the fun/human sacrifice to commence)


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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/1/2010 8:50:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: drknessnc

I had good standing in a polyhouse when i lived in Salisbury NC. The house had three men and four women. It was run by a woman who was Domme above all until she met my creativity.

I didn't live there but would go by four times a week and it always led to sex, BDSM, watchig others have sex, or just eating dinner and watching a movie with my hand on a bob


All good stuff. I want it again. I have a nice 3 bedroom house in Charlotte NC.

Read my profile.. drop a line regardless.



Sheesh. Dear, If you're going at this from the perspective laid out in your profile, I wish you all the luck in the world with that. I can tell you from experience that it is a lot harder to run a household than it looks on paper, that the house leadership's work is -never- done, that finding good servants takes -being- an exceptional Keeper, and that sex (while for most comprising a rather strong impetus and providing a heck of a lot of enjoyment) actually comprises a very small portion of the breadth and depth of running a household.

I sincerely hope that you are as creative as you say you are -- because you're going to need every single bit of that creativity to keep a household up and running... there's no rest for the wicked, and no mercy for the Management.

bonne chance,

Calla

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 9:11:17 AM   
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OP, your postings here on the boards, your profile, and your journal are all concentrated on one aspect of a BDSM life as was pointed out by the 2 previous posters on this thread. You go on about sex, sex, sex, kink, and also kinky sex. That is literally it. I always feel wary when I run across someone who is one-dimensional, it seems rather like a paper doll. Is this all life is to you? To be Mr. UberKink? You seem rather fixated on putting forth a certain image, as though people will doubt your credentials in ultra-kinkiness, but in pushing so hard to be taken seriously in the sex and kink depts you come across as being rather unrealistic- extremely unrealistic for someone that wants to run a poly house which is a situation with so much more to it than just sex and kink.

This is just my own opinion, but if this poly house is a true desire of yours you may want to put some time into conveying a more rounded picture of what you envision as it pertains to real life. Drop the stereotyped responses about beautiful women and how so many people in general don't meet your exacting standards or do things in what you consider to be the 'right' way. Surely you realize that there are many approaches to anything. The story of how you brought the bad people to justice just seems silly-it could be true but sets off my BS detector. Talk more about yourself as a person beyond sex and kink. Maybe even fix the typos and grammar mistakes that riddle all of your writing. These things would give the impression of a man who isn't just looking to get himself off, but of someone who was putting some time and effort into things.
Good luck with things.

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 9:48:22 AM   
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The way to begin a poly household is one relationship at a time.  First you find that one.  Then after that relationship is strong and stable you can find another.  You just don't announce that you have 3 bedrooms and want to fill them with sex partners for yourself.  

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 5:00:00 PM   
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I am honest enough to say I don't want the "be my buddy / best friend" BS.

I know having and running a house is work. I watched Jenn do it for years. I know there is real life and exponentially more drama. I laugh through Big Love because I watched the opposite at Jenn's. Jenns house was a Bi Domme with three men and three women.

She needed "Drkness.. take me away" breaks.

They stoped being sexual and just wanted tio hang around for a bed and dinner. So DAMN straight I will expect a person to know what they are involved in and that I expect stamina.

95% can't get past my first interview question. I may never find what i want, but why settle. Settling IS WORSE THAN VANILLA!

I see a rash of women who have decided to call themselves slaves in hopes of having a house to stay in and let "master" go pay the bills.
Master comes back and nothing is done and she doesn't feel good. That is when you say DUDE, SHE IS CONNING YOU INTO FREE RENT!

Some want "Just whip me a little but I don't want sex" .. "It would ruin our friendship" .. YEP THROW HER ASS TOO!

The best I had was April. She lasted 6 months but wanted to go back to drugs and I ABSOLUTELY WILL NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH DRUGS! April would come over three nights a week and weekends. Weekends were 20 to 25 rounds of headbanger fucking over three days. We got pizza and beer and never let the house!

I want Jenn's and April's with STAMINA!


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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 5:28:43 PM   
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Dang, sounds like you have a lot of rejected subbie women on the curb outside your house.  That doesn't violate some zoning ordinance?

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 5:31:52 PM   
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hahah DarkSteven.. i am sneezing Diet Dew now!!!

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 5:33:56 PM   
lizi


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Dude, whatever 
I tried. Go ahead and play king in your ego driven fantasy life. The blustering attitude makes it seem as though you have a deep desire to come off as Mr. Badass...it's just really silly.

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 5:45:27 PM   
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quote:

I may never find what i want, but why settle.


I do agree, you probably will never find this.  Not easy to find a bunch of females who will fuck you all day and night, clean the house, and support you with rent. 



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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 5:51:17 PM   
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I make six figures, I can pay my bills.. I just don't want a moocher without a sex drive.

A sex drive at my level.. YES I AM A HARDENED SEX ADDICT!

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 5:52:47 PM   
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A bunch of my rejects are female cops. Ithought they were perfect because they came with their own handcuffs.

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 7:21:58 PM   
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My god... I knew you were bad before this thread, saw your picture and rolled my eyes, but you have outdone yourself!






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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 7:50:12 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: loverly

hahah DarkSteven.. i am sneezing Diet Dew now!!!


I am pleased that you appreciate My humor.  I will keep you in mind for My polyhouse.


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/2/2010 9:04:33 PM   
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Oh goodness...where oh WHERE to start with the OP?

<sigh>

There are many, many beautiful submissive women on this board who also happen to be (I imagine ) very good at sex.

As to whether or not they want to have sex with you is another thing entirely.

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/3/2010 4:35:46 AM   
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Ahh so now we get to the heart of the matter..

If you are a beautiful person it is okay to want these things.

If you are not beautiful; wanting these things is foolish.. go under a rock and die or at best find find a fattie who wants light whipping and be happy.

The worlds mentality .. "Doesn't ugly fat boy know his place in this world.."

** MY RESPONSE!!

FUCK THE WORLD and what the world wants.

I AM WHAT I AM AND WANT WHAT I WANT!

HAVING THE COURAGE TO SAY AND MEAN "FUCK THE WORLD" IS PURE DOMINANCE AND TRUE INDIVIDUALISM...

I not only have the mind and will to do this on a board, but in the flesh as well!

AND I HAVE DONE IT IN THE FLESH AS WELL!

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/3/2010 4:55:09 AM   
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Done it all?.....impressive.

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/3/2010 4:57:14 AM   
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And he's done it in caps as well! 

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/3/2010 4:59:52 AM   
Jeffff


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Damn... I feel so...fake.

Will you mentor me?


Oops....Me?

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RE: Starting a Polyhouse - 6/3/2010 5:02:18 AM   
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I read and re-read LittleBroken's post and no where does she mention anything at all about your appearance being the reason that, perhaps, beautiful women on this site might not want to have sex with you.

I have a feeling this "sex addiction" of yours is really a way to deal with your poor self-image.

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