what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion



Message

bethylovescuddle -> what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 10:04:51 AM)

So , what do you think makes a good One?
To me, i think a lot depends on having a nature that cares about their submissives, being able to guide and support just as the sub obeys and supports them. They are not just the one in control, they are the one who make decisions often that affect the lives of their other.



divi -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 10:07:21 AM)

I like how a Dominant male can walk in leather pants without getting a wedgie



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 10:07:27 AM)

Same as makes any person a good person.



kiwisub12 -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 11:12:27 AM)

My Sir is a good dominant for me because not only did he love my body, appreciate my mind and enjoy my sense of humor, he also encouraged my crafty side, allowing me to spend time in the sewing room - away from him - sometimes for extended periods of time when the muse hit me.

So basically for me a good dominant is one that enjoys all facets of my personality, and doesn't enjoy fighting. [:D]



DesFIP -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 11:41:23 AM)

One who is compatible with you. For some that means lots of contact, for others it must include lots of alone time.
What do you need? Someone who punishes first, and then talks to you or the other way around? Or no punishment at all, just communication?



leadership527 -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 1:17:14 PM)

One who is able to dominate you in a way that you find appealing and who is able to relate to you otherwise in a way that you find appealing.



IronBear -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 3:01:43 PM)

Good Dominants/Masters/Mistresses shall hence forth wear a large pendant displaying the words: "Good Master (Dominant or Mistress) about their neck. This pendant will show gold roses attached to attest their "Good" rating as ordained my the International D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. Association of Dominants. 



osf -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 4:32:55 PM)

I think the first quality would be maturity, which is what i like in my Domme Miss Cillie, it's amazing haw she has matured in the 3 years we have been together



DarkSteven -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 5:26:24 PM)

There's no such thing as a Universal Good Dom.  I have been lousy for some subs, and very good for others.  It's whether they provide a good fit to a specific sub.



AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 5:38:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: divi

I like how a Dominant male can walk in leather pants without getting a wedgie


Further Proof I am not a a Twue Dominate Mail. I can't do this. I at times think I am becomeing one with the wedgie.

QSM



SimplyMichael -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 5:46:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: divi

I like how a Dominant male can walk in leather pants without getting a wedgie


Leather pants never give wedgies, the trouble is keeping them on because the weight makes them slide down.

My first IM to a chick here recently was "on your knees slut" and she thought that was awesome.

In all honesty, modesty is the sign of a good dominant, which is why so many women on CM think I am such an amazing dominant. We all know how great I am and knowing that despite all that, I am still probably the most modest dominant on CM is, frankly, utterly amazing.

yeah, I would have to say modesty is the best sign, after that, a screen name that screams modesty is another good sign, perhaps also that despite being handsom they don't use their own face as an icon, knowing how unfair that might be. Yep, those are all the things that point to an amazing dominant.



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 5:48:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Good Dominants/Masters/Mistresses shall hence forth wear a large pendant displaying the words: "Good Master (Dominant or Mistress) about their neck. This pendant will show gold roses attached to attest their "Good" rating as ordained my the International D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. Association of Dominants. 


I can't help but notice that you aren't wearing one of those pendants, IB. Now I find it hard to believe you aren't so there must be another explanation, right? Oh and what the heck is D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.?

zeph



kiwisub12 -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 5:56:04 PM)

I think the sign of a good dominant is .............................. drum roll  ................................................Aries   -   or Taurus.



zephyroftheNorth -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 5:57:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

I think the sign of a good dominant is .............................. drum roll  ................................................Aries   -   or Taurus.


Oh groooooooan, kiwi, you should be ashamed. I don't suppose those are the signs which are compatible with yours, huh? Naaaaaa must be a coincidence [;)]



kiwisub12 -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 5:58:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael





Leather pants never give wedgies, the trouble is keeping them on because the weight makes them slide down.

.



Gosh, i would have thought anyone with a waist would be able to keep them up?  Could it be that you are getting a little ...... thick  .....  around the middle?

[:D]



AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 6:21:27 PM)

D>I>L>L>I>G>A>F

Do I Look Like I Give A Fuck.

QSM



kiwisub12 -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 6:31:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

I think the sign of a good dominant is .............................. drum roll  ................................................Aries   -   or Taurus.


Oh groooooooan, kiwi, you should be ashamed. I don't suppose those are the signs which are compatible with yours, huh? Naaaaaa must be a coincidence [;)]




hehe   - actually, to be perfectly honest, those were the two that i could remember  - but it was too good a straight line to ignore.



AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 6:40:24 PM)

This is a Pretty Dominant Sign



kiwisub12 -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 7:18:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Good Dominants/Masters/Mistresses shall hence forth wear a large pendant displaying the words: "Good Master (Dominant or Mistress) about their neck. This pendant will show gold roses attached to attest their "Good" rating as ordained my the International D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. Association of Dominants. 


I can't help but notice that you aren't wearing one of those pendants, IB. Now I find it hard to believe you aren't so there must be another explanation, right? Oh and what the heck is D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F.?

zeph




Oh zeph   -  sometimes you are so slow! [8|]    Didn't you read SimplyMichaels post about doms being modest?   Its under his black shirt, because he is modest and honest and veeeeeeeeeeeery vvvvvvvvvvvvvery domly.  [:D]



DesFIP -> RE: what is a sign of a good Dominant/ Master/ Mistress (6/7/2010 7:22:12 PM)

DILLIGAF _ does it look like a give a fuck
Urban dictionary to the rescue



Page: [1] 2   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125