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lurch999 -> Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:43:12 PM)

i love Ma'am's feets. Often when i am granted feets time i will start to baby-talk to the feet. i speak in a high babyish voice and i say phrases like "they is pretties" and "pretty pretty pretty feeties" and "Ma'am's feeties are pretty oh yes they are!". Ma'am doesn't find it offensive but sometimes it does get on Her nerves. Ma'am says that baby talk, while perfectly acceptable for babies or pets, may not be the most respectful way to speak to one's Domme, or Her body parts. i also wonder if it could be considered objectifying, especially because i am supposed to be the object.



LadyPact -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:45:01 PM)

yep.



sirsholly -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:46:07 PM)

I give her credit...if you did that to me you would find my toes up your nose...and not because you want to talk to her feet, but the high pitched baby talk would drive me nuts.



Miyani -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:47:31 PM)

It wouldn't annoy me, no. It would piss me the hell off. Of course, that's completely irrelevant to your situation. If it gets on her nerves, don't do it.
Also, this bit?

"Ma'am says that baby talk, while perfectly acceptable for babies or pets, may not be the most respectful way to speak to one's Domme, or Her body parts."

That says to me that she's offended by it.

Edited for a seriously goofy misspelling.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:48:23 PM)

I would slap you really hard. And I don't generally get that aggressive for small stuff.



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:50:35 PM)

Sounds like what you want to some extent is age play, and it's definitely appropriate to clearly discuss and negotiate that beforehand.  Otherwise it is disconcerting as hell when your partner whips that out on you and you aren't emotionally prepared to be in enough of a parenting or caretaking space to deal with a "little" as opposed to the adult partner you were expecting.

And yes, it would probably annoy me immensely if it were not discussed and negotiated beforehand that you wanted to go into "little space" while doing foot worship, if you already knew beforehand that you were likely to go into this space.  Sometimes "little" headspace can show up and surprise someone in the course of a scene, and catch you both unprepared.  But if you want and plan to go into it, you have the responsibility to state this up front, and your partner has the absolute right to know and consent to this beforehand. 

Some people are not comfortable playing with "littles" because even the appearance of being sexual with a child or a childlike person is deeply uncomfortable to them, even if that person is physically an adult.  Respect those boundaries and disclose to your partner ahead of time that you want to baby-talk and be "little" for part of all of the scene, so that they are mentally and emotionally prepared to relate to your inner "little self", and fully consenting to this scene.  If they aren't, then they probably will be freaked out, upset or annoyed.



Miyani -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:52:50 PM)

It doesn't sound to me like he's talking as if he's a baby. He's talking as if her feet are babies. It's less feeling little, and more "aww, aren't her pwecious toesies just so adorable?"

~retches~

But I could be wrong, that's just what I got from it.



laurell3 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:54:14 PM)

I agree with LnT. Not only would it be annoying, but you would be out the door as fast as I could toss you. Not because of objectification, because ageplay is a hard limit for me and anything remotely close to being ageplay is much more than a turn off for me personally.

Why don't you ask her instead of us though lurch?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:55:00 PM)

I am a friend of Littles! (though not an infantilism player) So I agree with Miyani. Plus, I hate baby talk. I talk to children in my normal adult voice. Which might explain why kids tend to like me... hmm...



domiguy -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:56:15 PM)

Feet are fairly fucking gross. The exception to the rule are my own which, needless to say, are amazingly breathtaking.

You little male subbies are really fairly vile and disturbed folks. You have had an affect on all of CM.


Why in the fuck do female subs show photos of their feet? No Dom guy gives a flying fuck about your feet. If he does he is a subby in a dom's mandals.


To prove a point, Male Doms usually don't ave pics of their feet in their profiles. It just isn't anything that we give a fuck about and therefore it as no meaning or place in a profile.

Female "dommes" have profiles littered with their big fat furry feet. They are catering to the desires of the weenie male subs. Yuck!!! That is some rather Fuckitty yuckitty shit. So they make you weasles paint their nails and give them a pedicure....This gets your rocks off?

No wonder you fuckers are so angry.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 12:58:40 PM)

I do NOT have pictures of my feet! Are you KIDDING me, that would be inviting all those toe suckers to write to me about my pedicure and my shoes and such.

BLEH! [:'(]



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 1:29:25 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy
No wonder you fuckers are so angry.


Sure.  It has nothing to do with a male dom coming into the female dominant form and making annoying remarks while trying to be funny.



sirsholly -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 1:31:24 PM)

quote:

Plus, I hate baby talk. I talk to children in my normal adult voice. Which might explain why kids tend to like me... hmm...
i do too...kids hate being talked to like they are infants.



MzticStormz -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 1:35:37 PM)

I adore foot fetishers, and the first time you talked baby talk to my feet I would laugh simply because I would think you were kidding.

If it happened again we would be talking about some serious behavior modifications that would not be entirely pleasant. That is if I didn't just slap you for being disrespectful. Like Lady H, I am not usually quickly violent but this might just trigger that reaction from me.

Mz Stormz



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 3:34:46 PM)

Honestly, I am not that usually aggro... but some doop tried that on ME in the past, and not only is touching my feet verboten, but the toesies talk was [:'(]



LadyCimarron -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 3:49:37 PM)

Yes, that would be as annoying as hell. BTW- Its not called feet time its called foot WORSHIP. What you are doing is not worshipful or respectful. I don't know any woman that likes a man to talk to her like that. Not even if he is talking to the feet.



Tantriqu -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 3:55:46 PM)

Not for long! But for me it would be the 'ew' factor as well as the disobedience.

She told you she doesn't want it, yet you continue to do it and whine about it here. A twue sub would just file it under, 'She doesn't like it, let me find something else she REALLY does', and drop it. Permanently.
Sounds like a case of smart-ass masochism or it's all about your fetishism.

So, talk to her about how you're going to deal with it, or prepare for the ultimate sub-drop.



LadyCimarron -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 4:12:03 PM)

[sm=mistress.gif]    Don't hate the player, Domiguy, hate the game.   We girls can't help it if we are beautiful from our head down to our painted toenails. "I enjoy being a girl!" [sm=mistress.gif]    



blackpearl81 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 4:56:12 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I would slap you really hard. And I don't generally get that aggressive for small stuff.



Thats.... hot!



Andalusite -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/4/2010 7:27:26 PM)

Face slapping is hot, but not when the person doing it is genuinely angry or annoyed. I don't think it sounds hot or fun at all, and I might get a little annoyed, but I'd be more likely to accidentally get violent if someone licked or touched my feet unexpectedly than if they talked to them. They're dreadfully ticklish!

If she doesn't like it, or finds it annoying, then stop doing it. It sounds like she gave you another chance after the Xbox incident, but you're still on thin ice. Are you deliberately setting out to make her decide you're more trouble than you're worth?



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