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Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/11/2010 7:16:52 PM)
Not every one plays by the Safe and Sane credence. quote: ORIGINAL: MissBeautiful2U A real-time friend of mine has "snuff play" as a hard limit in his profile on here. When I quizzed him on it because I really HAD thought that went without saying because to me anything intended to bring about the death of your play partner violates both "SAFE" and "SANE" for me. He just laughed and said you never can be too careful.

ryanErlanger -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/12/2010 12:01:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub12 What i like about people who espouse necrophilia, is that i'm fairly sure that they have never seen a fresh dead body. Most of them have sphincture relaxation after death, so there would be the poop and pee to deal with before the sex - unless of course, you also liked that.[8\|] Dead people aren't just like a big doll. Dead weight is called that for a reason. And there is that whole disturbing tendency for orifaces to leak, and did i mention the gas expulsion? Damn you... You're giving me flashbacks to when my closest friend died, and I said my goodbyes in the ER room where she had passed away.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/12/2010 12:16:37 AM)
The rationalization and meaning of Death, is on par with rationalization and meaning of life. Both exist in this world and must be accepted as part of the natural order of things. The answer as to why somebody would list Death as a hard limit, it tends to convey/express just how far one is willing to go. That they will submit thier living self fully. Death being an easy way out of living or exisitence. For some, the act of living and rationionalizing it and coping with life is difficult. There are no one wayism answers in regards to why somebody would seek out death. None the less, Death is a an outer limit within the norm for most people.

reynardfox -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/12/2010 2:31:12 AM)
This place is swarming with nutters, and I'm not sure about me and you. In fact, I'm having my doubts about you when you post regarding death fetishism, - grave doubts. ahahahahahahahhahahaaaaaa!

dreamerdreaming -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/12/2010 2:44:53 AM)
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IronBear -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/12/2010 7:41:25 AM)
'Tis but a cry for help. Childish but a cry ne're the less.

blueeyedbbwsub -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/12/2010 9:55:28 AM)
I've told my family and friends that none of them are allowed to die in the next forever and a day. After having lost my mom, my favorite uncle and my brother in law in less than 2 yrs, I can't take it anymore. So death of any kind is a hard limit for all of us. Just not gonna mention hard limit, since I'd then have to go into more explanation than they'd ever want to understand. [>:]

femasoslave -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/15/2010 9:01:28 PM)
I met a Dom who i was in contact with for a few months and he told me about some previous sub/slaves he's met, he said that some had a desire to be spit roasted over an open flame and some who thought that the giving their life to their Dom was a 'pure' sign of submission. After i stopped seeing him i got wondering if what he wanted was a sub/slave who had those traits and how he described it was a way of finding out if i was willing to be that way inclined.......which i'm not. Then on the other hand i wonder if when i'm in my twilight years if my Master dies before me whether i will want to live without him......

camille65 -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/15/2010 9:32:24 PM)
It depends on whether or not he'd have my remains turned into a lab created diamond. Otherwise I'm not interested. Although if I became terminally ill I'd have an easier time letting go if I put the 'when' into his hands. And the 'how'. Dang. That means I can't solidly say that death is a hard limit for me!

DisenchantedLife -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/15/2010 9:49:49 PM)
quote: Death as a hard limit has always made me chuckle. I don't care how hard a limit death is for someone.. they are going to die. ::laughs:: Good point! In fact, we are all dying. As we type. Personally, cannabalism is a hard limit for me.

DisenchantedLife -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/15/2010 9:53:13 PM)
quote: Although if I became terminally ill I'd have an easier time letting go if I put the 'when' into his hands. And the 'how'. Actually. You dont have to worry about "letting go" when you're terminally ill. They just drug you up till you are incoherent and you havent a clue wtf is going on. Much less that you are drugged up. And Theeeeeeeeeeen they starve you until you die of starvation. I forgot to mention. There is no choice. The hospital and/or hospice pretty much make the choice.

DesFIP -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/16/2010 4:12:40 AM)
Incorrect. You can sign a DNR. You can give medical directives to another to make the choices for you. It's only when you neither make any choices or give others the power to make the choices that the hospital decides. Not choosing is itself a choice.

xssve -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/16/2010 5:43:56 AM)
I think your ability to consent ends when you stop breathing. As for Dolcett girl fetishes, spend some time in the ER, it ain't that pretty at all.

mnottertail -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/16/2010 6:27:19 AM)
well, even if it is a soft limit, it comes to the same thing, don't it?

Jeffff -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/16/2010 6:29:09 AM)
I think it might be hard to shout a safe word if you were being chocked to death on a cock

mnottertail -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/16/2010 6:34:25 AM)
unless mm-mmm goo was your safeword, but then that would sorta defeat the purpose, no?

maybemaybenot -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/16/2010 6:45:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DisenchantedLife quote: Although if I became terminally ill I'd have an easier time letting go if I put the 'when' into his hands. And the 'how'. Actually. You dont have to worry about "letting go" when you're terminally ill. They just drug you up till you are incoherent and you havent a clue wtf is going on. Much less that you are drugged up. And Theeeeeeeeeeen they starve you until you die of starvation. I forgot to mention. There is no choice. The hospital and/or hospice pretty much make the choice. You need to read up on the difference between starvation, malnutrition and dehydration. There is no choice ? Wrong ! Any terminally ill patient, or any person for that matter can choose to prolong their life with feeding tubes and IVs. Not to mention mechanical life support. It's called Advanced Directives. Using myself as an example. I am healthy.. I have Advanced Directives and a Health Care Proxy. I have clearly stated my wishes, should I become ill and am unable to speak for myself. Nothing more than pain medicine and oxygen for me. Which means, should I ever become terminally ill, I will eventually die of dehydration, most likely. A perfectly natural way to go. IMO. mbmbn

MsFleur -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/16/2010 8:47:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven You're not going to believe this, but that is a kink. Google "Dolcett girl"... And now I've seen it all. Wow...

SamanthaQ -> RE: 'Death' as a hard limit (6/17/2010 2:58:56 PM)
My guess is it was a joke. I was about to say sarcasm but no, that would mean they want death. It's one of those statements that is so over the top that it's obviously a joke. or It was meant to imply that they have no other limits.

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